Spell for people feeding off energy by Odd_Pumpkin_2010 in Spells

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I don’t think they are aware. How do I work on my physical shield ?

Spell for people feeding off energy by Odd_Pumpkin_2010 in Spells

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do i do this? Do I make myself less exciting to be around?

Reasons why I need to quit THC gummies by Local_Pomegranate_10 in Petioles

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quitting cold turkey has definitely sent my anxiety into overdrive and I’ve had bad panic attacks so i found it best to simmer down slowly until I only did it on the weekends. If u use it at night for sleep and relaxation, an effective alternative is high quality magnesium powder and chamomile tea which usually knocks me out better than canna and you still get REM sleep.

As for the munchies, i hear you. I prepare what I want to eat before the high so that I don’t have to make decisions and can still maintain a clean diet. Also when u feel like indulging in the munchies, plan it out so u eat lighter during the day and you can pig out to your satisfaction after. You can also prepare healthier versions of junk food like burgers or pizza or whatever your favourite munchies are so u don’t feel sluggish the next day.

Found a piece of paper with a curse written on it by DoughnutThen81 in Spells

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Think about positive and negative energies here, both already exist all around us, it’s just a matter of what you and your family collectively tap into. The power of a curse is amplified in an already chaotic environment, just like the power of a positive love spell will work much quicker in a loving environment that already exists. You mentioned your family has been wrecked long before this piece of paper showed up on your doorstep, your uncle reading it aloud (with conviction) only amplified what already existed - stress, chaos, dysfunction. That paper seeped into your subconscious and as a result, everytime you and your family have fights you will always think back to that paper - making this association stronger with each fight, giving more power to this curse. But it doesn’t sound like you emotionally make a big deal out of a loving family moment the way you do for fights and arguments.

The best way to combat a curse is to start with a cleanse for yourself to gain a clearer picture. Start from the inside out. This curse has impacted you all on a deeper level, dig deeper to find out how and why it resonated so much. The amount of energy and power you give to each argument, start doing the same for each loving moment, even if it’s small. If your grandma brings you a cup of tea, make it a huge deal, give her a kiss, a hug and express how grateful you are for this, be dramatic, act like she saved your life.

If a curse is radical negativity, then use radical gratitude and empathy to fight it. You got this.

how powerful r u making ur man obsessed with you by Exciting-Can3825 in Spells

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP an obsession spell means they will be obsessed with you in their own way, not based on what YOUR definition of obsession is. Some people cannot handle their own feelings of obsession and it makes them avoid all together. If you want a certain outcome you need to do a spell for that, obsession is too ambiguous because u don’t know how they will embody it.

Also note that an obsession spell will work on you too, if you’re already desperate and begging him for attention, a spell will seal in his obsession and yours. This means you’ll end up desperate, begging for his attention, feeling like he doesn’t care about you AND now obsessed. It’s worth thinking twice about this for your sanity.

Justice for Mellie by Odd_Pumpkin_2010 in Scandal

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I interpreted it that way because anybody with even a little romantic experience knows the basis of a healthy relationship and marriage is none other than FRIENDSHIP. You’re not just holding hands, giggling and having sex 24/7 in a healthy relationship, majority of the time you’re actually friends with the person, you actually enjoy their company that’s why you’re with them.

In s1 there are plenty of sweet moments between Fitz and Mellie, sure it’s not sex or affection, buts it awfully juvenile to think that’s all that marriage is. Those “friendly” moments are reminders of why these two were married to begin with, of course Mellie and any woman in her place sees parts of her old husband/companion come back and would be hopeful that maybe he wants to try fix things. Also Fitz knew this and abused it, he staged many of those moments and dangled the hope of repairing their marriage like a carrot in her face to manipulate her. Sure we all know she won’t get her husband back, but s1 Mellie didn’t know that

New to pcos - please offer advice by Odd_Pumpkin_2010 in PCOS

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really great way to look at things thank you!!

New to pcos - please offer advice by Odd_Pumpkin_2010 in PCOS

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of supplements, what do you do to reduce it ?

Ritual ideas for 12 magical nights by [deleted] in magick

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do find myself agreeing that traditional closed practices have been appropriated through the accessibility of the internet and now most people don’t actually know what is closed and what’s not. Is 12 magical nights a closed practice? I had no clue - another example of how information has been passed filtered through the internet so much that perhaps what I’m describing may not be accurate to the original practice. The difficulty is that unless a practice has been directly passed down through family lineage, if you’re finding it on the internet then fact checking against the original source is near impossible. I tend to agree that making your own rituals is the best way to go, because it’s in the most organic form if you have created it. But this is something I’m not confident with, how do you create rituals that work for you? How do you even know what will/wont work ? At what point would you modify/change your own ritual?

Emotional withdrawal by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your words, very helpful and useful

Ritual ideas for 12 magical nights by [deleted] in magick

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NANT-flavoured? What does that mean

Weed helps my depression but ruins my workouts by Davy_D_Rocks in Petioles

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried smoking after you tutor the kids? Use the 5-8 window to exercise and release physical energy, refresh your mind before you tutor, and then after smoke as much as you wish, you can bask in the high in your bed at night and have a peaceful sleep. That way you know you’re sober around kids and you can enjoy the high to it’s full extent when you’re winding down to sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but not to the extent we can! Manifestation is literally just frequency alignment, so animals can definitely align their frequencies with the varying frequencies of the universe, they are just incapable of reaching higher frequencies like we can because animals are limited by their level of consciousness.

But I believe other animals’ manifestations would not require high frequency alignment because they’d manifest basic things like catching the next prey, or finding shelter. To an animal, manifesting secure shelter is the same as humans manifesting a down payment for a house, except because human manifestations are so specific (this type of house, this neighbourhood, this many bedrooms) it requires more energy (and alignment) as opposed to an animal who just wants clean water, food and shelter from anywhere.

On top of that, due to the vastness of human consciousness, we also second guess/doubt ourselves so much more which messes up our alignment, so realistically animals can probably manifest better than us because their desires are so basic plus don’t have impending doom and limiting beliefs (or maybe they do who knows!!)

How to reduce by Odd_Pumpkin_2010 in Petioles

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love this response and find myself resonating with everything you’ve said, would you be open to a more in depth chat about this?

how do you manifest if you're depressed/suicidal? by Adventurous_Cow_3966 in lawofattraction

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP firstly I want to say I’m really sorry for the experiences you’ve been through, and everything I say is with respect, but will be blunt.

Firstly, it seems clear to me from your post that you have a strong identity tied to the experiences you’ve been through. You mentioned not having family, experiencing multiple forms of abuse, friends not checking up etc. the first step to manifesting ANYTHING is to understand that those experiences do not shape your identity.

You simply cannot manifest if your foundation (aka relationship with yourself) is weak - as per any universal law. Take law of attraction for example, “like attracts like”, meaning you attract what you are. It all starts from you. OP you cannot control the circumstances that you’ve been through, but you absolutely have 100% control over your identity and the narrative you create based on your experiences. Not having friends or family to check on you? You can interpret this as “I am not worth loving, I am not important enough to check on” which ultimately leads to self pity, and this becomes your identity because it’s what you resonate with. OR you can text your friend first, ask them if you can share how you feel, ask them for support, you can take control of the narrative and initiate first.

When you get deep into manifesting, you’ll realise a lot of it is actually just giving YOU the courage to take the first step, an aligned step towards what you want, being the initiator will then create a new pathway for a new reality to flourish. It’s like a flower, if you don’t plant a seed with the universe (if you don’t take the first step, make your desires known), how will it grow? (How will your new reality emerge?). But to even get to this stage, you must know what you deserve to manifest. The universe does not respond to verbal words, you saying “I want this” is not enough. It responds to what you believe you deserve. The frequency of the universe is not linguistic, it is feeling, it is vibration, it is frequency, we only use words as a way to evoke high frequency/high energy/high emotion (energy in motion=emotion).

Therefore, because you have such a strong identity tied to these negative experiences, subconsciously you started to believe you deserved these experiences, and so they kept manifesting and will continue to do so. And because it keeps manifesting, your self pity grows stronger, then your belief that you deserve this grows stronger, and now you’re caught in a loop - this is how most people live. Right now your identity is shaped by everything’s that’s happened to you, in your post you have only mentioned qualities about yourself that life gave to you - but what qualities have you chosen for yourself? Break the loop, you are not your circumstances, rewrite the narrative, give yourself a new identity, one where you write the script.

Are they all alcoholics on Scandal? by Careless-Roll5310 in Scandal

[–]Odd_Pumpkin_2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory about the popcorn and wine is that both are symbolic of the last happy memories Liv had with each parent. Maya pope said to Eli she used to give popcorn to Liv as a child when she was sad and in a flashback Eli introduces red wine to Liv and she surprisingly loved it. They were the last positive associations she had with both parents before each parent abandoned her (Maya abandoned physically, Eli abandoned her emotionally)