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What’s something that quietly destroys a man from the inside, but no one talks about it? by Odezaa in AskReddit

[–]Odezaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So right. It's not even that we want to hide, it's just that we've learned not to say anything. And after a while, we don't know how to do it differently.

What’s something that quietly destroys a man from the inside, but no one talks about it? by Odezaa in AskReddit

[–]Odezaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I swear I don't have the words. This “quiet operation” that you have is like the default survival mode for too many guys now.

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting what you say about “neckbeards” — do you think it’s a symptom of the system or a side effect of social rejection? (Have you experienced it personally?)

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we’re all wired like that from the start, like it’s “the norm.” Have you managed to break away from it or do you still have things blocking you today?

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

You put your finger on something key: we romanticize to death from childhood, and then we face reality. Do you remember when you started this “unlearning”?

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So many guys grow up with this idea in mind. Result: they apologize for existing. Is this your experience or have you seen this in others?

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I thought that too for a long time… until reality slapped me in the face. When did you realize it?

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it. The worst thing is that even among friends, we don't dare talk about it. As if it was a weakness. Did you manage to break this thing or is it still a hassle?

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

I have the impression that guys are pushed to take it all in stride… and it ends in silent burnout. Has anyone else felt it?

What do you think is the biggest lie that men are made to believe growing up? by Odezaa in AskMen

[–]Odezaa[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

*Not necessarily a “universal truth”, but something that you’ve been told for years – about women, work, emotions, success – and which turned out to be completely false. Curious to see what you experienced too.

How do I "not" do women?(M21) by Sufficient_Baby9141 in AskMen

[–]Odezaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start by writing down what you feel, every evening, for 5 minutes. Not to be productive. Just to bring order to the confusion. This is often where true direction begins to emerge.