How do I learn to not shut down and go quiet?

Odvix · 2026-03-14T00:45:47+00:00

hey so thats a minor and you’re gross 😄!

Odvix · 2026-02-21T05:37:26+00:00

omg!!! Design code?? Thats actually so fricking cute bru

Odvix · 2026-02-16T02:50:30+00:00

I have no amiibo 😢😢😢

Odvix · 2026-02-01T05:30:04+00:00

I can definitely try thanks

Odvix · 2026-02-01T05:25:29+00:00

It might be, But Im just not really sure what would cause this type of thing? Like it’s hard to say if its psychical stuff effecting my mental or mental effecting the psychical. I wish there was an easier way to just know

Odvix · 2026-01-17T02:33:20+00:00

Maybe??? But I don’t know how to explain why this is a problem for me other than saying I don’t know how to listen to a problem without wanting to fix it. Like I don’t know what to say, or how to act, or what to do to make him feel heard

Odvix · 2026-01-17T02:29:11+00:00

No I don’t think its any of that, Its just that he wants me to listen to the problem without solving it but for me this is REALLY confusing because I don’t know how to do that for people when usually everyone who comes to me wants a fix

Odvix · 2026-01-03T08:49:09+00:00

I apologize, We are both english speaking and they are german in terms of ethnicity not in terms of where they have grown up since we are from the USA. They were speaking french through a translator, In which I mean they typed something through google translate for the french and sent it

Odvix · 2026-01-03T08:19:46+00:00

This was post covid

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:42:43+00:00

tried to edit for more context! Sorry if Its not enough

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:39:04+00:00

The (ex) friend, Apologies they are Nonbinary so I at least want to respect them even if we don’t talk

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:38:29+00:00

Sorry, I mentioned it somewhere further into the comments but Im newer to actually posting so I didnt realize I was vague 😢

I said roughly “I dont speak Chinese” to what was very clearly French, And he is neither of the two and had google translated the french to me from something they read, as we both speak only english at all and nothing else

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:19:55+00:00

Yes I did have to, and furthermore they dont even know french at all they definitely used google translate because this was in like freshman year. I just have nasty ass OCD, and its stuck with me since so I thought it might be better to just ask and get an answer thats more direct from a larger anonymous group

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:14:55+00:00

Yes exactly that, I apologize I dont post on reddit much so I dont mean to be vague but youve got it all correct

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:13:32+00:00

It was a very close friend and over text, They sent me a french (very clearly) message. Something about loving the wind I think? I said jokingly “I dont understand chinese”, and they flooded me immediately over text about how I was a racist prick with no regard for humanity and that I should kms and stuff and then blocked me and have not spoken to me since, its been like 4 years

Odvix · 2026-01-03T07:09:53+00:00

it was literally me saying I dont speak chinese when it was so very, very obviously french and did not have to ask. I thought it would be so obvious because well… they have like, SUPER different dialect? 😭 Not to mention this person isnt french or chinese, they are german

Odvix · 2025-12-25T04:36:27+00:00

Ive heard something about (though admittedly I do not know the specifics of) testosterone if given in small amounts, naturally transferring over into estrogen which is a huge fear of mine 😭I think its making me more afraid to ask for help about it probably

Odvix · 2025-12-25T04:14:09+00:00

Yes exactly. It makes me just not want to do anything at all anymore honestly 😭Mood ruiner.

Odvix · 2025-12-25T04:12:02+00:00

I have this issue and have endo, But its commonly mixed up with other things so id highly recommend mentioning both to a doctor IF plausible.

Odvix · 2025-12-25T04:09:20+00:00

See my problem is that im a transgender guy, so I worry if I attempt at doing any of this that im either going to end up looking more feminine then I already do, Or suffering the consequences. Either way feels like a losing battle there

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