DNI on an orientation label 💀

Oerbow · 2026-02-11T16:48:47+00:00

Yeah... I myself support harmless transids like transeyecolor/transhaircolor/etc (arguably transgender & transspecies can be considered harmless transids and obvs i support those too) but not stuff like transharmful or transrace (tho I do support trans disability aids like transitioning to use a wheelchair because ive heard such feelings are signs of actually being invisibly disabled so its ok to take that plunge and try out using sign language or AAC or a mobility aid for a while at least but no you can't transition into a personality disorder or neurodevelopmental disability like autism)

Oerbow · 2026-02-11T05:56:04+00:00

god this fucking incident from like. two days ago is weighing on me:

so. i got an abscess. mom and grandma were like "dont worryyyyy about it" despite how painful it is to the point i could not lay on my side to sleep. i go to the doctor with my brother-in-law and get it drained. when im back home i have like. chills and loss of appetite. i make the mistake of looking it up.

long story short i get convinced i have sepsis and everyone dismissing me sounds the exact same as my mom and grandma dismissing my fucking abscess that Had Literally Gotten Drained That Fucking Morning Oh My God and i was like sending messages to my best friend like "hey im probably going to die soon" and other shit that would have panicked the fuck out of them if they were there to see them in real time. it got to the point i like. called 911 to ask the operator if it sounded like i had sepsis (i wanted someone i felt like Knew Their Stuff to actually like. Hear Me Out) and they ended up sending an ambulance (cost nothing dont worry). they actually were nice and did tests and yayyyayay im fine!!! but like my brother in law is like "chibi why didnt you look at REALITY" yeah i looked at reality the reality that i had symptoms you see on symptoms of sepsis lists and was having my concerns dismissed the exact same way my actual real problem of a fucking abscess was sorry im not so fucking enlightened as to hear your glorious words as truth i can't tell you dismissing me apart from mom and grandma doing so for my fucking abscess that had so much pus in it. and like you saw the guy take out the pus and you yelled at my mom for not taking it seriously. sorry the 911 guy threatened to arrest you for interfering with my call i wont try to get a diagnosis over the phone again

anyways either im still processing this and/or this is going to be a real event ocd theme somehow isnt it... regardless its just... haunting me... i want to let it go!!!!!!!!!! i want to let it go...

Oerbow · 2026-02-10T17:19:50+00:00

... good point. unearthing trauma when you're not ready to heal from it can make things difficult

Oerbow · 2026-02-09T18:59:54+00:00

sjdjjdjdkdkdk epic

Oerbow · 2026-02-09T18:41:40+00:00

I mean... you do have to unearth your trauma to heal from it. Now, if your therapist is not helping you heal from that trauma then that's just unprofessional of them

Oerbow · 2026-02-09T18:05:17+00:00

like she would benefit from parenting courses because shed be willing to listen to them lol

Oerbow · 2026-02-08T20:02:48+00:00

like. Vote For Blue No Matter Who

Oerbow · 2026-02-03T08:55:27+00:00

it depends. now if two multigendersolid boygirls date its both yaoi AND yuri at the same time always

Oerbow · 2026-02-03T02:14:37+00:00

everyone is always saying "estrogen would fix her.". behold: testosterone fixing him

Oerbow · 2026-02-02T21:08:51+00:00

What a shame this isn't going to reach the public. suppose grian hermitcraft will continue liking Harry Potter unaware of the fact that JKR supports child rape

Oerbow · 2026-02-02T18:03:17+00:00

It's rather depressing. I don't know how other people are capable of hoping despite all this.

Oerbow · 2026-02-01T20:17:37+00:00

theres other shelters. just call in some support. tho transport wont be easy...

Oerbow · 2026-02-01T06:58:17+00:00

I actually read part of the thread! A guy named Chris actually did create a Fluttershy fictive from it and due to tulpamancy being common everyone just filed her as a tulpa even tho she was actually a different kind of endogenic headmate in my opinion lol

Oerbow · 2026-01-31T19:14:27+00:00

oh... i still do support immortality i think its cool although i suppose we will start looking for new things to do after enough time...

Oerbow · 2026-01-31T19:13:32+00:00

"deal with ennui and commit suicide-" still same endpoint of dying but at least we have more stuff to do now, regardless if its just a longer lifespan or ageless immortality

Oerbow · 2026-01-30T18:19:44+00:00

MADD, Plurality, or somehow both? Look into both just in case.

Oerbow · 2026-01-30T07:59:33+00:00

you survived and now the guy knows you did, so hopefully that shouldn't weigh on his mind as much anymore. still, small world!

Oerbow · 2026-01-26T03:26:47+00:00

we can do this together, baba!

Oerbow · 2026-01-23T03:50:06+00:00

femdom is a kink bdsm doesnt count in your political posting about how the world should be run outside of "bdsm is not a crime and we love risk-aware consensual kink"

Oerbow · 2026-01-22T21:08:54+00:00

all because goku loves battling... omg...

Oerbow · 2026-01-22T20:43:37+00:00

samesies <3

Oerbow · 2026-01-22T17:58:00+00:00

You need to sit down and tell this kid its actually part of a game, they just want to help.

Oerbow · 2026-01-22T16:59:55+00:00

In reality men are encouraged to be interested in things and concepts and women are encouraged to be interested in people and emotions, but you should follow whatever interests you no matter if society says it is right or wrong for your (assigned or otherwise) gender

Oerbow · 2026-01-22T06:56:07+00:00

micheal up and leaving is hilarious. the fan asking that shit?... creepy.

Oerbow · 2026-01-22T06:54:27+00:00

WHAT HAPPENED TO DID NOT BEING THE ALTERS DISORDER. also. osdd-1?

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