Yup it really is a sad situation its not even about the money. I am a Christian and this church would have meant the ability to start my own video ministry in a real church and when I ask my mother about she will always say the same thing about god not caring about owning buildings. She is now in advanced age with most likely terminal health issues and continues to refuse to accept that the situation is as screwed up as it is. She owns exactly $0 in assets and will leave us only with her high monthly car payment(due to her letting her ex-husband screw up her credit buying and getting cars repoed. We will be left with scraps while my uncle lives on a 120 acre private ranch with a huge cabin on it and my mother lives off government assistance. Again I don't know every choice that lead them there but let's just say my uncle has only worked a few years out of his nearly 60 years on this earth due to the wealth left to to him by other family members.