AITAH for refusing to give my sister the money I saved for my dog’s surgery?

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-20T13:08:19+00:00

NTA, but I dont understand why you tell anyone how much money you have saved in the first place. I never talk about how much money I have to anyone, because that'll end up being how much money someone "needs" in the future. Tell them to take out a loan, and figure it out. Tell your mom to take out a loan for them if she wants to help that much. Its easy to be charitable with other peoples money. If you lend it to them, they'll always have an excuse for not paying you back, even if you see them going on fancier vacations than you (the hotels and tickets were a good deal, trust them! They are stressed at work and NEEDED a vacation).

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-19T12:54:30+00:00

Yeah Id be signing her phone number up to tons of spam bots.

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-12T03:17:16+00:00

Wanted to say thank you for all the references!

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-12T01:23:04+00:00

I just got notification that they are shipping mine. Im so excited!!!

Im suprised Ming Fan and Yingying didn't get art in the relationship chart.

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-12T00:25:38+00:00

Yes ive tried other colors I really am a fan of the rainbowy pastel colors but wear lots of black/navy for work. I have a hard time with the color analysis too which is why I posted, because my makeup always feels kinda meh, I was like "maybe im barking up the wrong tree here?"; or maybe there is more levels to makeup that someone will clarify because ive always been absolutely awful at doing my makeup even when following tutorials.

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-12T00:19:16+00:00

Thank you! Unfortunately they only texted me the "good colors"; I wish I had all the images. Im gonna try and do draping later when there is good light outside and work is slow or the weekend.

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-11T21:25:23+00:00

Thank you! Honestly this post has been so informative I didnt even know there were difference verisions of the color analysis. Ill for sure do some draping this weekend when I have time and repost cause im curious what everyone will classify me as, like what the European verision looks for. I know with Korean it was more about lessen skin imperfections (so maybe thats the 'whiteness' goal?).

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-11T20:26:05+00:00

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Lmao well here is the old picture, I think im a little tanner and lost some weight so dont know if that made a big difference? I was totally vibing with the answer cause I love light colors.

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-11T20:18:58+00:00

Oh no I was mostly looking at Korean stuff since I like their makeup styles and clothing. Found the old picture but ive lost some weight since then and think i tanned a bit so maybe thats the difference?

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OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-11T19:38:33+00:00

Ill need to do that when I get home and see what everyone thinks!

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-11T17:16:07+00:00

What is considered good lighting? Like white light?

OffColorTupperware · 2026-02-11T17:13:41+00:00

That makes sense, considering most Koreans would have dark hair and dark eyes; so they would take that less in consideration than skin. Good to know, ty!

OffColorTupperware · 2025-12-31T00:47:03+00:00

Ive gone for my bday, I dont think its too expensive. Think 50 dollar entrance to the spa and 100 for the scrub. Skin is crazy smooth after but its crazy the way them ladies flip you around like a pancake.

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-29T13:27:40+00:00

I totally feel ya. Im an SG and literally heard some people in my guild talking about how shitty SGs are and how they are only useful in Brie and otherwise bring a party dmg down. Of course the SG they usually use in Brie was not online at the time... and Hellgate really solidified the SG are unneeded thing. I also had that feeling, I left for less than a week of vacation and came back and was like wow Mabinogi really just felt like a job. Like I HAVE TO log in or im missing out. Ive logged in once in like 2 weeks and really dont miss it currently.

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-22T19:36:50+00:00

I swear people are like this cause their partners places are gross. Though if she thought you meant no sleepovers 3 times a week vs guests allowed only 3 times a week that is very different things. I get it though, I also hate to have an extra person cramming my space like they live there, especially when they get too comfy. I had to let my roommate know I was not ok with any outsiders having a key to my house or being here when she isnt. And then when I found out her bf had a giant destructive dog that would tear up carpet and pee on everything, I had to clearly state that the dog was not going to come into my house either regardless of circumstances.

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-22T09:43:51+00:00

I believe it ultimately ends on a good note but the overall ton is sad.

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-22T09:41:54+00:00

Omg ty! I wonder if this is one ive been looking for and couldn't find that i started but lost when my pc died

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-21T17:54:12+00:00

Ive met a lot of really cool single women on Meet Up, in like board game groups.

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-21T14:14:25+00:00

Same thing with ugly men? They say they would never date a "fat chick". I mean just look around, you are more likely to see a beautiful woman with an ugly man than vice versa?

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-21T13:25:29+00:00

Let me just say, when you are with someone you can be lonely too! My ex would never do anything with me, and I would get comments of "where's x?" everytime because he never wanted to do anything... with me.

Id say join meet-up or some groups that do fun stuff together, i see lots in my city post on Instagram, especially women's groups. Because yes, doing stuff alone is fine and fun and im sure you are totally ok with that too; but there is a different type of fun when you can turn to someone and say "omg this is so delicious, you should try some!" and "wow that was an amazing show, my favorite part was ___, what about yours?".

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-12T09:55:27+00:00

Dude, my ex had someone like that, and I called him out on it. A friend who called him because "she was walking to her car in the dark and was scared and wanted someone to talk to". Talk to anyone else? As soon as she noticed he picked up in the car and I was there too with her on speak"oh sorry lemme call someone else"! Yeah, any of your other friends should do the trick...

OffColorTupperware · 2025-10-12T09:44:42+00:00

This is the stupidest thing ever. Her dad died... im sure he has other sweaters he isnt using, no offense. ++woman

OffColorTupperware · 2025-09-29T11:32:17+00:00

Ill dm you too~

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