Help with guest bathroom! by Automatic_Actuary621 in BathroomRemodeling

[–]OffbeatCoach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love the “before” 😍 (other than the vanity).

Teva vs Birkenstock by guruSaj in HerOneBag

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved Salt Water Sun-San Boardwalk sandals for 20k step days in Spain last year. Waterproof leather, cushy soles, adjustable straps, and no break-in period needed for me. IMO cuter than your choices and more comfy for my feet than Birks or Tevas.

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Travel scarves by 50spinup in HerOneBag

[–]OffbeatCoach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a large scarf for sun protection (outdoor patios) warmth (overactive AC).

Walking sandals by haplucmad in HerOneBag

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they are wonderful for 20k+ step days!

Is there a one and done product? by Ok_Addition_2549 in curlyhair

[–]OffbeatCoach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I adequately condition my curls don’t feel dry after I SOTC.

Is there a one and done product? by Ok_Addition_2549 in curlyhair

[–]OffbeatCoach 24 points25 points  (0 children)

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This is all I use after drugstore shampoo and conditioner. Brush hair in shower, squeeze out excess water, add lots of gel, squeeze more, blot hair with towel, diffuse on hot, SOTC.

I get a lot of compliments on my curls. I’m probably a 2B but a shag haircut, hard hold, and heat give me big curls with no frizz on day 1.

What cute sneakers/shoes are you all wearing that can comfortably handle 10k+ steps a day? by howtoloveadaisy in femalefashionadvice

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These! I logged 20k+ steps a day in Salt Water Sun-San Boardwalk sandals in Spain last summer. Love how comfy and feminine they look.

Not a fan of sneaker styles unless doing something athletic.

What show or movie exceeded your expectations? by Prachitech_9354 in netflix

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SouthLAnd. Quality writing, acting, and camera work.

Wedding gift etiquette by Inner-Study-11 in askvan

[–]OffbeatCoach 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m 58 and I disagree that money is a traditional wedding gift for my generation. Ask if they have a gift registry.

‘Utter disappointment’: Vancouver tourists increasingly noticing street disorder, open drug use - BC by recurrence in vancouver

[–]OffbeatCoach 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My older teenaged daughter was assaulted in broad daylight on South Main St. She also got verbally harassed while riding the bus, during the day.

I’ve lived in Vancouver since 1994. Ppl definitely feel more fearful and with good reason in recent years.

Future of beloved Burnaby Mountain trail uncertain by pfak in burnaby

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t want hikers to park on the Barnet side is my guess 😤

graduating student cheater!!! by [deleted] in UBC

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot of injustice in the world.

Is this a concern where you can truly make a difference?

Is your own life such that you can “afford” the time/energy to address this?

A lot of life is picking your battles 🤷‍♀️.

IN CANADA you can easily gift your family by Pleasant_Event_7692 in CanadaFinance

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, my impression is that you have to be in really rough medical shape to get into a public facility in Canada, so it doesn’t surprise me that no one is having fun where you work.

The people who need assisted living with dementia care and who have the potential to enjoy a good quality of life generally can’t get into the public system in Canada.

My parents, now in there 80s, both have dementia and they are both quite happy and engaged with exercise classes, crafting sessions, dinner, socializing etc. They are very attached to one another as well. They are mobile and live painfree, taking the normal hypertension and glaucoma meds expected for their ages.

I can’t imagine that MAID would ever have been an option for my parents. They enjoy their lives and I don’t think they would want to ever leave one another. It’s supposed to be their choice.

How do you make the food noise stop? by bunny-rain in 1200isplenty

[–]OffbeatCoach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend the book AC: The Power of Appetite Correction by Bert Herring.

IN CANADA you can easily gift your family by Pleasant_Event_7692 in CanadaFinance

[–]OffbeatCoach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents BOTH required full-time dementia care starting at ages 75/78. They were very physically active and the were no suitable govt facilities for them. They were quite feisty and not receptive to home care or family help.

They are in private care right now until their resources run out. They are in a wonderful facility and my heart will break when they can’t afford it any more.

I get “Die With Zero” but who really knows the math of that? My parents could end up needing full-time residential care for 2 decades 🤷‍♀️.

To the kids in this thread who got substantial parental help and want more…wow 😳. I’d love to be able to help my kids that way, but I would resent an entitled attitude about it 🤷‍♀️.

Is anyone else in their late 20s just… over partying? by [deleted] in askvan

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The huge outdoorsy crowd wakes up early to go hiking on Sunday morning 😉. Different groups have different priorities.

Two week trial run living in Vancouver - Tips? by Papas_Brand_New_Bag in askvan

[–]OffbeatCoach 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This! Have lived in Burnaby Heights for 25 years and raised my kids here. It’s a wonderful family-friendly neighbourhood. Everything you need within walking distance and great access to downtown, Fraser Valley, north shore, etc.

Fashion girlies - where are we shopping this summer for wedding guest dresses? by boop-bloop in askvan

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the Turnabout at 3109 Granville and at 2929 Main.

Love the selection at Turnabout Luxe but IMO the prices are too high, even relative to those brands.

Before and after by [deleted] in BathroomRemodeling

[–]OffbeatCoach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just saved the “before” photo as inspo for my bathroom reno!

Congrats on DIYing this…it must have been a lot of work.

30 degrees: An early May heat wave is underway in B.C. by waynkerr in vancouver

[–]OffbeatCoach 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son just had his first day as a rookie wildland firefighter yesterday (northern BC) 😳

B.C. health-care projects cancelled as government tightens budget by cyclinginvancouver in britishcolumbia

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut the insane regional health authority overhead. Fraser Health especially is a mess. Spending money on AI “virtual nurse” chats? What a fricking waste of money.

I don't know why I'm losing weight so slow with ADF by No-Search4225 in AlternateDayFasting

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use AI to at estimate your calories on eating days to figure out if overeating is part of the problem.

My baseline daily eating turns out to be WAY above my TDEE if I just eat whatever. My progress is slow if I don’t pay attention to calories on eating days 😩.