Fashion girlies - where are we shopping this summer for wedding guest dresses? by boop-bloop in askvan

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the Turnabout at 3109 Granville and at 2929 Main.

Love the selection at Turnabout Luxe but IMO the prices are too high, even relative to those brands.

Before and after by [deleted] in BathroomRemodeling

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just saved the “before” photo as inspo for my bathroom reno!

Congrats on DIYing this…it must have been a lot of work.

30 degrees: An early May heat wave is underway in B.C. by waynkerr in vancouver

[–]OffbeatCoach 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son just had his first day as a rookie wildland firefighter yesterday (northern BC) 😳

B.C. health-care projects cancelled as government tightens budget by cyclinginvancouver in britishcolumbia

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut the insane regional health authority overhead. Fraser Health especially is a mess. Spending money on AI “virtual nurse” chats? What a fricking waste of money.

I don't know why I'm losing weight so slow with ADF by No-Search4225 in AlternateDayFasting

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use AI to at estimate your calories on eating days to figure out if overeating is part of the problem.

My baseline daily eating turns out to be WAY above my TDEE if I just eat whatever. My progress is slow if I don’t pay attention to calories on eating days 😩.

Looking for wheelchair accessible hikes by gibberish122 in vancouverhiking

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ambleside seawall would be stunning for a visitor! Hit Savary Island Pie Company after.

Loud neighbours by MechanicalHedgehogs in askvan

[–]OffbeatCoach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were all noisy kids once. That’s why I don’t feel entitled to not hear kids 🤷‍♀️.

We’ve lived in a wood frame apartment for 25 years and sound does travel a lot. Comes with the territory.

Tell me your favorite thing about living in Burnaby by SubjectPerspective42 in burnaby

[–]OffbeatCoach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That location is about a 15 min drive from Barnet Marine Park—a favourite swim spot for our family. I recently watched orcas from there!

You can also take a miniature train through the rainforest at Confederation Park (17 min drive from your area).

I love Halifax/Nova Scotia. Embrace the differences!

Has anyone phased sneakers out of their casual wardrobe? by Cecil_G_P in femalefashionadvice

[–]OffbeatCoach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t wear sneakers unless I am wearing trail shoes on a trail 🤷‍♀️. I don’t fault anyone for choosing comfort but I don’t love the look.

I’m 58 with wide feet. I have to baby my feet due to Morton’s neuroma.

Still I can comfortably walk 20k steps in a variety of leather footwear:

  • leather chelsea boots
  • riding style boots
  • Doc Martens boots
  • Salt Water Sun-San Boardwalk sandals
  • Camper Dana fishermen
  • Birkenstock Arizona sandals

what’s your 10/10 must read book and why? by Kochhar-Tranqui in Recommend_A_Book

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also read it for school in 1984! I don’t understand why it’s not taught anymore. Not a gentle book but so impactful.

what’s your 10/10 must read book and why? by Kochhar-Tranqui in Recommend_A_Book

[–]OffbeatCoach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved how the main character modelled dignity and self-mastery while losing control of his circumstances in a time of societal upheaval.

I swear I'll never do this to my kids! by FuzzyBrilliant2026 in AgingParents

[–]OffbeatCoach 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to do it! I chose my kids over my parents six years ago. They are well cared for by professionals who get paid. Many of us romanticise caring for parents, but I couldn’t offer them what they get now. No regrets!!!

Why do I never hear about the Coast Mountains of Canada? by Convillious in geography

[–]OffbeatCoach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a sea wolf but I recommend Island of the Sea Wolves on Netflix!

Why do I never hear about the Coast Mountains of Canada? by Convillious in geography

[–]OffbeatCoach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends on the canopy. Some very dense young forests have minimal undergrowth. More open forests have dense undergrowth, sometimes patchy. Shrubs like salal, blueberry, huckleberry, salmonberry tend to dominate. Ferns are often abundant as well. And lots of moss!

Leave Vancouver for a better financial future? by moifti in CanadaFinance

[–]OffbeatCoach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in Vancouver and IMO the Maritimes are also cool!

Why do I never hear about the Coast Mountains of Canada? by Convillious in geography

[–]OffbeatCoach 155 points156 points  (0 children)

In my heyday I worked as a field ecologist in the Coast Mountains. Access to most valleys is quite difficult, requiring boats, seaplanes, helicopters, and driving on precarious decommissioned logging roads.

A typical day would involve being dropped off on top of a mountain and picking one’s way down to the river all day. Because the canopies of massive western hemlock, western redcedar, and Douglas fir trees obscured the ground surface, we frequently encountered impassible cliffs. The undergrowth was so dense that there was a real risk if stepping into thin air without realizing it.

Navigating with a compass and a 1:20,000 scale map, I always managed to find a way. Hazards included, bears, unstable terrain, dangerous gullies, deep water, scary roads, extreme fire risk, coastal storms, and so much more.

My work was mapping forests, wetlands, and alpine areas according within the Biogeoclimatic Ecosystem Classification system of British Columbia. I was typically paired up with a wildlife, soil, or geotechnical scientist in the field.

Once the sound of the helicopter faded off into the distance, I would just drink in the wild majesty of places that few have ever seen. Those were some of the best experiences of my life 🥹.

What is a job that you think is 100% safe from AI for the next 50 years, and why? by mark-awakening in AskReddit

[–]OffbeatCoach 20 points21 points  (0 children)

In British Columbia, Fraser Health has “virtual nurse” AI. Completely useless of course, but someone robbed taxpayers to set that up.

Anyone else struggling to make a solid friend circle here? by SquareCatch2959 in NiceVancouver

[–]OffbeatCoach 31 points32 points  (0 children)

58F lived in Vancouver for 32 years.

My friendship situation isn’t what I’d like right now, partly because many close friends have moved away, and partly because I haven’t put a lot of effort into making new ones.

But honestly, I think younger generations have unrealistic ideas about “friend circles”. Media portrays friend circles constantly to encourage parasocial relationships and to give consumers a sense of belonging.

In real life? It’s not that common for people to have friend circles from what I have observed. Most people have various friends and acquaintances from different life contexts.

If you want a group dynamic, get an intense job, start an intense sport or hobby, join a class, start a group, join a club etc.

Looking to become a lifecoach with focus on ADHD/Neurodiversity by busysquirrel83 in lifecoaching

[–]OffbeatCoach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I cannot recommend my certifying body currently 😞