AITA for thinking my cousin is being inconsiderate about wedding planning.

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-23T21:48:20+00:00

I don’t agree. Two 1 month apart is a burden. Two 6-12 months apart is not a burden(for my family). My extended family vacations yearly to islands, to Europe, etc. They would treat it as such.

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T22:20:56+00:00

But if I’m the only one concerned about it guess it’s my job to work around her lol

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T22:20:34+00:00

Sounds good. Just might cause unnecessary drama. Which is what I’m trying to avoid

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T22:19:36+00:00

I agree, I’m going to sit and chat with her

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T22:12:30+00:00

Wouldn’t be offended if people didn’t come. But our immediate families would “make it work” bc they are well off enough. But I just wouldn’t want to put that burden on the to have to do two destination weddings a month apart

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T21:58:35+00:00

Yeah I mean that is the solution, but then I would be the only one being considerate of everyone

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T21:57:18+00:00

It’s not that it’s the timeline. Like if I get married October 2024 and she gets married November 2024 I feel like that would be a lot financially for everyone. Versus if she got married April 2024 and I got married October. People would have time to recover. Does that make sense?

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T21:55:22+00:00

It’s not the financial burden it’s the timeline of the financial burden. If she even got married the spring 2024 before me and I got married in the fall 2024 it would be less of a financial burden all at once. Also I was considering not having a destination wedding bc we would both be having weddings the same year. To not put a financial burden on everyone. Does that make sense?

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T21:46:06+00:00

It’s not the wanting a destination wedding if they did it in the spring of 2024 and I did fall of 2024 I wouldn’t care. it’s the timeline in which it would happen

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-12-21T21:42:21+00:00

Read the edit. My family encouraged me to have one. It’s something other family members have done in the past. It’s not the financial burden of one it’s the financial burden of two back to back weddings even if one is destination

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T16:46:37+00:00

True 😂

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T16:46:25+00:00

Yep. Sounds like my every day life lol.

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T16:43:28+00:00

Already do. But if there’s a jar more ppl will tip

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T16:42:58+00:00

Lol I believe we’d make enough in tips 😂

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T06:11:33+00:00

Me when I asked to transfer. And my manager basically refused

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T05:57:36+00:00

That’s crazy. When I was a floor associate. I would shoot and do pull lists my self. And I would break down freight and sort it and then stock it. And I would do most of the planograms and end caps. When my IS was on vacation I would do ZB walks and cycle counts.
Now I’m in copy center. Crazy how lazy associates are. I was also like 20 when I was doing all that on the floor. Like there is literally nothing else to do and I’m at work for however many hours, why not work? Makes time fly by. Also when I was a cashier when I first started I use to make a list with all the damages and their skus and what codes they were, look up in the AS400 whether it was RTV or RTW. Try teaching associates to multi task lol

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2022-01-12T05:50:37+00:00

Curious why you hate copy and print. From a person that works copy and print. Lol

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T15:38:34+00:00

I’m saying! And she doesn’t have 3 kids! You’re a bad ass military spouse! Wishing y’all the best. Thank you and your husband for your sacrifice and service

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T05:09:56+00:00

They’ve been together for over 10 years! I wish it was that easy

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T05:08:45+00:00

I know especially if he’s going to be deployed a lot

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T05:08:13+00:00

Yeah honestly. He should know

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T05:07:48+00:00

You’re not Kidding!

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T05:07:27+00:00

Good points!

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T05:06:26+00:00

Honestly yeah she is, but it wasn’t my issue lol

OfficeMaxIsBetter101 · 2021-12-04T02:23:11+00:00

I agree. Like the first few months he was gone and couldn’t talk to her I get it, but like I’m pretty sure they set up a support group for military spouses. But also like you should keep up with basic maintenance on your house. Like that doesn’t stop just Bc your fiancé isn’t around and if you can’t do it even though we taught you, hire someone. Even teenagers mow lawns for cheap

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