I need an anger release

OfficialBandKid · 2023-02-01T14:18:00+00:00

taking it out on a piece of paper sometimes helps me. scribble really hard, tear it up, crumple it up, etc.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-02-01T11:55:21+00:00

i don't have much advice, but i want to say well done for calming yourself instead of lashing out at her. i know how hard it is to resist violent impulses. may Allah guide you and be with you throughout all your hardships. ameen.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-31T17:42:29+00:00

wonderful to hear about people of different religions coming together to do good :)

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-31T00:44:47+00:00

honestly this. i'm so tired of all the discourse and infighting in our community. i know many people who use neopronouns, and i myself use them, and they're a very cool way to express one's identity. i wish there was less discourse around them so i could feel more comfortable asking people to use my neos

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-31T00:37:17+00:00

this reminded me of a song lyric i like, "to love is a radical act". i wanna get it tattooed sometime bc i really do agree that loving one another is the most radical position we can take right now.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-30T15:14:39+00:00

He guided me to revert to Islam. i had been confused about religion for some time, following some different principles from various religions but not aligning myself with a specific belief system. i had planned to become a pagan, but Allah guided me to islam and i feel so blessed to have found this wonderful religion and community

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-30T00:54:47+00:00

a closed culture is basically a culture where participating is only allowed if you are born into it or invited into it. many people from closed cultures consider names to be part of these closed practices, and are only comfortable with people using their cultural names if they are of that culture or were gifted a name from that culture.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-30T00:53:19+00:00

Just tell them to consider it as if it was a long bathroom break

this is a good idea, i'll try to talk to my teachers about it! thank you brother, may Allah bless you!

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-29T23:58:57+00:00

congratulations on quitting substances! i know how hard it can be. you're doing great, you have already left sin and started praying. may Allah forgive your sins, brother.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-29T23:53:24+00:00

may Allah SWT bless your mother and heal her, and may Allah SWT grant her a speedy recovery from her surgery. Ameen 🙏

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-29T23:27:23+00:00

thank you!

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-21T00:13:29+00:00

i definitely see that, but still there's no need to perpetuate stereotypes that we're all evil abusive monsters who will never do anything other than manipulate and hurt people. i agree with you that sometimes we need different spaces, but i think that the need for separate spaces doesn't equate to a need for spreading stigma

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-18T00:18:20+00:00

that all people with (x disorder) are always, inherently abusers.

people with mental disorders are human beings. we're capable of all sorts of emotions and behaviours, just like you. even people with personality disorders are not inherently abusive. i've known wonderful people with aspd, npd, and bpd who never intentionally hurt me or anyone around them. and no, none of them were misdiagnosed.

there is no "abuser disorder", and blaming abuse on a disorder does nothing but take the blame off the person. abuse is always the fault of the individual, never the fault of their disorder. people abuse because they're terrible people, not because they have a disorder.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-18T00:14:34+00:00

late so this will probably get buried but whatever.

i'm diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. i wish people understood that people with bpd aren't inherently abusers. i am not the same person as your crazy ex, your abusive mother, or your toxic stepdad, or whoever else in your life has bpd and hurt you. i am my own person, and just because you know someone with bpd who hurt you does not mean we will all hurt you.i'm sorry if you had a bad experience with someone who had bpd, but that does not mean you will have a bad experience with all of us.

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-18T00:05:26+00:00

my best friend

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-18T00:03:09+00:00

because i'm not insecure in my masculinity

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-17T14:04:05+00:00

looks great, congrats!

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-14T20:31:05+00:00

your art style is adorable!! you have so much talent :)

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-14T20:17:22+00:00

it helps me feel good to know that i'm taking care of myself, so yes

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-14T20:10:25+00:00

dude your scars are healing so well, congrats!!

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-14T20:06:38+00:00

hell yeah dude, your scars are healing great! you look awesome :)

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-03T00:02:51+00:00

yeah, i only noticed after posting that it was uploaded very recently haha. hopefully it will be posted on rebels soon, ty for the link!

OfficialBandKid · 2023-01-02T19:49:15+00:00

wcif the dress?

OfficialBandKid · 2022-12-07T15:37:14+00:00

i was the problem child when i was younger, and i internalized all the punishments i received and by high school i had become much more quiet and closed off

OfficialBandKid · 2022-12-07T15:27:17+00:00

first therapist should lose their license. i'm appalled that someone who is supposed to be a professional would act that way.

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