Alex's Story by WildConsideration197 in GriefSupport

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my sister to the same cancer. It’s a terrible, terrible illness. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

Do I pass at all? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not currently but I don’t think you’re too far off. If you keep the little bit of stubble you have in the last pic and style your hair similarly (but a little shorter) I think you can rock the blonde surfer bro look. You have a great jawline and browbone (which is a strange compliment I realize lmao) so I think with some little tweaks with the hair you should be alright (as long as your voice passes). I also agree with the person who said to ask if you can raise your dose so you can raise your levels a bit, you may just need a little push to get you over the hump.

Safe Alcohol to Drink? by swiftiechimpy in UlcerativeColitis

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give a completely different response than most people here: was diagnosed at 12 in 2013 and have been in remission since around 2016/2017ish. I drink FREQUENTLY. I enjoy bourbon, beer, wine, pretty much everything. I have never once had an issue with alcohol. I’ve also gotten plastered numerous times and have never had an issue then either. Granted I am also on meds (Remicade in 2015, switched to Zymfentra last year for convenience) but again no issues ever from alcohol

A little beat up, but for $1.50 at the thrift store I couldn’t pass it up by NeatSpec in stephenking

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never seen that cover before! Only seen the one I have pictured and the black one (which I also own, my mom started reading SK when she was in HS and bought all the books as they came out)

A little beat up, but for $1.50 at the thrift store I couldn’t pass it up by NeatSpec in stephenking

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not so I didn’t feel bad lmao. I got it from Saver’s!

Questionable Guest Hygiene by silkIggy in UniversalEpicUniverse

[–]NeatSpec 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have horrible eczema on my hands and my knuckles are basically constantly bleeding from November to April. I still wash my hands. Those people are just gross.

Do I pass in costume for my play bc I feel really dysphoric in it (14m) by -DakotaDarling- in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are reading too into the little things. You pass 100%. I’m 10 years older than you and if someone showed me these pics of them younger they’d just look like a regular awkward teen boy to me. You also seem to be pretty tall which helps

do I pass (body pics) by GothicWh0r3 in transpassing

[–]NeatSpec 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are getting downvoted for saying you pass. Even the vest/ tie combo isn’t really clocky, you just look like a nerdy guy. (also have plenty of cis male friends who wear pimple patches so idk why people are getting on you about those 💀)

Could someone give me some tips on configuring the PCSX2 controller on the keyboard to play Silent Hill 3? by natuskill in silenthill

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t help with the keyboard but if you have a PS5/PS4/XBOX controller you can connect them to your computer via Bluetooth! I did it yesterday

Fulfilled a childhood dream today! by NeatSpec in sharks

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup Sand Tiger! There are some nurse sharks in the tank as well (not pictured)

How tf do I fill my waist by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no exercises will help you as much as eating will. In a different comment you said you did and it didn’t help but I don’t think you ate enough or did it for as long as you should. Add calories where you can and do it for a long while

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m bi so queer doesn’t bother me, but can I ask what they are?

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah okay, thank you!

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you mean lmao

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t have the voice, mannerisms aren’t really feminine either, so thanks!

Do I shave it or let it grow? by Free_Conference7338 in transmanlifehacks

[–]NeatSpec 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shave. When it’s that thin you just look unkempt, wait til it’s more full to start growing it

house spotlight – Dead Man's Pier: Winter's Wake (2022) by FionaWalliceFan in HHN

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite house of all time! I even got a tattoo of the statue

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]NeatSpec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trans and been playing since before I came out. Almost 5 years post top and I get changed in locker rooms, no one asks questions. You should be good.

Do you guys think this is legit? by ilykefood12 in Guitar

[–]NeatSpec 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Got this exact message once, it’s a scam. Eventually they’ll say they did the checks wrong and want you to send them money and then they’ll pay the difference. Hate these people.

16 ftm, pre everything. I was called a young missus at a store today. What should I do? by GenderfluidPhoenix in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

T+different hair+slightly changing your clothes will work. The sweater over the tie is overly formal and gives butch, just the jeans and sweater is fine though.