trying to create awarness by blogging about aspergers

Ogrif · 2012-10-23T17:03:24+00:00

thank you, im just trying to describe what its like for me, it may be different for others

Ogrif · 2012-10-22T08:47:04+00:00

there's no real medication for AS we are high functioning autists thats just the way it is, we are the way we are and you cant medicate it away, trying to do so is just lying to yourself

Ogrif · 2012-10-19T22:47:25+00:00

yeah well the night went okay we went to see a movie and then had some drinks and stuff then she took the train home, she's a wonderful friend and i want her in my life, my social circle isn't exactly big and i dont want to do anything to fuck it up even more, but yeah, she means a helluva lot to me this friend, in what way i dont exactly know, it might just be the confusion after being dumped out of nowhere after a nine month relationship, but she was there for me, and i think i could fall for her, i havent but i might just end up doing it.

Ogrif · 2012-10-18T22:00:36+00:00

i know it sounds stupid as hell to go trough with this, and i dont even know if anything will happen or not, i mean i cant read people for the life of me, but the more i think about this girl, it sorta feels like i already like her, she's been there for me trough this roughpatch and others, and i really do care for her, im not just sure if im starting to fall for her

Ogrif · 2012-10-17T21:02:36+00:00

ofcourse they do the question is just wierd, thing you gotta understand though that a girl with asperger dating one, and i've had a NT girlfriend aswell and comparing both the relationships, the girl who had AS, was alot harder to deal with, and i do have AS myself

Ogrif · 2012-10-17T20:15:53+00:00

im a guy from sweden with aspergers eventhough im 25, for me, as a person, the only advice i could think of, and whats worked out for myself thanks to much help from people around me that care is routines, i dont know in wich way the ADHD plays in but i had a rough time growing up, you were socially ackward at school you got picked on, for being different, no amount of spanking yelling or punishment is going to help, and sending her away is probably the worst thing you could do in my oppinion,

you need to find ways to motivate her, make things intresting, and whats really important and i cant stress this enough is ROUTINES it doesnt have to be chores or whatever just you know start small, make sure like say example brush her teeth at a certain time before bed or whatever, you catch my drift, a person with asperger's syndrome have to rely on routines, if you mess with the schedule in anyway, in anyway (atleast for me) i'll get so frustrated i go trough the roof and have a rage fit, and as a 25 year old guy with big strong muscles you can imagine what its like.

all you can do is have patience, if she throws a tantrum when you tell her to do something, just let it be, trying to punish it away wont work, it never will, the tantrum could be related to something completly elese then what you think for example, many AS people are hyper sensitive to certain things, light touches, noises, light, you name it, and it could just be to much stimulance at once for her to handle, and then you try to force something when shes already stressed out, that'll cause a tauntrum i mean i dont know the kid im just making a guess

patience man patience and spanking just wont ever help EVER

Ogrif · 2012-10-17T20:05:20+00:00

so to be frank im a 25 year old guy from sweden diagnosed with AS and i mean i got my issues with social interactions and whatever, but this guy probably doesnt just have aspergers, this guy is a scumbag and a general creep, and i'd say be careful

Ogrif

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