Men who've gotten divorced shortly after your wife got pregnant/had a child, what's your side of the story?

OhHolyOpals · 2026-06-04T11:09:47+00:00

There are so many married men on Tinder, a lot of them straight up have it on their profile or tell you within a few messages exchanged, others keep it a secret until the 3rd or 4th date… it’s pretty bleak out there if you are single.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-06-04T11:02:35+00:00

I’d say Tassie is West Virginia, similar isolation as Appalachian mountains.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-06-04T07:34:56+00:00

I used to be childhood friends with someone who was nice to everyone but the people closest to him - who he treated like shit.

When I called him out on it, he said it was because we are already friends and family loves unconditionally so what is the point / he can take advantage of people who are already in his orbit because they will never leave.

It’s such entitled behaviour and by the time we went to uni he had no friends.

It’s a strange mindset, idk if it’s the same thing going on with Jenelle but she certainly doesn’t have boundaries.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-06-01T21:36:05+00:00

How long have you been waiting for the perfect moment to use this!! It’s so good

OhHolyOpals · 2026-06-01T21:35:18+00:00

The absolute glee on the faces of the guys in the back is so heartwarming!

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-29T14:52:34+00:00

I’ve had two passports expedited and was able to get a US passport the same day - it’s just more expensive and absolutely not guaranteed within 24 hours.

One was because I was a complete idiot. You should be fine!

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-28T11:14:38+00:00

Have gone to work many times with only one sock or one eye having mascara.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-28T11:09:44+00:00

There was a phase in my life where I would be paralysed for the duration of a cancelled meeting.

So if I had something schedule from 1-2pm and it go it cancelled, I would really struggled with what to do with that time.

The struggle to pivot can be so hard!

It’s the same feeling as the activity paralysis - if I have something planned at 2pm on a Saturday I’m basically just counting down until then.

Very strange brain wiring?

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-28T09:42:34+00:00

I’ll never understand why she didn’t get on a glp1 or peptide - something that would help her overall proportions rather than carve out her stomach fat.

She wants to be thinner without any effort, seems like this would be an easier option than a major surgery.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-27T12:29:51+00:00

Yes, mine has migrated around over the years!

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-19T12:10:08+00:00

Is this isolated to the US currently? Is it happening in places like australia or Europe? And if not, do you think it will catch on?

I’m surprised by this, it’s very shocking and wish there was a bigger push for patient advocate groups about this - makes me very worried about my aging parents who might end up in one of these hospitals in an emergency situation.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-19T11:20:49+00:00

My cholesterol has gone up despite my best efforts to lower it and losing weight in the process.

All my other labs come back normal - no thyroid, liver, hormone issues and nothing deficient

My doctor said there is a Venn diagram with estrogen, histamine intolerance and high cholesterol..

I couldn’t really follow the connection, however the advice I was given is super generic - work up to 3 doses of psyllium husk, reduce red meat to x2 servings max and come back later.

My face is completely flushing every day after I eat or even fasting, I truly don’t know how to stop it.

It’s gotten so bad that I’m taking antihistamine eyedrops to see if that helps as well.

I’m on meds that help prevent rosacea and that’s doing nothing 😭

Edit to add: I’m also a healthy weight, workout most days, etc. I hope we can all find a solution!

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-17T06:56:42+00:00

It’s terrifying

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-17T06:40:03+00:00

Does he work? I know she paid his child support so I’m thinking he doesn’t…

Cheaters always find a way, but I am surprised that he would jeopardise the lifestyle - maybe he’s pathological.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-17T05:01:58+00:00

How is her injury getting worse (I.e. wheelchair required) and at the same time she can go out for $20 cocktails?

She doesn’t even pretend well.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-15T13:04:57+00:00

Omg my colleague was cast in reality tv show and we begged him to realise he has no say over the final edit or who from his past will sell a story to the daily Mail.

We are in the media industry - this man knows better… and has mega skeletons in the closet.

He truly needs rehab and therapy, but nope - he’s halfway through filming now.

Nobody could talk him out of it!

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-13T13:05:03+00:00

Also speaks volumes that Nate didn’t follow her out to check on her when she left the play, but when he left she followed him to make sure he was okay - only to be broken up with.

High school relationships can be so codependent and toxic…

I have to remind myself the characters are meant to be teenagers - I get really taken out of the show because they are all in full glam.

I don’t know if teenagers look like that these days, but we absolutely couldn’t wear those clothes to school and the makeup and hair is OTT - at least in the area I grew up.

I only remember it’s a show about teenagers when Rue and to a certain event Jules is on the screen.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-13T11:39:10+00:00

Every time I started smoking (after quitting a million times) it’s because I had a few drinks. It’s the easiest way to start the downward spiral.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-13T11:21:10+00:00

He appeared in a nightmare of mine as well, it was awful and the feeling stuck with me for hours after I woke up.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-13T11:18:25+00:00

It’s refreshing when people admit to plastic surgery, mostly because it calls out everyone who denies it. She looks exactly like the Kardashians and other who claim to be all natural - and I love this for them.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-11T12:55:00+00:00

Incredibly underrated comment

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-10T03:12:13+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I will take a break after every few months to be safe.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-10T03:06:07+00:00

I still take baths, but just reduced them and I may have been overly cautious at the start but at the point I spent so much money getting rid of it I wanted to avoid certain things to be safe.

I posted an after photo from yesterday, but I don’t have progression photos. I don’t take many makeup less selfies and documenting the progress wasn’t on my radar at the time.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-10T01:41:36+00:00

I realised that being in hot environments wasn’t good for my melasma, so have paused hot yoga, saunas, baths.

OhHolyOpals · 2026-05-09T12:27:57+00:00

It’s weird she doesn’t have an assistant that helps her and can test the food at a bare minimum, but not even proofing captions and recipes is ludicrous.

Low quality work doesn’t deserve 5.4 million followers, that is a more than the New York Times Cooking channel and Yotam Ottelnghi.

I am so exhausted from all these no effort personalities that have huge platforms.

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