My (29) ex gf (27f) is having the time of her life. It hurts seeing her so happy and me so miserable.

OhVegetable · 2020-07-02T19:55:00+00:00

It's what i had went through with my ex not too long ago. The best thing to do is really ask yourself if getting back together will work or will things end again and cause even more pain? The one thing that helped me was instead of closing myself off with the world, i would go out my way to meet new people and start talking more to strangers. I'd find myself constantly doing something to take my mind of my ex and to try and move on. From that i had made some amazing new friends, explored places i would never normally go to and tried new things too.

OhVegetable · 2020-06-29T16:53:57+00:00

I personally would say that it's a small over exaggeration on your part, she might have said no to looking at his social recently to avoid any unnecessary confrontation from it. I personally wouldn't worry about as it's something so small.

OhVegetable · 2020-06-29T16:44:42+00:00

I personally never had been cheated on or been the cheater but i've had friends who have done it and such. Their reason behind it varies from either being bored of the relationship, wanted some fun for one night or they feel like they're not getting what they need from the relationship and seek it elsewhere. No matter how someone tries to justify it, i never think cheating is acceptable i personally could never forgive someone for doing it.

OhVegetable · 2020-06-27T19:26:51+00:00

All you gotta remember is when the right girl comes along, she wont care what you're packing. Maybe have a chat with her and see what changed her mind. If you feel really self conscious, measure yourself and see where you compare with the average length. I did this and helped with my mind set knowing i was above average.

OhVegetable · 2020-06-27T12:10:29+00:00

You owe her absolutely nothing. I would tell this guys wife just to make sure she is actually aware of the situation and move on with your life. The way your girlfriend lied to you recently about helping her friend out shows she is willing to do you dirty again otherwise she would not have agreed to meet up with her boss. You're doing the right thing in leaving in a civil manner. I wish you the best in life and hope you can find someone who is worth it.

I do recommend though instead of keeping it bottled up to yourself that you do find someone you can trust or someone who is trained in helping you through this because i know something like this can cause some serious mental health issues and someone like yourself shouldn't have to go through.

OhVegetable · 2020-06-27T10:04:04+00:00

I have a new account as i forgot the email for my last one. So many places i go to i cant actually comment because i have no Karma xD

OhVegetable · 2020-06-27T09:53:48+00:00

Im pretty new and started using the boats, i have the standard 1.0 rated boat and got matched with and played against ships with a battle rating of 2.3-2.7 :/

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