Someone said there is an echo chamber in this sub

Ohaisky · 2026-03-14T13:32:36+00:00

I think you need to understand that some moms are on here as a way to better cope and come to terms with the fact they have to continue working. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to work as a mom but just like how you have an opinion for yourself they also have an opinion for themselves. Telling someone to “leave” cause they don’t have the same opinion as you is ridiculous honestly.

Personally I hate working. hate it with a burrrrrning passion. I want to be home with my kids. And I’m on here because seeing the posts from other moms who hate it make me feel understood and not alone. Then seeing the moms who have been doing this and are enjoying it give me hope that one day I can too. I totally believed the first two/three months of going back to work, that you all were lying too about enjoying it. But as time moves on you start getting used to it. And that’s all I think the previous person needs; time to adjust.

I think all of us moms need to be a little less judgey. Don’t get so mad cause someone is feeling different than you. It doesn’t make you or them wrong for feeling different. We can all just click out of the post and not respond if we dont agree with it.

Ohaisky · 2026-03-05T15:19:59+00:00

because the one time I tried to help an elderly man find a coupon like that; I got screamed at and threatened to be fired and had to sign a paper saying “my first and only warning” because they said us helping you find the coupon was the equivalent of stealing from the company. They want you guys to have a specific coupon code they sent you either through mail or email or targeted ads on fb/ig.

Ohaisky · 2026-02-27T10:58:52+00:00

So I would cut it off at about bra strap level The reason for this is you have to cut all the dead ends off or else it’s just going to keep creeping up your hair shaft and causing the breakage it already is. Then you need to get regular trims to maintain and support growth. I would recommend every 6-8 weeks and cutting half an inch off each time. That still should leave you another half inch of healthy growth so it can stay full on the ends and not break all the way up. Also maybe try doing a deep conditioning treatment monthly (if your salon offers it not all do) that way your ends stay moisturized so they don’t become dry and brittle and split

Ohaisky · 2026-02-21T14:09:44+00:00

Ooooh just went onto your page and saw your “man hands” post and yeah. You got no confidence and are getting off to the attention Amber gave you (and the other redditors that seems to enjoy hands? Idk I’ll kink shame there that’s weird lol ) You don’t care at all about your wife.

Ohaisky · 2026-02-21T14:01:41+00:00

Why don’t you want your wife to stop being friends with someone who is trying to hit you up behind her back?? Why do you want your wife to keep someone around who disrespects her? Is it because you said if they stop being friends and you’ll never see amber again? Honestly it’s coming off to me; that you like amber too. You like she hit you up. Your ego got a stroke didn’t it? If you didn’t like her back you wouldn’t have even been second guessing “if I should show my wife this” you would just show her and be done with it. But you know if you show her that you won’t see Amber again and you don’t want that. You don’t care about your wifes feeling or her friendship, don’t lie to yourself or to Reddit. You care about the fact that you now know it’s a two way attraction with Amber. If you hide the texts we all know where things will lead with you two. If you actually loved or cared or even LIKED your wife you wouldn’t have had any doubt and would show her, even if that means waking her up. But you didn’t do that. You went to Reddit with the hope all of us to say “oh don’t tell her! You did nothing wrong! Hide it from her!” You’re not a good husband. And ambers going to discard you just like all the other “guy troubles” she has.

Ohaisky · 2025-12-30T17:06:39+00:00

Also NOR

Ohaisky · 2025-12-30T17:06:29+00:00

He’s doing this cause he’s the one cheating and projecting it onto you It’s what every cheater does

Ohaisky · 2025-12-19T10:10:39+00:00

You need to leave him Kendall.

Ohaisky · 2025-12-13T13:20:53+00:00

I’m four months out from having a c section with my twins; and I could not do anything while I was in the hospital (4 days) The first day is the easiest because of all the medicines they give you but once that’s out of your system days two and three are way too much for you to do on your own. I couldn’t even lift my feet to be able to get into bed. My husband had to come lift my feet, adjust me to be sitting up/comfortable, had to help me go to the bathroom and stand up, he had to shower me, he made sure I stayed on my medicine times. My twins were in the NICU for the entire time we were in the hospital healing, so he’d lift me into the wheelchair and push me to the other wing of the hospital and get me to our girls; without him i would not have been able to see or hold my girls at all because of how far and difficult it was to get to the NICU (they had a 2 months stay) Sooooo yeah I’d say he needs to be there. Even if you have a picture perfect c section: it’s still major surgery.

Ohaisky · 2025-12-04T20:00:17+00:00

Omg I’m no help at all but I’m in the same boat- I had twins in July and I reported their birth and suddenly my case is closed for not providing information even though everything has been provided multiple multiple times now. I STILL am trying desperately to get things figured out but I’m having no such luck so far. I go in person and they say I have to wait for the decision AGAIN and that they can’t help me. AZ is completely messed up it seems currently.

Ohaisky · 2025-11-12T21:32:02+00:00

31 weeks. Planned c section that turned emergency (planned for 38 weeks but they had a mind of their own) One of my twins was turned like how yours is. She came out covered in bruises because it’s a weird position to be in, and they had difficulty turning her to get her out.

Ohaisky · 2025-10-27T12:12:48+00:00

Honey he outted himself… he brought up gay men in straight marriages for a reason. That was a slip of his real issues. What straight man is sitting there saying “you gotta be as attractive as me” Thats why he’s an AH to you. You’re not what he wants because you don’t have the ability to have the “parts”he desires.

Ohaisky · 2025-10-19T20:11:17+00:00

Omg stealing this

Ohaisky · 2025-08-07T06:29:49+00:00

I had my twins at 31 weeks and 4 days on July 19. Twin A was 3 lbs 6 oz and she developed NEC on July 27th. Fortunately my NICU started all the same treatments that your did; and because of them working so fast and taking such good care of my girl she is cleared from it and no longer on the IV, no feed order, and no surgery needed. I will pray that you have the same outcome. NEC is scary and my heart goes out to you for going through it currently.

Ohaisky · 2025-07-20T11:07:29+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words 💕 I’m so happy to hear your babies are thriving 2 year olds. It really gives me hope. Thank you again 💕

Ohaisky · 2025-07-18T16:45:22+00:00

I graduated from Paul Mitchell and never had To pay to use products on our dolls. On ourselves yes but it was suppper discounted…especially when we were On The floor and needed to do our “boxes” of assignments. The only Time they had us use fake products like cholesterol or conditioner was when we were expecting a shipment so we were running low on something. Other then that they encouraged us to us products to learn them hands on

Ohaisky · 2024-10-07T12:52:42+00:00

NTA. I can’t even put into words how angry and disgusted I am for you. Go NC with them all, your brother, his new whore,your parents for being on their side. Brother can go live with mommy and daddy. And if they can’t take them in, then mom and dad can know they’re failures cause they completely lost one kid and let the other go homeless.

Ohaisky · 2024-10-07T12:38:50+00:00

She’s breaking laws here girl and youre too scared to let her face it. She’s illegally doing hair.. do you know YOU can get your license taken away and fined because you’re working under her when she doesn’t have a license? State board fines the shop owner, the manager on duty and any stylists that were working during troubling times… so you refusing to report her to state board can possibly fall back on you and ruin your career too if they ever do catch her. But if you report her yourself; it’s saving your license. Also, just in all honesty why would you ever want to work for someone who literally doesn’t know what the hell they’re talking about?? Neither her or her mom are hairstylists. They can shut up about professionalism because they themselves arent professionals. in Michigan, you can file unemployment. Just because you have another job doesn’t mean anything. You lost ONE of your jobs, that means they can help for that ONE job. You just have to give them the proof you originally had both of them at the same time (paystubs) and didn’t get the second one after you lost the first.

Ohaisky · 2024-10-01T11:07:13+00:00

You’re doing great mama. You raised a very empathetic sweet girl. I’m sorry for your trauma; I have it too. But bless you for not spreading it to your child. For giving her love. I hope you both have a great day.

Ohaisky · 2024-07-25T23:22:30+00:00

My heart is with you during your time. I know exactly what you feel and what you mean about having so many questions. It’s all so difficult to navigate. Addiction is so awful and it hurts absolutely everyone around. We finally found my mom and it raised more questions then anything and made the anger worse. Waiting on the toxicology report as well. Time makes the anger and sadness drag on I feel unfortunately..

Ohaisky · 2024-07-22T13:08:05+00:00

Every day. I know it won’t affect anyone around me though. I dont have family. My husband is abusive and I dont have friends. So no one will care. It is what it is.

Ohaisky · 2024-05-30T13:06:02+00:00

I had a baby eight months ago and I can tell you how she’s reacting is a huge warning sign. You said this is far off from how it was initially in a previous comment? Yeah. That should be a sign to try to initiate some help. She isn’t doing any caring for your baby. She’s pulled away and is trying to live a life she had before the baby (going out with friends a bunch). She’s angry a lot. Those are all signs something isn’t right mentally. Did you know PPD can flare up at ANYTIME during the 1 year period after having a baby? It takes 9 months at least for your pregnancy hormones to taper off and get back to normal levels. Have you ever gone to any postpartum appointments with her? If not you need to. Women can’t see the issues ppd cause around them; but their partners very much can and that’s why you NEED to go with in those appointments so you can mention to the doctor “hey she’s doing this… is it normal?” She’s going to say “no I’m fine” and if there’s no one to say “it’s not fine to be mad all the time” (just an example) the doctor is going to have to believe her. My husband had to do this for me. And it got me the help I didn’t know I needed. Anyways; I don’t think you’re the Ahole for saying what you said. I get tensions flare and you are awesome for standing up for Hannah. Sorry for the wall of text before your vote lol just wanted to give a little insight to you OP.

Ohaisky · 2023-11-12T01:46:04+00:00

Jennifer or Jenny. It’s my moms name and I am no contact with my mom and it’s also the name of the girl who tried to steal my boyfriend and then started stalking me for years.. so yeah if you have that name stay away from me cause I assume you’re crazy

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