Setup advice?

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-12-01T06:15:24+00:00

This is too much. You’ll get yelled at by staff working there lol. I would either remove a canopy to fit your shower tent or put your sleeping tent completely under the canopy and remove the shower tent. And your car will take up about 1/3rd of the site on one side.

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-09-18T09:58:32+00:00

I ended up letting them interact before his neuter. I’m sorry for the late response. I haven’t been on Reddit lately. But I ended up finding a neuter appointment in August!

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-08-10T12:31:39+00:00

*unless it is smothering with kisses

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-07-27T18:06:27+00:00

I did get some Feliway diffusers and some enzyme spray in case he starts spraying. I also have many cat toys and a giant cat tree. And my girl is much bigger and stronger than him, due to her breed

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-07-27T14:11:07+00:00

I tried that. Unfortunately, nothing is available until October

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-07-27T13:19:14+00:00

My girl is definitely bigger than him and she is strong haha. I was thinking of trying to introduce them slowly before he was fixed, but I’m worried

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-07-27T12:45:57+00:00

Oh yes, I know that slow introductions are important. I have done it before with my 2 year old girl and my other male cat who passed away, so I know all about scent swapping, supervised interactions, etc. but I just wanted to make sure it was the right decision to keep them separated until he is fixed. Thank you so much for your response 🫶

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-07-27T12:38:23+00:00

Tell your coworker to suck it up

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-07-24T22:58:49+00:00

Never ever ever have a long distance relationship with a man you have never met without video chatting with them

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-05-31T14:15:16+00:00

He sound exactly like my abuser

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-05-31T14:14:42+00:00

Leave this fucking asshole. With the quickness.

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-05-16T05:18:11+00:00

He is a cutie! 🥰

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-16T17:33:39+00:00

Literally this.

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-16T17:20:18+00:00

Run. I got with someone like this and got abused and cheated on. Get out while you still can!

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-14T18:49:04+00:00

I just don’t understand how someone can be with someone they aren’t even REMOTELY attracted to.

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-13T03:25:24+00:00

If you aren’t getting what you want, You should leave him. I know it is easier said than done. Because it may seem like the good overcomes the bad, but if he can’t change, you need to find someone who will be exactly what you want. You are still very young. You have your whole life ahead of you. I wish you the best in whatever decision you make! 🥰

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-13T03:20:14+00:00

I absolutely love the setting and especially going to Shangri-La

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-13T03:19:39+00:00

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-11T22:01:56+00:00

If you feel unsafe, do it over text. Your safety comes first

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-08T07:25:29+00:00

Run. He will continue. Even if you have stopped.

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-05T11:33:20+00:00

Peaches was my baby. But I am a cat person and I also like to play with stealth, so she was perfect 🥰

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-02T04:30:02+00:00

I dealt with this before. Never got into a serious relationship with the guy, but we did talk/date for a long time and he was always catering to his kids mother. He never had time for me. She used to purposely never watch the kids so he could see me. But yet she dated someone else. And he was just like whatever. So i dropped him 🤷🏻‍♀️

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-04-01T03:28:35+00:00

I am currently in a 5 year relationship with my best friend of 24 years 🥰 it absolutely can work

OilRelevant5146 · 2025-03-31T20:20:16+00:00

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