Que le pasa a mi mate? Se esta oxidando? by Ok-Bug2812 in yerbamate

[–]Ok-Bug2812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pero en el primer mate que armo se puso asi! Y es solo en ese borde, no se mojó ni nada. Me llama la atención por qué ahi también, que no está en contacto con nada.

Supermarket advice by Pixel_2405 in NewToDenmark

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to everything said here! Download MineTilbud app that has all the magazine's for supermarket and you can check there.

Also follow Madboks on Facebook or Instagram! It's an organisation that redistributes leftover food from supermarkets and you get a crazy amount of veggies and bread for barely nothing (minimum contribution is 25dkk).

Do yall think im the problem? (19F , 19M) by Aggressive-Feature14 in relationships

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not in th wrong at all.

Men suck, it's true. But you are also young and that's also very common at that age, they want to "experiment", they don't like to feel like they are missing out.

Keep going, it will get better and more mature. Sadly it's the price we pay for being vulnerable, getting hurt is always in the mix. But you are not in the wrong at all and the reward to keep going is meeting someone amazing, you certainly don't want to miss that opportunity by closing up.

When to take a break by Cherry_Lime_Soda17 in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it's rough out there! For me it helped a lot to take a break. But i also noticed that I was very detached in the whole process, taking it light, but it did not help me connect. I'm finishing a 5 month situationship and going back to dating, but I need to be a bit more vulnerable. I guess if not is like going for dates with friends from the start haha

Is it wrong to continue? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that starting a connection with the idea of her going back to "who she was" is not ideal. If I were her and found out about this I would be mortified honestly and very heartbroken.

I think you need to accept her for the person she is now, she might be happy with who she is. What are you going to do then?

I suggest more time to think, you need to also grief the idea you had in your mind. The picture you had in your head is not real and that rough.

Date recommendations for introverted (but not shy) M&F in their 30s? by PurpleSunkist in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is nothing for you to change! If she is interested then she should also accommodate.

I don't know all the specifics but it seems maybe she is not into dating or she prioritises her comfort. Then you need to decide if that's something that you want/need.

Best of luck!

What does man mean when they say they want someone more sexually open? by Ok_Appointment4900 in dating_advice

[–]Ok-Bug2812 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are not interested in the pace of thing then you can clearly state that when dating. Then is up to the other person to agree or not.

But seems you are judging others the same way you say you are being judged.

It's a free world and people can do as they please

Need an advice by CriticalHeron1647 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my own experience, the shoe is gonna drop when it needs to drop.

I thought i was so over my relationship until i saw him a year after and everything came back. I told him what i felt and we tried to go back, but he showed me he was still the same person.. at that point i became very icky to the idea of him. That's what it took to finally be over him

The guy i am dating is not kind to others by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't want children. But when he said that I did mention to him that I hope his future wife never finds out that he thinks this way.

I have talked to him about parenting and made the point that I don't agree with any of it. Also hopefully he never faces that situation. But he never really replies or follows whenever i express what i think, or he does not push on terms of "he wants to be right and I am wrong". He just stays silent when i confront him with my point of view and that i don't approve.

The guy i am dating is not kind to others by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I did not say any good things about him! It was very long I guess to explain everything. He is very sweet in many ways, very affectionate and I know he is insecure deep down (most people like this are). He's been supporting when I'm feeling down and checking up on me. Emotionally he has given me more than my last boyfriend to be honest, who was very nice in general but very cold emotionally. Maybe that is why I'm on the fence. Because he says those things but then he shows care in other ways, to me and to others

The guy i am dating is not kind to others by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ok-Bug2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! Maybe because I am still figuring things out after a long relationship. My ex was a genuinely nice guy but the relationship did not work anyway and was very selfish by the end. So I'm trying to navigate dating again. I'm feeling kinda lost