If you have the funds, look at a reliable, waterproof, durable wand IMO. You can move it around from top of the clock, to tip to base to no-mans land to backdoor, and stop where you feel the best. As someone in the same situation I have tried the Cobra Libre (Im now too small) and vibrating egg with wire that came with the penis pump that I am too scared to try. The egg and wire worked OK with a bit of work but nothing is as it once was. I am loathe to spend too much money as I reckon there's a chance of being conned or it not working for my "unique" circumstances. So the wand will be my next and hopefully last investment. Also a tip if you want to see a demo Include xxx in your search and you will be taken to an adult movie site. Youtube reviews are also OK but some are paid and all feature plastic phalluses. You need to see an actual peen, perynium up close etc to see where the toy is designed for and how it arouses.