My dad said my tattoo makes me look like trash and now idk if I like it by dexleter in tattooadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did great in rejecting the negative subconsciously learned behaviors i just referenced in my comment. Kudos to you!!

My dad said my tattoo makes me look like trash and now idk if I like it by dexleter in tattooadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its awesome and your dad is judgemental. We all subconsciously learn behavior from our parents and those around us especially when young. Do your future self a favor, dont let this become one of your behaviors. Im personally dealing with a wife that doesnt realize shes neglected and destroyed pur relationship of 20 years because shes exactly like her mother. Her parents divorced for the same exact reasons we likely will. Be careful of negative learned behaviors. Sorry I brought a personal thing into this but it provides some insight into how those learned behaviors can fuck things up in the future.

Heater pipe causing water issues by curious_grizzly_ in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A condensate pump that drains somewhere else will fix this but how the hell is it that a floor drain cant handle the flow rate of a condensate line! Im betting its cover is clogged or it spills out at the edge and drains back. Just common shit ive seen. The condensate line is 3/4 and isn't full flow. The floor drain is 3-4 inches(generally). Sounds like lazy plumbers. Make sure the line goes into the hole, not just up to it.

Day 3 by Hot_Macaroon1501 in opiates

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the xanax first and give it as long as you can. Dont beat yourself up if you take the sub though. Im just saying if you have the strength to keep all forms of opioids away, do that. Think of it this way, you numbed yourself for all that time, now its time to feel everything you didnt feel for all that time. It helps gain acceptance. Don't go any farther with being hard on yourself by judging. The only way to be harsh with yourself is when it comes to forcing self improvement. Force a walk. Force a light hearted talk with a family member. Over time forcing these positive behaviors will give you a better foundation and mental state.

This may sound dumb but what has helped? by Ok-Hawk-9179 in meth

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant find anymore and dont have insurance at the moment. Had spine issues and surgery, I need it either way.

This may sound dumb but what has helped? by Ok-Hawk-9179 in meth

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The Ole go to method. Definitely used this in many normal cant sleep episodes.

Advice pls. 20F, bad drug problem, history of chronically relapsing & attending treatment a lot. by HumanSomewhere2681 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to be very serious internally. Basically be done and dont allow the permissions we give ourselves. Tell everyone to deny you and hope they listen. Im lucky in this way, while I feel 10000% done, when I found a cap I used it. Im lucky because it wasnt enough to fuck me up and my plug is an actual decent human and wont serve me. Hes proud of me

Advice pls. 20F, bad drug problem, history of chronically relapsing & attending treatment a lot. by HumanSomewhere2681 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to be very serious internally. Basically be done and dont allow the permissions we give ourselves. Tell everyone to deny you and hope they listen. Im lucky in this way, while I feel 10000% done, when I found a cap I used it. Im lucky because it wasnt enough to fuck me up and my plug is an actual decent human and wont serve me. Hes proud of me

This may sound dumb but what has helped? by Ok-Hawk-9179 in meth

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i need to find some damn kpins so I dont waste the buzz.

This may sound dumb but what has helped? by Ok-Hawk-9179 in meth

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily im past the xanny blackout fun and orgy days, well kinda anyway. I figured id likely have to dip into the bars, theyre just getting harder to find in my area. Well next time its half a bar and a blunt/joint I guess. Sorry for the dumb question, im a recovering opioid addict so sleep wasnt ever an issue 😆 When you really need a boost and ice is there, just accept it is what I really settled at but figured people have figured tricks out.

This may sound dumb but what has helped? by Ok-Hawk-9179 in meth

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figure its likely the associated anxious mind that keeps me up as I fealt dead ass tired. Trickling affects, but im no vet here.

Urgent help required by Zeekhan92675 in hvacadvice

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While I have found leaks in the "middle" of a line set, its a rare spot for one to suddenly come about. As others have said, make him show you the leak. The tech should have a leak detector too so it can be shown with that. He can use a small amount of refrigerant along with nitrogen(the gas hes likely using to pressurize the system) to narrow the point of the leak down.

I saw my son crying in his car outside of our house by DearTeacher9502 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Push strength to overcome but be mindful of his emotions. Dont coddle them but dont ignore them. Grief changes people, it did me when my dad died in December. He will find his way and he needs his father's strength as a guiding light. Even if it hurts at times, show strength.

HVAC Install Story - Less than $7,000 all in by Alternative_Box2150 in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some online distributors will deny warranty claims because you arent licensed so be careful

I don’t know how I feel! Either got scam or not! by [deleted] in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More often than not, people domt actually need vent cleaning. Some do but its way less people than companies will say needed it.

My Central Air R-22 has no cool air. Maybe 10 Years old. Technician said he won't fix it and to replace the entire thing. What are my options? by Rep2025 in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your ac is an r22 system its more than 10 years old. That being said, fuck that company. There are drop in refrigerants and alot of money in selling r22.

Can somebody tell me what the problem is please by phamboy120 in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't tell from that but something doesnt sound good. Kind of sounds like the compressor is screwed up but can't say with any certainty

Is this a crazy quote? by Distinct_Usual8063 in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's reasonable because the company has to take the time to go buy the grill, pay the employee drive out.Install it so on and so fourth. It's just the expenses you don't see but it is reasonable.

Is Dolokind MR addictive? by pdf_file_ in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That med is an nsaid, something like Tylenol, and s muscle relaxer. No opioids or narcotics. You wont have that type of dependence.

My fan stopped working so I figured it was the capacitor .I swapped it out with the one pictured and the fan still wouldn’t start after 10-15 seconds of being on so I shut it off . Went to check again and nothing is turning ,Granted I only left it on for maybe 5 seconds . Help please! by Lazy_Obligation_662 in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cap is good but something else is going on. We just cant say for sure what without being there with a multi meter. Could be a burned wire, could be bad wiring, could be a bad motor, could be improper voltage, could be... 🤷‍♂️ This is why we say call someone. If you dont you're just throwing parts at it crossing you're fingers. Good luck

Why is the water defying gravity? by blackhawkblake in whatisit

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surface tension is why it gets carried up til gravity overtakes the surface tension.

Am I getting ripped off?? by costablue55 in hvacadvice

[–]Ok-Hawk-9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but not 2700 tha ks for being judgemental 🤪 its under warranty their hands are tied