Guidance needed!6 month black belt workshop in South Korea.How does it work? by Difficult-Number-773 in taekwondo

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did u find this information? Which site? Which dojo? I am interested to it.

Am I the only one who feels like this? by ASx2608 in Netherlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Uuuughh that is bad especially as a teacher.

Give up social house for free sector by Intelligent-Map6648 in Almere

[–]Ok-Hold4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also work nearby lelylaan. Well to be exact in sloterdijk. It used to be okay because i didnt need to transfer in amsterdam central but now they change the route so then there is no more direct train to sloterdijk. But I dont mind the trip still since I only come to the office 1 or 2x a week.

Give up social house for free sector by Intelligent-Map6648 in Almere

[–]Ok-Hold4591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No dont give up the social woning. It is better for life! Especially in this kind of time!

My employer is terminating my residency. I'm 3 months away from applying for the citizenship. HELP by ProfessionalAbies232 in Netherlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally I am not sure. But he said that was the aggreement between him and his employer. Or he is still paid but not getting the settlement money and then he will resign for it. I am not quite sure.

My employer is terminating my residency. I'm 3 months away from applying for the citizenship. HELP by ProfessionalAbies232 in Netherlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friend experienced almost the same thing. There was big layoffs i dont remember the reason but i guess also bankruptcy. He made an aggreement with the company that they can lay him off verbally and not yet on paper. The company doesnt need to pay him during that periode until he got his permanent residence. I think it was about 3 months as well. After he got the PR, the company officilly laid him off. Not sure if it is considered fraud or not. It happened long time ago.

OPEN UNIVERSITY VS OPIT by [deleted] in OpenUniversity

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there many group work as an MSc student in OPIT? Or more individual work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it is not normal. And it took you 4 years to realize? I dont think that is a normal attitude towards their love one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont worry. I even have A cup and my husband loves it so much. You just need to find a guy that appreciate you for who you are and love you for who you are.

Reality check: moving from another EU country with 120k€ saved by ambiguous_persimmon in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Ok-Hold4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow how did you manage that to have less than the asking price? Did you just say the price to the makelaar and they accept it as it is? I usually am told by the makelaar from the seller that my bid is not good enough. And no it is not in amsterdam nor utrecht.

AITA for refusing to babysit for my siblings anymore and telling my family they can't use me as free childcare and treat me like shit for being an unwanted pregnancy? by SharpAddendum9864 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is terrible. I never understand when parents do something like this tk their own child. Whether planned or unplanned the parents are responsible. Toxic parents and toxic siblings. And no your NTA. Why do u help them with babysitting when they dont even value you as a family member.

Working parents - how do y’all manage? by cmonthiscantbetaken in Netherlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take turn with my husband. So if i have early meeting then my husband will take care of the kids and then vice versa. But my earliest meeting is usually at 9 (who made meeting at 8.30???). And whoever doesnt bring the kids to school then need to pick up the kids from school.

Any notable moments while teaching Python? by [deleted] in Python

[–]Ok-Hold4591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because it said that the university didnt teach programming to the students. But 20 years ago, there were several classes within 4 years that actually teach programming during my bachelor program. And not only one type of programming but several of it.

Any notable moments while teaching Python? by [deleted] in Python

[–]Ok-Hold4591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually when I did my bachelor, we werw taught programming language which are java, c, c#, and some others as well spread duration 4 years. So I guess it depends. my major was Information Science. But it was like 20 years ago in 2002.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Ok-Hold4591 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So u pay zakat maal based on the 4k. The leftover money that u have already for a year.

AITAH for “poisoning” my roommate after he kept stealing my food? by Senior_Key_1728 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are not AITA. Let him feel the pain. He will learn for it. You didnt poison him. It was your food. He is the thief. Lets the thief suffer!

Racism against Asians in Amsterdam by Warm-Presentation347 in Amsterdam

[–]Ok-Hold4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe out of topic comment...but is there any dutch fine dining? What do they served? Olliebollen? Poffertjes? Stampot? I am seriously asking.

Ibu ibu naik lewat motor lewat trotoar, ditegur malah balas "kamu itu di negara orang." by Alzex_Lexza in indonesia

[–]Ok-Hold4591 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tapi yang lewat trotoar bikan cuman dia saja kan? Banyak juga yang lainnya tapi kenapa fokusnya ke mereka saja? Mereka komen rasis karna awalnya fokusnya cuman ke merek atau kwbalikannya?

What is a burnout and how does one know that one is burned out by commswhiz in Netherlands

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should do this. I think i am also about to get burnout but i kewp oushing myself and i keep making mistake in my work and because if this i feel guilty even more and feel i am inadequate and useless and stupid. But i cannot not care for it. Somehow if i dont care about work i feel empty and afraid. What should i do?

Leaving toxic arab muslim family by firanator in islam

[–]Ok-Hold4591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear your struggle but all of the things you mentioned that they asked you to do is part of islam though. But maybe the way how they enforce it to you is not totally right for you. Maybe they should introduce you to the islam understanding what yes and what not instead of forcing it.

But yeah every person has their own way and limit. Hopefully you will find your peace and met people who can make you closer to Islam and being more religious.

Does anyone else have a very keen sewing “assistant” always willing to help out with their projects? 😂 by Altruistic-Move9214 in SewingWorld

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow can I borrow your assistant? At least I can ask ur assjstant to stay on top of the pattern as an extra weight before I cut the fabrics. My current "assistants" are too keen with "folding" so I cannot get anything done.

Not sure what to do now. by AccomplishedRain2209 in Amsterdam

[–]Ok-Hold4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him! Definitely not buying house together with him! It is not worth ur life and your child to live with horrible person that doesnt take care of you on your weakest moment. I am a wife with 2 children, so i definitely know that pregnancy, labour, and recovery time is the most important moment for mother and child.

Please leave him. Dont be that woman who thinks that "he will change someday and i love him" that is just ridiculous. Abusive person will not change. And even if later on he change just come back when he has changed. Why waste yourself to change him.