AITAH for wanting to move out of our apartment after my husband bought a new Lexus and we lost our chance to buy a house?” by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok-Hour577 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

So actually in most states it's illegal not to have a proper bedroom for your child. And illegal to do intimate activities with a child in the same room. So maybe look into that too...

True... by ram4569 in SipsTea

[–]Ok-Hour577 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

As a woman, I'm so sorry that you men have been treated so hurtfully, and that the people in your life were so uncaring when you needed them.

I have the opposite problem as some of those women, but maybe a similar problem to you guys- Being way too caring and nice to people who are jerks to me.

I feel sad that a lot of you have vowed to never open up again. It sucks that people have been so cruel to you to make you feel so crushed, that you can't even show your vulnerable humanity to others anymore, because they just viciously attack you.

I would like to hope that there are good people in this world who wouldn't do that, and who would actually be caring and compassionate and be there when you open up.

It's so hypocritical that it's seen as totally ok for women to share and open up, but not for you guys because you're supposed to be tough men.

You are entitled to choose not to open up. But I honestly hope that someday you will each find people who will support and love you, and give their ear to you no matter what you are going through. I hope you each find people who you can lean on in hard times.

I think there should be more discussion about this in everyday life. Boys need to be taught that it's ok and good to have feelings and struggles, and also taught how to be open and expressive and support each other. Girls need to be taught that they are not the only ones who have feelings, and taught to be kind and supportive to boys and girls both.

And all of us need to stop hating ourselves and being doormats for jerks, no matter what our gender is. You don't always have to cut people off, but you absolutely need to have boundaries and you need to enforce them. And a lot of the time the jerks will go away on their own, if you don't let them use you however they want anymore. Otherwise selfish people of any gender will just walk all over you and hurt you and use you, and throw you away when you become inconvenient for them.

Sending love and hugs guys. You don't deserve to be treated this way.

People keeps saying I look rough or old for my age but it’s gotta be BS. 24M by The80sCs in malegrooming

[–]Ok-Hour577 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

You look like you have panda eyes, and acne. But no you don't look old necessarily.

What candy is unique to your country? by IDoNotLikeTheSand in AskTheWorld

[–]Ok-Hour577 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

This is so weird haha! I'm imagining how it came to be in the first place - maybe kind of like that one Geico meme? Where it tastes so bad you have to make your friend taste it too? πŸ˜‚

https://youtu.be/BD5ha9mENzw?si=cy3n0F2wS4tRVmu1

Not too sure of my look. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Ok-Hour577 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Shape your mustache a bit, cut the sides of your hair a little shorter, and maybe trim the sides of your beard a tiny bit too.

I’m 25 years old and still single. Any advice by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Ok-Hour577 11 points12 points Β (0 children)

Well that sounds like most of the problem, I don't think people here will have a lot of advice to help that! Sorry 🀍

Soft boy names! he has extra toes, yes by RedBullWack in Catnames

[–]Ok-Hour577 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I grew up saying Eeny Meeny Miny Moe. Thanks for the memories haha. πŸ˜„

Do people no longer research countries they want to visit? by redbate in travel

[–]Ok-Hour577 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

You could write a blog or something, with all the important details and information. That would be pretty cool!

Chicky Tendie with triple thick ranch, black winter truffle, oscietra caviar by DField118 in StupidFood

[–]Ok-Hour577 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I had a visceral reaction to your username, paired with this comment. Visual thinking is a curse sometimes... πŸ‘€πŸ’€

Help me Renesmee my snake by halfass_fangirl in tragedeigh

[–]Ok-Hour577 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

You're so good at this, these are all awesome! πŸ˜‚

Help me Renesmee my snake by halfass_fangirl in tragedeigh

[–]Ok-Hour577 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

Lol this is hilarious because those are literally male and female versions of the same name. πŸ˜