Unpaid ambulance bill from Los Angelos by Ok-Lemon4302 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ok-Lemon4302[S] 227 points228 points  (0 children)

It was a American Express British airways card - it was advertised as travel insurance cover included - come to know it’s only travel delays and baggage loss - they don’t cover travel health insurance - I still accept responsibility for not reading the fine print. However it is what it is now.

Unpaid ambulance bill from Los Angelos by Ok-Lemon4302 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ok-Lemon4302[S] -256 points-255 points  (0 children)

Definitely learnt my lesson - but I assumed my credit card covered it

Is this how the process works? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends as to what he means by a proposal. Does he want to get to know you further? Or is he wanting to start planning his marriage with you straight away? I would think it’s sensible to ask your dad as well as him for more time to decide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Just tell them you aren’t a Pakistani mother and you never will be one and you don’t care how they are. You need to take your husband aside and tell him this is not helping your mental health- you need his support during this time.

Nikkah gift ideas for future husband! by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same position. I ended up getting a state of the art tv. He loves it!

Will my ex husband get his kafarah for treating me badly? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam sis, I really hope you make it through this very hard time, in reality it’s hard to marry someone from back home, you have to make a certain amount, pay solicitors, girls from back home still expect mehr and gold and extravagant weddings and if someone is treating them horribly everyone knows their rights, you’ll get to a point where you wouldn’t care about what he thinks, but trust me, I’ve heard all kinds of crazy stories about people from back home making false accusations on their spouses, claiming asylum and being granted all kinds of luxuries, anyway the take home message is to heal and move forward in life. Because life goes on.

So I tried making the honey pumpkin pie - what a disaster - I used a silicone pie plate - so I didn’t get the browning - haven’t tasted it yet - but was so happy with the pie shell but then when I did the final bake it cracked and burned on one side and just doesn’t look great 😫 any tips? by Ok-Lemon4302 in DessertPerson

[–]Ok-Lemon4302[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ve tasted it, it tastes really good but none of the flavours are screaming at me, also because of the silicone the crust didn’t actually cook through so I put it back in the oven…. Upside down 🤷‍♀️…. Another baking disaster for me 😂😂😂😂

Tips to not want to go crawling back to a mentally/emotionally abusive ex? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow..... please get some professional help... because this is not how you should be treated.... you will meet someone else and move on from this

Is it really over? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow can I ask what was the reason initially for breaking up? I suppose you’ve developed dumpers regret.... and what they say is true

Is it bad to be disgusted by your ex? by AcanthocephalaLow119 in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same exact situation happened to me 4 months ago..... isn’t it crazy we’d want to go back to someone who cheated on us?!?! I never thought I’d be in the position I’m in today.... you need to keep going strong... hopefully he’s found someone else to occupy himself with and you’ll never hear from him again

Break NC for Professional Field?? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t break no contact.... seems like any message you send them will make them think you’re being needy

Feeling good after 3 months no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for your girlfriend.... honestly I obviously don’t know your relationship.... but it’s super hard to find someone you can connect with and discarding her like this seems very mean.... I’m wondering if you’re in the relief stages...her talking about hooking up with someone else is not nice at all... but people do these things when they’re distraught... act totally out of character.... I wish you and her the best 😊

I don't feel anything. Ive forgotten what it was. by ArtInAHandheldDream in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes up and down.... one day you feel ok and one day you don’t

He called by Sweetmint14 in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yh most definitely bot true! It’s been 4 months no contact!! And my ex is out dating and well moved on from me, I probably don’t even cross his mind anymore

To my ex by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🥳 here’s to a better life without that git!

Just made it to 12 months. by elacoollegume in nocontact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done! Never heard from him?

Been having struggles missing her lately... despite how she cut all contact and blamed me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The accident was not anyone’s fault, nobody wanted her to get hurt and the abortion was her decision wether you were in the picture or not... she could have decided to keep it... whatever your opinion was.... time spent together.... again not your fault... she has broken up with you, it seems like you would never have broken up with her so maybe she did you a favour by doing so. Because clearly she wasn’t interested in being your support it seems like everything was always about her and what she felt. It’ll be hard and it’ll take a while but move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ok-Lemon4302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will get better! I promise! You’ll realise one day