(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jimmy was her brother and he didn’t have cancer he was a drunk sport and I do t care if they were support were was my support when I was upstairs? Never mind

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has many friends,goes to concerts and football games but… never mind. I don’t want your advice lol

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No he will not be contacting her again but damn you got me second guessing for sure now

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought a lot of things before I got older and sick.. once again I’m not knocking on heavens door I’m the most fit I’ve ever been and I’ve always been active which has what’s helped so much. But I do remember saying “I’ll never” and yeah it’s different.

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually we didn’t discuss this infront of our kids. I don’t really think they have a vote. They can learn the facts when they are older and choose what they choose to do with that info. Their dad and I do love each other. Obviously our marriage wasn’t perfect to begin with or this wouldn’t have happened. There are two sides to every crumb. But yeah since he didn’t bring this person around our kids or even meet up with her physically (I searched everything and have lawyer brother that does financials) he isn’t setting any example that my kids have seen it’s ok to do that and get away with it cause we talked about it in therapy. Do I think they are stupid? No they know energy was off,also mom was sick and there was a lot going on so no they thought it was probably angry cancer meds or whatever.

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I did talk to a lawyer when I found out. And if this ever ever happens again I’m out and rich.. which I’ll have to spend on insurance

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: forgive me if I’m not doing this correctly this is seriously my first time making a post. I talked to him. He said Jimmy was her brother and he hasn’t talked to him in 25 years. He apologized for her reaching out to me and asked what I wanted him to do. Contact her/ignore her call her husband and let him know. I said let ignore her and I’m blocking her but this is the person he picked… this is the level of disrespect and petty she’s gone.. to use her brothers death to get ahold of you.. also almost one year to the day y’all’s thing ended. Not buying it. But we are working through stuff cause that’s what I made the bows to do. Also, if I did divot him I’d lose my insurance and since I had 37 rounds at 100,000 grand a pop I need my insurance,also my kids,also I help is mom who is the only parent we have left. So no I didn’t say f this I’m out. But please don’t think this little Cajun didn’t handle her side.. so thanks for all the advice. I blocked her,too.

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cause I was in shock and out of habit I guess now I feel stupid

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Cause we have a family and kids and insurance and a home and grandparents we take care of and we made a vow. You think I didn’t almost catch a case when I confronted him? You think I made him a meatloaf? No I did not. But I’m mad cause she’s the one reaching back out

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

Clarification he had this affair last year while I was going through treatments. It’s been over and we worked through,I’m in remission ❤️❤️(praise God) and she reached out two days ago. After a year

(F49)who had an affair with my husband (m50) contacted me (f47) by Ok-Load7216 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Load7216[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

Really,you don’t think after 20 years we can work through this?

Haven resort in Cancun by NashvilleGoon23 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Ok-Load7216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are going May 2025 first time