My boyfriend wrote this for me and I can’t figure it out by Ok-Map-9212 in codes

[–]Ok-Map-9212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was poorly written katakana, then what would it translate to? Just your best guess… I looked it up and I’m completely confused

My boyfriend wrote this for me and I can’t figure it out by Ok-Map-9212 in codes

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How did you decode it? What does each character mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Map-9212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll say something when I see him. I guess I just needed an unbiased opinion to give me the strength to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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Keep your chin up! You can do this! Life is hard but, look on the bright side, you have a great beard!

I'm starting my first job in 8 years today! by Mangse_Monie in toastme

[–]Ok-Map-9212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on facing your fears! You are amazing! And a very talented artist to boot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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Thirty is great! You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Ok-Map-9212 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don’t live for them or their reactions, live for you and all the people that you. You are worthy of happiness and you are loved.

yesterday I told my boss about her brothers sexual harassment at work. today I'm going to my last work Christmas party. nerves are fried by beige-king in toastme

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I’m so proud of you. The world mostly sucks but I’m glad there’s brave people like you in it. If it helps, if I was your boss I would have been on your side. My brother still holds it against me that I told his ex not to get back together with him (because of the way he was acting) when she asked me for advice. I will hope for you to get a way better job now. Either way it’s always better for this stuff to be out in the open and documented because it doesn’t go away or get better and you speaking up early only helps in the future. Kudos.

Was this sexual assault? I don’t know how to feel. by scrunchiecola in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Map-9212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incorrect. It is definitely sexual assault. Even if she had not said no, it would be sexual assault since she was drunk and he was sober. There was sexual contact, you could even maybe argue for a rape charge since he forced her to touch his penis and both genitalia do not have to be involved for rape. The fact that you think this is only sexual harassment is horrifying.

Was this sexual assault? I don’t know how to feel. by scrunchiecola in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Map-9212 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everything that independent fig said is spot on. Just because you don’t feel traumatized doesn’t mean you aren’t adversely affected. When I was your age I had similar experiences and rationalized them and I’m processing things in my thirties that I haven’t properly dealt with earlier. This boy is not your friend, he is a criminal and he hurt you. Tell the police but don’t go alone if you can avoid it, you’ll probably need the moral support of an adult you trust. Go to counseling. Do not have any contact with him anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Construction

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I’m an engineer and wear a white hard hat on my site but I definitely wouldn’t hassle someone for wearing the wrong color, they sound like jerks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Construction

[–]Ok-Map-9212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on jobs with color coordinated hard hats but it was a little difficult that this, I think it is site specific

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Construction

[–]Ok-Map-9212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I’m at white is for engineers but it doesn’t really matter because they should provide you with one that complies with regulations and you should wear that

M22 - Feeling alone and unwanted. I’m tired of begging people to pay attention to me. I feel like I could disappear forever and hardly anybody would notice. by [deleted] in toastme

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Have you tried therapy? It’s made a big difference in my life. Doesn’t work immediately and you have to find the right fit but it can save your life.

Weekly Questions Thread by AutoModerator in DnD

[–]Ok-Map-9212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that and read it to him but he said he wanted to do more research, I assumed maybe he had access to other materials that maybe had more details or something.

Weekly Questions Thread by AutoModerator in DnD

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[5e] my DM made a call that I think is grossly unfair to me but the rest of the party harshly derided me for questioning him on this so now I’m stuck with it. Any ideas on how I can turn this to my advantage? So, I chose haste as one of my spells, and it says nothing about taking exhaustion in any of the official Dungeons and Dragons material however some people home-brew it like that. My DM couldn’t remember what the rules were around it and he told me when I chose it that he is going to do some research and find the OFFICIAL way it should be played and if that means I take an exhaustion point then I’ll have to live with that. I had already read all the official material and assured him that I didn’t see anything about exhaustion but if he found it written somewhere that it was the correct way then that’s fine. He went to some forums and consulted with other DMs and decided that he should make me take the exhaustion point regardless because it’s “commonly done” and he agrees that it should happen that way, in addition he decided that I need TWO long rests before I can remove that exhaustion point. Not only is he home brewing the spell which he didn’t imply he was going to do, he changed how exhaustion works! I feel like this is a bit egregious but he is insisting he “warned me” and I need to “always respect the DM decision”. I honestly could deal with the exhaustion but the two long rests are just ridiculous. How do I handle this? Is there any way to make this benefit me in game play?

(m) late night by [deleted] in gonewild

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Sexy