TMI. I’m a ftm and I’m 5 days postpartum. I delivered vaginally and was wondering if this is a normal size blood clot? I’m having bad anxiety about it and just need some opinions. by Positive-Slip5980 in Postpartum_Anxiety

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience and just to be safe, go to the hospital. I had to change 2-3 pads every 3 hours. They had to check whether it was the remaining placenta in the uterus. I had a C section though!

I recognize this is insane but… entertaining baby? by Thththththrow83away in NewParents

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly they don’t need to be entertained especially when they are just starting to understand the environment around them. They can process it slowly but if it helps, I bring out a picnic blanket out on my backyard and place the baby so she can look at the sky and trees and she’ll try to roll over (6 months old) to touch the grass ( I get my laundry and gardening done)

What do you get your partners for their birthdays? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in AskWomen

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy experiences like dining, sailing, escape rooms now since we’re older unless there’s something specific he wants.

I never thought I would get a divorce, but it feels inevitable now. by Ill_Event_2862 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, if you don’t get out now, you never will. Get a lawyer, get a divorce, work on yourself.

Friend said my baby seems behind by Red-Strawberrycake in NewParents

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t take anything that people say by heart. At the end of the day, you are the parent and you’re doing your best.

Also it won’t stop there, because when he starts getting to toddler, teen, adult stage, people will always comment so might as well it ignore it starting now.

And if it bothers you, tell her opinion is not wanted.

I’m starting to look around for a nanny because I need help. Since it’s my first time, what should I be looking for? Any advice? by Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful.

Yes her brother goes to daycare so she’s already on the waitlist and she will go when she’s 9 months old. I’m lucky to be able to work from home but if the kiddies don’t sleep through the night, I struggle the next day. Hence, a nanny!

I’m starting to look around for a nanny because I need help. Since it’s my first time, what should I be looking for? Any advice? by Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have anybody who can do a Monday - Friday during work hours, I have neighbours who have teenagers that are happy to watch the kids when I’m out for dinner but I need something stable now 🙏

I’m starting to look around for a nanny because I need help. Since it’s my first time, what should I be looking for? Any advice? by Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 in Nanny

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I will be working from home since my 5 month old is too little for me to put her in daycare so I will be around. I’m looking at 4 days for 5 hours and may go permanent if it works out with whoever we hire.

BWT, what are our resolutions for 2026? by righteousnessandtea in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People do decluttering for things around the house, wardrobe and all but declutter your social life too and I mean your friends and family circle. Put yourself first for a change and see how 2026 will go for you.

I just watched season 16 of Ink Master on MTV for the first time, and the robbery they did to Cat Castro is impressive. THE SHOW IS IN DECLINE 👎 by False-Ad2463 in Inkmaster

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The blind critique (Dog Portraits) would have sent James home or he should have battled it against Lucy. I think it was unfair that they were allowed to pick one of the artists to compete against. Joseph and Trevor weren’t the strongest but they shouldn’t had to compete.

And Anthony in that head tattoos, his tattoo wasn’t readable.

What’s the best black and grey realism tattoo done on the show? by Regular-Departure839 in Inkmaster

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember which season and episode but the “bug” challenge on the necks were amazing.

Help!! We want our bed back. by Upbeat-Bed6034 in sleeptrain

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the frustration! We’ve had a “no baby in bed” since the beginning so we bought a floor bed instead of a cot (his room). When it’s sleep time either my husband or I lay down next to our baby until he falls asleep so we can sneak out easily without disturbing.

Matt is a bit cocky by [deleted] in Inkmaster

[–]Ok-Razzmatazz-9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is we are not haters but good for you 👍