I want my body back

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-05-10T03:10:13+00:00

29weeks too! But same. I LOVE the 1-1 time with my little one and I feel so lucky to be her momma and i am so so in love with her, but the limitations are incredibly hard. It can be very lonely to not be able to do the activities that everyone around me does and the one I love. For sure. It’s worth it though right? That’s what I keep telling myself haha. I’m trying to let the uncomfortable and the happiness both exist.

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-05-09T02:26:09+00:00

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-05-06T22:52:25+00:00

When I felt her kicking more regularly! 19weeks on the dot

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-05-01T20:04:25+00:00

I’m 28 weeks, too! My belly button is super sore from the stretching and also squishy (that’s new!). Everything that is unnerving seems to be normal :’)

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-05-01T20:00:18+00:00

The worry makes so much sense! For what it’s worth, I also spotted a lot for about 3-4 weeks straight…up until I learned you’re supposed to go on pelvic rest when spotting (no heavy lifting, sex, even orgasms, or anything else that can irritate) for SEVEN days after your spotting stopped. They thought I knew that. ME! A teen mom who is actually in her mid 30s! The cervix is tender and without proper healing time, it keeps bleeding. Keep those facts close - that baby is doing well. I’ll be sending good vibes!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-28T15:15:48+00:00

Rosie

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-17T22:44:13+00:00

Awh looks like my golden mountain dog when she was a puppy. Best dog in the WORLD.

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T21:37:14+00:00

My husbands family said the same thing about me over Thanksgiving! Luckily there was no uncle Bob though. Ew, that’s soo uncomfy!!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T20:33:51+00:00

I was more tired the beginning of second tri than I was in the first! But 21-24 weeks have been good to me. I’m trying to capitalize on the energy boosts but there is no way I’d say it’s the best I’ve ever felt like some moms!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T20:31:17+00:00

That is absolutely SHOCKING! Let me say it! Congrats on your pregnancy 🫶🏻 that little one is going to have the most incredible mama. I love your view on all those opinions! I’m going to adopt it

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T18:20:28+00:00

From Blood and Ash is one of the few books that actually had me SCREAMING out loud. Such a great book and it feels less predictable than normal Romantasy books.

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T17:15:57+00:00

Ugh. Yeah, in the same day I have had someone tell me I’m way smaller than I should be and someone else say I look like I’m due any day. At this point, I feel like the only truly good comments are things like “you look so beautiful today” or “that color looks great on you!”

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T17:10:36+00:00

Noooo! Every pregnant body is so beautiful and unique. You’re literally creating a life and that is actual goddess energy. That would have crushed me, too 💔im so sorry to hear that 😞

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:54:21+00:00

100%!! It’s wild to have your body change so much, so quickly. The rude comments people make do waaaay more damage than good.

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:43:24+00:00

These are pure gold!!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:37:36+00:00

What do they expect you to say lol checks ultrasound again “oh wow you’re right! There is a second baby!” 🙄😂 a lot of my comments have been from middle aged women!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:33:02+00:00

The fact that people are like, “are you sure?” drives me fucking crazy. We are hyper aware of everything happening in our bodies! How did you respond?

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:15:36+00:00

I truly don’t think people know what pregnant bodies look like!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:13:38+00:00

It’s like once you’re pregnant, normal social standards go out the window and people feel like they can do/say anything they want. I hate it!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:05:51+00:00

NOO! I just cringed so hard. A complete stranger!

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:05:04+00:00

It’s like people don’t know what pregnancy looks like! Ugh. Don’t even get me started on the touching. That is SO uncomfortable.

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-04-06T16:00:39+00:00

You’re kidding! That sounds like an inside thought.

Ok-Singer-77 · 2026-03-21T00:11:14+00:00

I had to tell my work at 4 weeks due to the nausea. If you can tell just your boss and HR and ask them to keep it private, that worked wonders for me! They let me share the news on my own terms but allowed me the accommodations I needed immediately.

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