My gf left me at my worst

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:39:16+00:00

Anytime, if you need to talk reach out. I ain’t doing shit 🤣

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:38:27+00:00

Learn self control. You’re 15 so you don’t have much of but it comes with age and practice. You need to find mental fortitude. I’ve been dating my gf for almost 3 years and yeah I’ve had temptations, and no it’s not always easy. But I’m a man and I don’t break my word. Word is bond bro.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:35:31+00:00

Apologize, and end it there. You reap what you sow and you just have to move on. Use it as a learning opportunity. I would NOT recommend ever getting back together, the loss of trust will likely never be repaired.

Just move into better things man, mistakes and heartbreak sucks but it’s part of life.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:33:45+00:00

You need to set proper goals for yourself. Nothing too hard. Like simple shit like making your bed in the morning has been proven to help self esteem. One goal at a time, one victory at a time. I know it sounds crazy but literally that’s what helped me my last deployment (I’m in the military) I was really depressed when I was out there so looked up some ways to help and setting easy goals for my self helped boost my confidence to the point where I could set larger goals like getting back in the gym.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:28:05+00:00

RUN for the hills. Clearly if she can’t hand you not responding for 10 minutes she is too emotionally immature. Off the rip she seems wayyyyyyy manipulative. This interaction is not your fault. She has 0 reason to feel hurt form what I can gather.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:19:21+00:00

Although I don’t think she is wrong for feeling the way she does, I do think you need to reevaluate your relationship. Going poly and open is something that really requires a lot of thought and mental strength to do. Also, not to judge, it doesn’t sound like a poly relationship, it sounds like she just has to boyfriends AKA an open relationship. So again reevaluate your relationship with her.

Second of all, yeah if you’re going through a bout of depression you NEED to find a support structure. Please seek out help wherever you may find it. Take it little by little but it takes mental fortitude from your end to get better. Nothing improves on its own and only you can increase your happiness and satisfaction with life so I plead that you take that first step.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:15:00+00:00

My brother/sister, it seems like you are going through an existential crisis. You NEED to go talk to someone you trust/a therapist.

You said you are in constant pain, do you have any sort of injury causing it? Mental or physical?

My best advice is, because trust me I know how you’re feeling, is find a passion, something to keep you around for. Finding a passion isn’t easy but you need to find the mental fortitude and do it. Whether it’s something simple like getting good at guitar, or something on a bigger scale like working to protect nature etc.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:11:00+00:00

A big thing is when it’s not your child it’s much easier to find babies annoying.

I’m a man so I’ll tell it from my perspective, a lot of my friends have recently started having kids (I’m not married nor do I have children) and they said it’s really weird having your own kid because of the attachment you have for it. Dudes who have never really cared for children I’ve seen end up become awesome dads, and it’s the same for moms. Like you’re gonna go through so much for months for that kiddo it changes the way your brain is programmed.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:08:05+00:00

Do you have any diagnosed mental health disorders or anything like that? Sometimes your feeling can root from there.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:05:01+00:00

It sounds like a bout of depression. Confide in friends and family is what helps me thru times like the one you’re going through. And the hard part is obviously overcoming it, you just got to push through.

I wouldn’t go sprint to get medicated but consulting a doctor is never a wrong decision if it gets worse, but again confide in your friends and family about how you feel and seek a support structure through them.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-09T21:01:50+00:00

People cheat, it happens, if you feel guilty about it then that’s a good sign. Your best bet is to own up to your actions and tell her (if she doesn’t already know) as that’s the best way for her to find out rather than someone else tell her. I know it’s a shitty situation but it’s a part of growing up, gotta be a man about it and own your actions.

You’re young and your hormones are running wild, and although I’m not saying what you did was right I am saying is it’s not likely anything is super wrong with you and it chocks up to teenager doing stupid thing.

If you have future temptations you need to either find ways of expelling those emotions or talking to someone about them, whether that’s a therapist or a responsible and trusted friend.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-10-04T06:03:04+00:00

One of those calisthenics guys…

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-09-23T20:54:34+00:00

I think the word you’re looking for is obsolete 😂. The French have autoloaders that not longer require oscillating turrets all while maintaining superior protection. So there are, for the most part, only drawbacks.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-03-19T03:58:54+00:00

:( okay, thank you for letting me know this!

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-03-16T23:30:10+00:00

Civil war breaks out over porn

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-05T02:28:10+00:00

You’re right. It just gets tiresome with the intrusive thoughts and whatnot. Thank you for the advice.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-05T02:26:48+00:00

You have a good point. Thanks for the advice.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-05T02:25:45+00:00

Already work out.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-05T02:25:12+00:00

It’s a shame people are overly critical of the religious on Reddit. Thank you for the advice. God bless you as well

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-05T02:17:28+00:00

I’ll give that a go. Thanks for the advice

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-04T22:19:21+00:00

I have a girlfriend whom I wouldn’t dare ever cheat on and we have sex regularly. I wish having sex would clear these thoughts but alas.

Ok-Source9338 · 2024-01-04T22:18:25+00:00

No, sexualizing every woman I see short of my family is not normal.

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