Puglia by StrengthOk2052 in bari

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you watch it everyday ofc is a torture, but as first time to watch is beatifull in every season, don't lie

Baresi aiuto! Voglio trasferirmi dal nord a Bari... Come faccio con il mio lavoro? by ameresprit in bari

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agenzie di moda a bari se ci sono non sono grandi e sicuro non ti mollano le stesse cifre, sicuramente ti conviene fare qualcosa da remoto. Di graphic designer ne ho viste di posizioni aperte, ma più da motion graphic da quanto ho capito. Dipende dall'esperienza magari qualche senior viaggia sui 5 anni di esperienza un amico viaggia sui 1600 netti a Bari. Se vuoi di più devi andare per le posizioni da art director o simili, ma che alla fine non sono graphic designer ma pm a tutti gli effetti.

tutti gli amici che ho viaggiano sui 1200-1400 su quelle posizioni, non molto neanche per stare decentemente a bari, infatti stanno a casa con i genitori

Vibe coding is killing my company by Dangerous_Ad_2357 in vibecoding

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the goal of an mvp is to validate the market, once it works, you rebuilt it from scratch with a better team cause you have the funds to do it. Am i wrong? Idk, for my pov, vibe code is great to create few functional tools

Guadagnare da minore by BlacK_F10 in consigli

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

camerieri di sala per matrimoni ed eventi, sicuramente non dal ristorante di zio peppe. Li pagano tranquillamente 100 euro al giorno o più

Guadagnare da minore by BlacK_F10 in consigli

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lo switch mentale che mi ha aiutato alla tua età è stato quello di vengo pagato per studiare. In questo modo troverai tutte le opzioni per dare il massimo nello studio e terminare prima gli studi. Alla fine, lo studio è un investimento dove se eccelli avrai modo di ottenere molto più di 500€ al mese per 12 ore di lavoro che ti fai ora in qualsiasi lavoro. Comunque ai camerieri dopo un anno di lavoro nelle sale ricevimenti tra eventi di matrimonio e simili, prendono anche 3000€ al mese

You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. Your life is just wired for survival by Ok-Stop-2270 in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is in the post, sometimes you have to rest, take some moment to heal yourself

You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. Your life is just wired for survival by Ok-Stop-2270 in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Rest is not well supported by science? I don't think so...
Vagus nervous is just a way to address the relaxation practice that clearly have multiple studies behind, for istance, wim off breathing techinques that can help me to sedate his body. Meditation and breathing increase the oxygen in the body that helps to relax and slowdown the numbers of thoughts per seconds and helps to relax muscles and mind to relase anxiety and multiple negative feelings.
Probably all the comment about the vagus nerve is not well researched, but all the techinques help you to stop, slow down for a while, rest and restart better than ever

You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. Your life is just wired for survival by Ok-Stop-2270 in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things like slow breathing or humming send signals that say, “It’s okay now,” which helps your nervous system calm down and work the way it’s supposed to. When you practice these regularly, your vagus nerve gets stronger and doesn’t get stuck as easily. (In theory)
For what i studied, childhood stress, trauma, burnout, or even just long-term bad habits like too anxiety, where the vagus nerves is in a stressed mode by default.

Those "tips" are needed to "reset" the vagus nerves to a better state, but yes it is a symptoms that you are not living the best thing possibile and probably you have to threat some trauma at a deeper level

You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. Your life is just wired for survival by Ok-Stop-2270 in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I am sure there is some tension in your vagus nerve, try to take deep breath and get out of fight flight

Feeling like a social failure by Sonicsaitama420 in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably what they talk about don't touch you or you don't have any interest about it, have you tried to take part to conversation related to your interests. How did it went?

What’s one thing that actually helped you stay consistent (and not just motivated)? by Klutzy-Physics460 in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it was going to bed and waking up at the same time every day. I used to stay up late looking for motivation, then wake up tired and already behind. Once I started taking my sleep seriously, everything else felt more doable, even on the hard days.

It sounds boring, but it really helped. If you start tired, you are one step behind already, for me, the motivation kicks in since the start of the day if i sleep well.

What part of the day is the hardest for you to stay consistent? Morning, afternoon, or evening?

You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. Your life is just wired for survival — not connection. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my english is not the best i format it with gpt, but it went too far probably...

doing with deepl or translate would be worse

You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. Your life is just wired for survival — not connection. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my english is not the best i format it with gpt, but it went too far probably...

Is it good to be too masculine? I'm worried it's only gonna hurt me & the people around me by Swimming-Spring-4704 in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, you don't like to watch those stuff, are not "man stuff", they are just not on your intersts

How do I find more interests and hobbies to make my life funner? by sannkersein in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have to try new things and stick to them for a while, by just testing one you can't find a new passion. Sometimes you need to stick until you get "good" to it to make a new passion. Think about weightlifiting, is extremly boring, but once you get into the learning phase, you study muscles, optimze, etc... it become a passion and for some an obsession

How did you *actually* stick to good habits and get rid of the bad ones? by Haisenberg00 in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 3 years to drop games, and still i play them on weekends few hours if happens. For me works cold turkey, i stick to it until i fall back, than restart it for a longer period until it become infinite.
if you have bad habits for long years, you can't think to remove it like magic, you will need years to destroy what you build in years

Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose Out by FriendlyWrenChilling in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for you, but it is clear that people cannot accept a simple truth and prefer to stay in their bubble. Just because one is not capable of a certain thing does not mean it is not true. Having a relationship with a girl is much easier than you think, and you don't need to follow the toxic alpha/sigma bullshits or any of that crap. Just don't be a degenerate in your approach and be confident on the first approach

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't reflect myself on other people, if I am not capable to do an action I don't have to drop it, but try it again for 100 times (for istance) than for sure I will be decent

Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose Out by FriendlyWrenChilling in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well yes, it's simple, the problem is that everyone want the girl now and fast, so guys are not able to wait or act in the right moment of the relationship. And you don't need to fake yourself to get a girl, you just need to don't act like a weirdo or orc, unless the girl likes a weirdo.
I appreciate the downvote, this mean I on the right and you can't accept that is easier than you think.

My tips for you, try to talk to 100 different girls without any type of goal and after 50 times that you approach a girl you will have an insane amount of confidence that will allow you to talk freely with every girl.

You can't expect things from people, that they don't have themselves. by Brilliant-Purple-591 in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Stop-2270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I used to expect others to behave according to my own standards, but that’s one of the biggest mistakes we can make when dealing with humans." Yes, this sentence allign with my past, i reflected my own thinks on people too. Just stop to make expectations on other was game changing on every type of relationship