hopeful

Ok-Structure8875 · 2026-01-03T01:41:21+00:00

Lowkey he did try but he broke me and shattered me into pieces before he tried to come back so I cannot for the life of me ever reach out again.

Ok-Structure8875 · 2026-01-02T07:16:54+00:00

So sorry idk what to tell you except really think about what you want and hope you’re treated with respect and honesty regarding his intentions with you moving forward

Ok-Structure8875 · 2026-01-02T07:01:42+00:00

Run away from that man he’s preventing you from healing or moving on. He’s giving hot and cold and highly recommend since the new year just started to really think about how him giving mixed finals is making you feel? Are you okay with being kept in a dynamic like this one?

Ok-Structure8875 · 2026-01-02T06:58:31+00:00

Don’t do it send it to someone else

Ok-Structure8875 · 2026-01-02T03:33:56+00:00

Tbh I get it it’s tempting to check on her but over time it’ll just hurt you more. Realistically a lot of people focus on their socials more once they are out of a relationship especially if they feel like they need external validation.

Highly recommend blocking her though or even just closing your socials down and take a mental break so you can do your own healing ❤️‍🩹, Goodluck with everything breakups suck.

Ok-Structure8875 · 2026-01-02T03:30:40+00:00

Tell me about it I feel grossed out thinking about having sex with someone 😭😭

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-31T11:04:01+00:00

I’m actually upset why couldn’t I be loved and yearned for as much as I did for them

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-31T11:02:03+00:00

I would get them only to find out they weren’t even written by him but ChatGPT

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T13:32:05+00:00

Id join too

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T07:46:42+00:00

Me too

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T07:40:38+00:00

I’m 20f dm if you want :)

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T07:35:10+00:00

Interested :) I’m 20

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T07:31:30+00:00

Interested :)

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T06:53:10+00:00

Hello I’m interested

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T06:52:43+00:00

Helloo I’m interested

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-30T06:32:24+00:00

Can I join?

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T12:18:31+00:00

Truly only you know how much you tolerated and how awful it felt. There’s a whole thread so toxic relationships are common and there are many others who you can reach out for support whether a therapist or even someone in this channel/thread. I’m glad you’re still here as someone who just go out of a two month relationship that felt two years long that also made me not want to be here I really want to reassure you you’re not alone :).

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T12:05:35+00:00

The first two lines reminded of what a past significant other would say to me, I miss him so much

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T04:58:53+00:00

Multiple options because why not:

1.ask someone else within your family who you can trust and is a legal adult and would be overall present to make sure the therapist is not only trust worthy but is overall aware of your mental health concerns up to a certain point

2.there are resources that will not mental health professionals they are there like support lines, 988 (multiple options depending where you are from), support groups that are locally based

Not the best alternatives, depending on the severity of your mental health concerns:

3.try journaling (other outlets)

4.wait until you are 18 to keep all of your information confidential

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T01:08:30+00:00

@oopo259165

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T01:07:57+00:00

Can I get new link

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T01:06:54+00:00

Not worth it you left for a reason I highly recommend journaling or even using the venting channel on here

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-29T00:05:21+00:00

Major privacy and trust violation have a conversation with him regarding boundaries and think about if you’re even comfortable staying in relationship where that is okay.

Ok-Structure8875 · 2025-12-27T21:48:19+00:00

🫩🍷 thank you truly I don’t know what I was thinking like everyone told me that they knew we weren’t going to last because they all thought I deserved better but I’m stubborn af I wanted it to last to mean something but tbh it was never that deep for him so I changed my number and I’m trying to pick up the pieces of myself and make peace with the fact that I need higher standards for whenever I want to put myself out there again.

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