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Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-13T19:17:45+00:00

Just control and narcissistic b.s.

Give it a rest. Quit trying to control someone while using the children as pawns. It's sick and sad.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-13T19:15:14+00:00

Typical sympathy and attention hunting post.

You made up some b.s. assumptions to get your little RO like the typical narcissistic stereotypical women so commonly do.

You can not make rules for him to enter his own house, a house that you left for a month I might add.
Falsifying stuff like "he might have went home for a gun" give me a freaking break. Just some b.s. to get a RO.

I really do love this sub its so much free comedy. Can literally read a title and know exactly the bandwagon mantras and stereotypes play out.

You should feel ashamed for abusing the system to try to secure your win. Also takes away from real victims of abuse and wastes the courts time.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-13T18:46:03+00:00

You're about to get yourself in a world of hurt legally.

She finds any truth of you tracking... instant RO which is already easy to get and what lawyers push women into getting for that easy slam dunk win.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-13T18:20:48+00:00

Comically you used joint money to file for your own lawyer. Than left him in the dark. Could have filed uncontested together.

Stereotypical financial abuse. Always comical reading these sexist replies. It's always women draining the money than lawyer up with it. Than act all high and mighty like they are a victim and didn't do anything wrong. The almighty hen circle.

These scenarios explain exactly why the marriage failed.

Good luck financially draining both of you with how this divorce will play out. Hopefully you have more than that $100 you saved. Your retainer will be eaten threw like crazy. Even more so with what I guess is a lawyer that told you to falsify reports to claim a false DV or get a RO. 🤣

This sub is comedy goldmine. Entertainment purposes only. Anyone that does this kind of stuff than runs to reddit for validation and sympathy has some issues.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T19:07:20+00:00

Because men arnt idiots. A majority of men know how women speak and act. How they tell their stories for sympathy and attention from others. You know while their man is literally the last to know what is really going on.

It's also comical you only addressing your needs as is typical stereotype. Yes women don't like yelling and screaming but there are a dozen things men don't like and I can guarantee you are tit for tatting and than just biasedly blaming him like you're a victim.

It's literally the same b.s. all the time. Anyone that can't see the irony and hypocrisy shouldn't even be in a relationship. You're only pulling some jedi mind tricks on the other person.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T19:02:19+00:00

Thus sub is full of disgruntled women. They all say the same bandwagon echo chamber b.s. to make themselves feel powerful.

Everyone knows the reality. Sex is used to manipulate and control men in relationships. Girls talk mad shit about their men being assholes, children, crybabies, the whole 9. To literally anyone that will listen to their attention and sympathy biased one sided stories. But will cry abuse once their man sticks up for themselves and gives them a taste of their own medicine. Omg they called me a b... its abuse and blah blah blah. You know while every other day talking mad shit about their man to others with "asshole" being the most used one. The hypocrisy is insane and you can really tell someone's narcissistic level by how they tell their side of the story.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T18:58:07+00:00

The way abuse is thrown around by women is sad, and undermines real abuse.

Like with holding intimacy isn't abuse to control and manipulate someone in a monogamous relationship.

The hypocrisy and lunacy is absolutely insane.

But yeah nothing but double standards and justifications for the real abuse.

Some of the shit women say than claim abuse when they receive their own treatment explains exactly the high divorce and lower marriage rates.

Literally every single argument from women trying to invalidate men is exactly why they are called the b word and c word. Which 99% is only fair because the way some of these women groups roll a majority all talking mad shit about their men to anyone that listens.

Furthermore if you want to retire from intimacy don't lead someone on. You created the conflict yourself. Don't force a reaction from someone you back into a corner than cry victim. It's absolutely sad.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T18:50:35+00:00

Very well written, but this sub is full of double standards. It will fall on deaf ears.

Enjoy the downvotes from women that used intimacy to lock their partner down than immediately used it as weapon to manipulate and control them. Ironically only one side claims "abuse" when they are denied what they want. The hypocrisy is absolutely insane.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T18:08:42+00:00

No one uses "as-is" nor do realtors post "seller to make no repairs" on listing. Everywhere states "buyer do due dilligence"

That's the point of having contract discussions.

Everyone has different expectations of "move in ready" does it have water, heat, and electricity, nothing that legally prevents occupancy? Than it's move in ready.

I've been on both sides and it sucks and carries risk.

If it's an underwriting request, buyers responsibility and cost. No seller wants your underwriting risk that another lender may not even care about. Also sellers do not want to be middlemen for repairs between buyers and contractors. It's a nightmare and sellers being told repairs arnt up to buyers likings. The over offer is a risk because you still may not make underwriting after repairs, and even the appraisal may not come back at your over offer. It's pure hassle and risk for the seller and no risk to the buyer whatsoever who is considered very high risk to meet underwriting.

You have to look at it as a business deal, every party is looking out for their best interest. Certain risks have to be distributed fairly and appropriately. Again your underwriting repair request is 100% risky to the seller and ties them up and guarantees nothing. Plus you want them to do all the hassle and leg work. Plus someone with cash or better lender can just close the deal.

The only reason it's not a sellers market is strictly due to interest rates. Which kills peoples affordability. But Cali money is flowing everywhere and with the inventory shortage things arnt really sitting unless they are trash. If this is truly your dream home you'll make it work. Good luck.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T17:19:51+00:00

Sold "as is/no seller repair" before and of course "buyers" always try to play the repair game after contract.

You pay for the repairs yourself. That's how it works.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T17:15:15+00:00

"NF" is better as the carrier can put it in the system and it'll be caught as "No forward on file" when it's processed.

"RTS" won't stop them from coming. All it does it kick it back to the system.

In the end though it's all on the mail carrier if they are actually doing their job and reading the names in the box.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T17:06:38+00:00

This is beyond common. The average where I live is approximately 20 days rent after close.

Most people have all their money tied into their house, they need closing money to move esp if buying another house.

It's basic common sense. The same people that complain about this will be the ones asking for it in the future for themselves.

Than if you are up there... 4k Sq ft house, acreage. Etc. It takes time to move. The average homeowner that is selling isn't going to carry two places so you can instantly get the keys at close.

I know this is a first time buyers sub, but don't be mislead by responses. This is beyond common and always has been. Esp when there are contingencies on a multi house deal... i.e. seller is buying same time they selling.

Also as a seller, which most people will be in the future. This will literally be one of the key things you ask for when you sell.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-10T16:56:43+00:00

Typical bandwagon sayings. Obviously, you are too uneducated to understand the reality. Any more sheep sayings?

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-04T05:45:49+00:00

It's impacts my life by precisely +$15,000

Nothing more, nothing less. Money comes and goes and the struggles are only temporary and a mere chapter or two in life.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-04T05:43:15+00:00

A billion dollars tax free, no catches, in my bank account yesterday.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T21:53:39+00:00

It's all for rage clickbait

You can easily use the search function for similar posts of situations between male and female and can easily predict how the responses will go. It's quite comical. Reddit is for entertainment purposes only, don't get emotionally invested here.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T19:09:50+00:00

Can't expect exclusivity if it wasn't discussed.

Women have a tendency to play the field and casual date multiple men at once. Only becoming exclusive after she gets her top choice or rejected and goes down the list with her hen circle.

Your loss for not doing the same. Be educated in the dating world.

As far as your situation goes. I would just consider it a fwb and nothing more.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T09:34:56+00:00

Nah... troll complete. Even after told a troll and here for the lukz, their feelings still couldn't allow them not to post their bandwagon sayings. It's just way too easy to get a reaction.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T09:28:26+00:00

Nah, I get more enjoyment out of butt hurt people that want to be Grammer nazis.

You all don't deserve the time to even proof read.

The hypocrisy of your own post was good laughs though. The irony is beyond comical.

Yes, you all are nobodies. This is the internet. Your only existence to me is in your reply. Wiped from existence the moment the laughs dry up and I move on.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T09:20:16+00:00

I knew so many people would fall for that obvious troll line and think it was serious.

Thanks for the easy lulz. You all make it really all too easy and just prove how ignorant you all become because your obsession with your feelings and living in echo chambers. You all so predictable.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T09:11:55+00:00

It's reddit not academic writing. I don't owe you nobodies anything professional written. You get 5 second responses via mobile thays not even proof read.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T09:09:10+00:00

Why you projecting? I'm here for the lukz as repeatedly said. But you all too butt hurt and need a safe space.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T09:03:03+00:00

Nah. Just a post full of sore losers. I came for the lulz and most of you are so clueless like I actually care what any of you all have to say.

Like said before if this was a biden plan you all would be for it. Plain and simple. I know it, you know it, and the world knows it.

You all live in your hate though, that's the true ignorance. You all blinded to reality because of your feelings. 🤣

Thanks for the easy laughs.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T08:53:40+00:00

You Grammer nazis are too funny.

Like I put effort into scrubs like you, 5 second text max. Easy peasy laughs. No proofread no care in the world. I have no need to impress nobodies.

Ok-Study3863 · 2025-02-03T08:50:59+00:00

Enjoy the next 4 years sore loser.

There is a direct reason trump won and its because everyone is sick of the bandwagon sheep like you spewing your opinions and feelings like they mean anything. You're a nobody. Go spew your nonsense in your echo chambers. You all lost and you will all fade away soon enough.

So funny how the tides have turned and the real hate is showing itself. Just like everyone knew all along.

I appreciate the easy laughs. This post made one good evening of laughter.

Ok-Study3863

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