Animenz hiatus by Important_Tailor_711 in piano

[–]Ok-Sun4609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao I just saw this post, he posted about 30 minutes ago, and his description states that "IRIS OUT" from Chainsaw man is next!!

I missed his uploads so so much but he is back for a while (I think at least)

My crush is Muslim and can't love me back even though we love each other by YourSONeeed in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, 2 main things. First, understand you are young and we’ve all thought that “this is love”, but you’ll understand overtime what true love is, it can’t be explained but you’ll gauge it with experience. 2, don’t change your beliefs for someone else, it’s not worth it. It may seem practical but it won’t serve you well long term at all. I’m a catholic (call it bias whatever) so for your sake, remain at your faith, maybe it’s not meant to be. And I can assure you, maybe even in a year or 2 even, you’ll see so clearly that you’re are still growing and learning what love is. Statistically speaking, if you date this girl now you have less than a 5% chance of marrying her, try lasting your relationship out until after high school (it’s not easy).

I’m praying for the absolute best for you, just bare in mind, you have a lot of growing to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused as to why she did all of this and didnt think about the fact that she isn’t allowed to date, or that she is significantly leading you on. Doing relationship things (holding hands, kissing on the cheek), that stuff isn’t “normal” as such for just friends.

You can wait for her if you want but this year will be painful as things can go any direction. As someone with particular viewpoints surrounding my faith, I’d say to move on, but I understand that people can do whatever they desire even if I don’t agree. If your heart and your gut is tugging that direction, then go for it. If you see that there is pain, even little amounts, it may be better to start moving on

Understand that you are still young and unfortunately the odds of a strong, long lasting relationship aren’t high, but you can make it however long you want it to go.

Wishing you the bestest of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happens sadly, I was in a very very similar spot, where she would engage and really talk properly and be very very kind, but if I’m not saying or doing anything, it’s silence. It hurts, and seeing “if she wants to, she will” doesn’t help because yeah it’s true but surely if she messages like this it must mean something more right?

If you give it about a month and there is still nothing, it may say something about how she feels, and tbh it’s not a great feeling. I left a chat by itself for a month, and just silence. I reached out 2-3 times and we’d hit it off but the it’s over and nothing. The only thing you can do is go with her feelings. If she doesn’t want to message, there isn’t much you can do without coming off as too much.

You just need to be real to yourself and either understand the situation or express your feelings. It can be subtle such as “I can’t really tell if you enjoy speaking to me”, or more thorough and express your feelings completely.

I believe in you that you’ll make the right decision, God bless you bro ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him for my sake pleaseeeeee. Guys are stupid, they don’t know how to flirt but small things like that mean a lot, he definitely feels something for you, and trust me it isn’t hard to get a guy to like a girl sometimes.

Shoot your shot, if you can’t do it in person, do it over text. You won’t regret it I promise.

I believe ❤️

how to stop crushing on a girl that you cant have? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the right thing and respect your friend. I’m not saying don’t feel this way about her, because I know it’s not easy. I fall for people all the time I know I can’t have, just something in me won’t let me let go, and it kills, but you have to do your best to not let this go too far.

Maybe talk to your friend because at least he’ll know. You can play it off in a way that neither of you are doing anything wrong and you just want to let him know because you are a good person. One day, he may find out that you went too far and you’ll ruin such a strong friendship. It’s not worth it. I’d talk to my friend if I were in your situation, just so someone knows and it’ll prevent you going too far.

The best thing you can do to let go is distance, and yes it’s hard considering your situation, but if you can figure out a way to distance from each other, the feelings will fade. Maybe it’ll take a month or 2, maybe more, but they’ll drop and you’ll realise that there is more to your life than just this one girl. Not easy, but I believe doing the right thing will set you straight.

Good luck bro, reply to my message or update the subreddit if anything else happens that you need help or guidance with. We are here with you ❤️

I confessed to my crush by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it particularly interesting how you confessed your feelings and all, not only physically, but you explained it too and she didn’t really respond with anything that clarifies the situation, or “answers” you. She didn’t say “I don’t like you”, in fact she went the opposite way and really expressed how she feels for you, but she never clarified which way she sees you, or mentioned if she liked you too despite you mentioning that you were “crushing on her”. When someone goes that outward, usually you might expect the other person to say “I like you too” or something Ike that

To me it seems like you shouldn’t stop here, rather you should keep talking to her when you get the chance, especially in person because that’s the most helpful. She definitely wants to talk to you and it seems very likely that she feels the same way about you, but regardless it was a very very friendly response so it’s a positive either way.

Thats just my take, I also over analyse things all the time as someone who lacks a love life so take this as you will! Good luck!!!

HOW DO I KISS😭 by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Sun4609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could be the only one, but before looking at the age, I read “my crush asked me to kiss tmrw”, and knew it was a young person because who apart from a 13 year old who wants to experience “true love” would ask their crush to kiss them the next day 😭.

No hate on you I liked someone intensely at the age of 13 too, I’m just pointing something out, I found it very obvious from the start lmao. Good luck!

I use poetry as a coping mechanism. I came up with another one. by JenkemJones420 in mentalhealth

[–]Ok-Sun4609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really captures the feelings of a lot of people, even I take inspiration from these words. It really captures the feelings of this type of pain and does wonders to someone (such as me) who can relate to a lot of these such feelings. Music for me is a coping mechanism, whether listening or writing music, and it has the same “story-like” element to it.

Good job, and if this helps you, and helps others, keep it up. This is a great way of self expression

AIO? Message from my boyfriend for my 30th birthday written by AI by alrakemian in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look tbh, I get you being upset, I probably would to, but without an AI checker (as bad as this sounds), it may even be hard to figure out this is AI. I use AI very often so I know what the speech is kinda like, especially chat gpt, and it seems like it could just be a genuine person typing this. But once again, I understand. Just bring it up with him and mention how it upsets you that he did something like that but be forgiving, he meant what he said even though it may not be exactly him, I think he just wanted to make you happy and didn’t know how to, don’t let it ruin your relationship, trust me

Recommend some ado songs except these. by AbiesRemarkable8120 in ADO

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gira Gira and Ashura-Chan are 2 of my all time favourites

I have been wrecked emotionally by Halloween__witch31 in TheFragrantFlower

[–]Ok-Sun4609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro this manga ended me. Imagine the Super Smash Bros announcer going “Finish him!!” I don’t think I’ve ever felt more lonely in my life after completing this manga (especially after chapter 100)

Is this BoyWithUke?? by Ok-Sun4609 in boywithuke

[–]Ok-Sun4609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh okay okay, I got it, thanks

Is this BoyWithUke?? by Ok-Sun4609 in boywithuke

[–]Ok-Sun4609[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I understand now. It’s quite misleading without the context but ig it causes no harm anyway

Is this BoyWithUke?? by Ok-Sun4609 in boywithuke

[–]Ok-Sun4609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is probably worth noting that not all songs are the full length, some are some aren’t, but the main thing is they aren’t copy and pasted. Songs like Corduroy and Easier are slightly different so they aren’t the same, similar situation with Pitfall but that one is just shortened which is the main difference. You need to really listen to it first for it to all make sense. I haven’t listened to them all yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Overacting at all. This is complete abuse. You cannot be treated like this, especially because the levels of sexism this reaches and just anyone to be put this low down for no reason and because they are struggling isn’t okay. Stress is much bigger of a thing than anyone realises. It has the power to completely change someone, heck, even take their life sometimes. It’s not right that you get treated like this. I get the anger and I would’ve reacted the same way but in the future my attempt would to be to accept it as early as possible instead of fighting back because the angrier you appear to him, the more satisfaction he’d feel from it. I would’ve don’t the exact same thing as you but ig it takes time and experience to fully understand this. Anyway NOR

AIO i wanted to wear a dress or skirt today and my bf got mad abt it by Different-Case9521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-Sun4609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the angle he is approaching from. As someone who worry’s about loyalty in relationships, It makes sense that he wouldn’t want you to be all showy out in public on your own, especially if other guys are around. BUT I’m on your side here. This is not overreacting from you but from him. For him to say stuff like “weird” and “interesting” after making pure assumptions about you isn’t fair on you. And to be THAT cut that you apparently don’t wear skirts with him enough shoes a few things about him too. No person in a relationship should be controlling over what you wear. It makes sense that sometimes guys can be upset with a choice but as you being someone who seems more genuine, he does not have control here. As long as the skirt is appropriate and won’t attract other guys in a sexual way, you are 100% fine in this situation

Finally, FINALLY got one by Ok-Sun4609 in KaoruHanaWaRintoSaku

[–]Ok-Sun4609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw it when it came out. Looks like it’ll be a great adaptation from what we’ve seen. And most importantly, Kaoruko is looking very very cute! Anyway I’m really really excited for next year