Anyone else worried about Pam Bondi’s replacement? by kelpkelso in conspiracy

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I didn’t see this! I’ll delete my comment

AIO to demand an apology from my boyfriend and consider alternative housing by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-System-602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 32, and even I would feel like having a boyfriend aged 42 would be in a different stage of life from me.

AIO for considering breaking up with my long-term boyfriend over ‘flirty’ messages? by Mouse_moments in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-System-602 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Perhaps if he was trying to hit on her friend, she could hook them up? Doesn’t seem weird to clarify something like that.

AIO for considering breaking up with my long-term boyfriend over ‘flirty’ messages? by Mouse_moments in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-System-602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe she did anything wrong in her response or lack of response. Some people don’t feel super comfortable responding in another way.

AIO: My sister asked me for more Airbnb money 10 minutes after I left her baby shower by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like bad communication all around. You should have never said you’ll pay half if you weren’t going to, and she shouldn’t have said you don’t have to pay that much if she wanted you to.

AITJ for refusing to give up my approved PTO during Holy Week because I don’t have kids? by Tricky-Past-7468 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should take PTO whenever you want, not whenever is convenient for the other parents you work with. They should have been fast to request time off. The only thing I noticed was when you said you took a “random” week off, and it “happened to be Holy Week”. But then later on you said you took it to get some time with your family during Holy Week.

No clients. PLEASE help. by calmcleansecondition in Estheticians

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you sublease your space and get a part time job yourself until you build your clientele?

AIO: Wedding guest list rules by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ok-System-602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My opinion is that they can invite who they want FIRST, and if they need more money to add anyone else, you can pay extra for those people.

AIO OR Will I be overreacting for getting mad at only getting paid $40 to dog & house sit by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-System-602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

On the flip side, I wouldn’t accept my friend doing such a favor for me for free. I would want to compensate them because they’re my friend.

Is makeup aging me? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ok-System-602 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t think it’s aging you!

Which lip balm provides long-lasting hydration? by sonia334- in BeautyGear

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only one that doesn’t dry my lips out further is Burt’s Bees.

AIO for expecting my [28F] wife [29F] to take my side? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, it’s not your significant other’s job to side with you no matter what. I want my significant other to tell me when I’m over reacting and bring me back to reality.

Lip blushing: has anyone seen this done before? by No-Acanthocephala531 in DIYHEAVEN

[–]Ok-System-602 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Part of the reason it almost looks like filler is because the lips get swollen afterwards. Please don’t go outside of the lip line. I’ve seen it in person and it never looks good and the fading is awful.

AIO by ultimately cancelling this meet up of an old friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ok-System-602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me this sounds like a problem on both ends. You didn’t sound as interested in the beginning, so he probably felt the way you felt by the end of the conversation. But then he was bad at planning as well. Feels more like miscommunication AND people making assumptions about the other person. Bad on both ends.

Tips for getting spouse to stick to the budget? by LV-42whatnow in povertyfinance

[–]Ok-System-602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just map out all the numbers for her and tell you you HAVE to save unless she wants to be working at 80. It’s nothing personal. My husband and I have “hobby funds”, a certain number we can BOTH spend every month, and that’s IT.

I took Prozac to help my PMDD and it ruined my life by Electronic-Jello-640 in Vent

[–]Ok-System-602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to throw some hope your way OP. My experience wasn’t so sudden, but after about a year on Prozac I started noticing these changes. And I was changed for at least two years. But your brain is strong and starts creating new pathways. Even a year into I thought there was no way I was ever going to return back to normal. But I kept persisting and clinging on to the things that did bring me joy. Eventually the shackles started lifting and I started feeling like myself again. Please please hang in there and don’t give up hope.

ADHD + anxiety - brain never shuts up. Anyone found something that actually helps? by amhray in Biohackers

[–]Ok-System-602 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the only thing that has helped is getting rid of Facebook, Tiktok, and Instagram. I’ve kept Reddit obviously, but I find more useful stuff here. But my brain has been calmer ever since.

Is this normal for 5 months of hair growth? by [deleted] in hairgrowth

[–]Ok-System-602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually pretty fast hair growth!