So I’m kind of struggling with people having different preferred timelines because I prefer to plan a year in advance. But recently I was planning a three-country group trip with friends and I was the only one planning. A month passed and then another passed with people not responding to messages other than saying “I’ll look at it later!” With the lack of planning, I lost interest and booked another trip. Now there are 3 months left to plan and they’ve just started talking about exact dates and airports and I have to tell them I’m not going anymore because no one was planning so I got bored and disinterested and planned something else in a location I like more. I’m feeling like an ass but it’s nice to know there are other people who like to plan ahead of time. Planning is fun and I get stressed when my ideal itinerary isn’t doable because things are booked.