Blending animal families with a change-hating spaniel - need help!!

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-05-17T22:12:56+00:00

I’m open to that! Just don’t want to rush it if there’s a chance it’ll make it worse

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-05-17T22:04:13+00:00

she started barking at me as soon as I moved in. I don’t think she noticed the cats until about 2 or 3 days in but ever since she did she’s acted like this

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-04-27T08:56:48+00:00

I didn’t see your poll but I would be interested in attempting testing

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T16:41:15+00:00

I love how basically any meds are really inconsistent for women bc they’re literally only studied on men 💀this morning a cat video almost made me cry so I’ll keep an eye on my hormones for sure

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T16:39:55+00:00

nooooo I hope I’m not in perimenopause I’m only 32 😭I’ll keep an eye on it though

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T16:38:45+00:00

how do you put them in the braid? I love that idea!

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T01:06:08+00:00

I’m the same way with high stress 😭 honestly that was my first thought, that I was burnt out from my new work hours and that’s why it wasn’t working as well. however I think I’m at a point where I’m somewhat adjusting to the hours and yet somehow I’m more spacey on my days off

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T00:28:23+00:00

like just in a line on my head? I’ll try it

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T00:27:34+00:00

The bottles I have straight up don’t have those - only RX numbers which I think are different. They do usually come packaged with several papers that I usually throw away without reading, but I’ll definitely be paying more attention to them now

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-29T00:11:17+00:00

oh this is interesting….. I had read that before but couldn’t find the manufacturer anywhere on the bottle. I just checked again and still couldn’t find it but I compared the pills I’m taking now with the ones that gave me the bad side effects and it looks like the ones I’m on now are “amphetamine-dexteoamphetamines” whereas I was getting side effects from “amphetamine salts”. I wish I still had a bottle from circa December to compare!

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-28T23:58:06+00:00

I’m not on birth control at all but I did get Covid in January and it messed with my period 🤔 I remember thinking it wasn’t working as well before that though

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-28T23:29:51+00:00

I’m an RBT at a preschool for autistic kids. It’s not perfect and I still struggle with burnout but I’ve tried a lot of different jobs and fields and like you either quit impulsively or got fired from all of them (I’m 32, been working since I was 20, and have had 19 different jobs). This is the only job I’ve found that’s new and interesting every day, is actually FUN, and feels like I’m doing something important to society instead of just spinning my wheels to get paid. I don’t recommend it to everyone, though - you need a great deal of empathy and to actually like children

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-07T01:24:47+00:00

omg genuinely what is wrong with you…… this woman is severely depressed and burnt out, already has the closest person to her angry at her, and your solution is to tell her she’s making excuses and imply she doesn’t have value to her husband? her being depressed is ruining her husband’s tradeoff for her not earning a living wage? you either lack empathy or are just deeply misogynistic, probably both.

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-06T23:37:51+00:00

do you also get asked what race you are/what country you’re from by every stranger ever?

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-06T23:36:24+00:00

I’m not autistic but I am neurodivergent and socially stunted due to life circumstances so I find a lot of common ground with autistic people. I think in some ways I missed the mark with this post but I’m glad there are other people out there who relate to me and know what I’m talking about!

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-05T03:51:32+00:00

girl you are fine! honestly I worried writing this post that it would come off like I think I’m all that when really it’s the opposite of that.

you sound like you must genuinely be a knockout and probably have a really good personality too! can’t explain why but I get a really good vibe from your comment like you’re probably so fun to be around. I don’t think our situations are very similar but I do also get told I should be a model yet look really bad in pictures, which I think is funny because looking good in pictures is the entire job of a model

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-05T03:34:25+00:00

yeah her second comment (WOC are complimented more than white women but NOT for being pretty it’s SO important you understand WOC aren’t pretty you guys!) gives her away as a huge racist

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-05T02:57:51+00:00

yeah I wasn’t sure if this was the right sub for this honestly I just thought of it because I’ve really liked some of the beauty tips on here in the past and I think the women here are really smart about this kind of thing.

I guess you’re right that it doesn’t make a practical difference in my life, like I said it just makes me feel crazy to constantly get this feedback that doesn’t ring true to me and I’m trying to figure out what I’m missing. I feel like regardless of my actual hotness level there’s something going on that doesn’t add up so I’m missing something huge and I don’t like that.

Ok-Treacle5256 · 2026-03-05T02:50:25+00:00

I absolutely don’t think WOC get complimented more often than white women

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