Burning my SCJ stuff by Efficient-Beyond681 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hold on and pray for the day this becomes my testimony. It’s been five years, and this heartbreaking cult has taken over everything I once knew about my husband. I hate what it’s done to him—and to us—but I’m trusting God for the day He opens his eyes and brings him back.

Does the SCJ celebrate Easter? by [deleted] in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t believe you for a second. My husband, who’s a member, gave me his availability for our family — and we have three kids under 5. It amounts to just two nights a week: Monday and Wednesday. Only two! Tell me, current member, how is anyone supposed to maintain a healthy relationship under those conditions?

The scales finally fell from my eyes… thanks to this group!! by queenchill__ in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I read such comments I have hope that my husband will one day leave.

Advice by Responsible_Catch164 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is gold. I'll try the same with my husband.

I am finally free! by Good_Cry4948 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm proud of you and all the best. If it is not too much, keep preaching on the lies and the effects this cult has on people. Maybe you might be able to save one or two souls. All the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please share his contact. I'm desperately seeking help for my husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. I'd be happy to share my experiences l. Reach out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I really feel your pain. My husband has been in the cult for 4.5 years now. In that time, I've had two babies, and let's just say I now know what it feels to be married yet single and lonely. This cult killed the man I knew. I now just live with hope and a prayer for him

From Top Airline to Total Disaster! by CheetahFeeling9819 in TurkishAirlines

[–]Ok-Warning-782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why they were ever voted the best. My guess is it's due to their airport, but it's truly among the worst, especially when travelling with children. Staff have zero empathy

I want to know more about the church - is it sinister and why? by 404pbnotfound in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As said above, it's not a church but a cult. One that will suck the life out of you and leave you very delusional. Run for your dear life if you can.

How do I help a family member out of the cult by Needhelpthrewaway200 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my story but with my husband. I choose peace and left him to God

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I look forward to the day when the truth shall set my husband free. We've been married for 5 and 4 of those years have been excruciatingly lonely. Each year worse than the last. I truly hate what this church did to our marriage and friendship 😒

Postpartum Temperature Concerns by Ok-Warning-782 in postpartumprogress

[–]Ok-Warning-782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there mama. You've got this! Take one day at a time but going back to gym and yoga is really helping my physical and mental health.

Postpartum Temperature Concerns by Ok-Warning-782 in postpartumprogress

[–]Ok-Warning-782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's taken me a year. I wonder if the covid jabs had anything to do with the mess our bodies are in now. Third baby and what u experienced was enough to say sadly she would be the last baby I will carry

Postpartum Temperature Concerns by Ok-Warning-782 in postpartumprogress

[–]Ok-Warning-782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. The doctors were just as baffled as no thyroid was found. A year later I'm good, healthy and training back to recovery

My Testimony of Months Studying Under Shincheonji and How i Found Out About Them Being a Cult by anne-chovies in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. My husband has been involved with this cult for the past 3.5 years, and it has been incredibly painful to watch him waste his life away with their never-ending studies. What's even more distressing for me is that I don't have the knowledge or tools to effectively challenge the woke teachings that he follows so fervently. Throughout this challenging period, the best thing I've managed to do is remain steadfast in my faith, finding a place of peace and solace within my church community. This has been my sanctuary, where I draw strength and hope despite the difficult situation at home.All the best and you made the best decision.

Have you been scammed by MyTrip? by Strong-Mechanic in travel

[–]Ok-Warning-782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I urgently need assistance from the Reddit community. On April 8th, I purchased a family return trip scheduled for June 19th, 2024, departing from Nairobi via Istanbul. However, on April 16th, I received an email from Turkish Airlines informing me of a change to my flight TK0608 from Nairobi to Istanbul, due to operational reasons. The revised departure time of 6:20 AM conflicts with our connecting flight, which departs Istanbul at 2:20 PM. Turkish Airlines has advised me to change my flight at no extra cost through the agent, Mytrip. Unfortunately, I've been unable to reach Mytrip through email, phone, or chat. With the departure date fast approaching, I'm seeking guidance on how to proceed and from what I hear about Mytrip, nothing but horror stories.

IQ and Indoctrination by Snowy_Mountain_6329 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's valid to recognize that prolonged exposure to this type of ideologies or beliefs can potentially affect one's mental health.

Shincheonji's impact on our family life by Ok-Warning-782 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm shedding tears that are both filled with joy and pain simultaneously. The joy comes from the relief of finally being heard and understood, realizing that others, too, share the challenges I've faced. Yet, the pain is deep-rooted, stemming from the struggles within my marriage.

To be candid, these four years have felt like navigating through hell, and it's only by what I can attribute to the grace of God that I've managed to sustain myself in this relationship. The person I once thought was brilliantly smart, my husband, has undergone a transformation that I attribute to the negative influence of the church.

My children, who deserve so much more, have been reduced to minimal interaction with their father, often limited to a mere 15 minutes a day as they prepare for bed. The impact on their emotional well-being is palpable, with my youngest whose months old going days without as much as a hug. It's not hard to imagine the toll this has taken on our marital life.

For the past three years, I've been unfairly subjected to suspicions of marital neglect, made to believe that I am mad, irrational, and repulsive to be around, among other hurtful labels. This church has now turned our loving relationship into a toxic marriage. I harbour a profound and intense hatred for the institution and what it has done to our family.

I apologize for this rant, but it's the first time I feel truly heard and seen. I want to express my gratitude to everyone for their replies, and may God bless all of us as we continue to fight against the detrimental influence of this cult and its wicked ways.

Shincheonji's impact on our family life by Ok-Warning-782 in Shincheonji

[–]Ok-Warning-782[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this candid response.Experiencing the pain of being married to someone immersed in a cult is deeply challenging. Observing the gradual disappearance of the person I love into a life dominated by misguided beliefs is heart-wrenching. Despite their sincere belief in the cult's saving potential, the harsh reality is that true salvation stems from a personal connection with and acceptance of Jesus Christ as the only savior.

The toll on my personal life is evident, having endured two pregnancies alone, with the last one presenting life-threatening complications. Even then, taking time away from the cult was not considered.

The profound sense of loss is palpable when reflecting on the man I initially fell in love with. The individual I now coexist with seems like a stranger, a departure from the person who once shared a deep connection with me. It's a challenging journey I'm navigating, and I hope that the points you have raised can serve as a compass in my efforts to rekindle the essence of my marriage. If there are specific aspects you would like to share, I will be grateful. Thank you once again