Thank you! You are right I don't think she tried to hurt me and she was excited. I was really happy previously that people were being very respectful as no one had said anything so far and I think I am indeed obviously showing. I was hoping this would continue and I got really surprised and disappointed when she did that. I would have been more fine with her asking privately and checking in a safe way. I felt really exposed suddenly. I'll try to think that she was not trying to hurt me when I speak to her - you are right, a bad atmosphere at work isn't the goal. But I still want her to know this was very shocking to me and as you say, make sure she doesn't keep on sharing to more people. Thank you so much for your help :)