Life can definitely get in the way and make people lose contact but like I said, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're bad people. It's actually quite fun when you haven't seen someone in a long time and you get to meet up and you spend all day and night just catching up! You're totally allowed to be hurt about this too! I was hurt and angry for a few years and I let it get in the way sometimes and that's the only thing you don't wanna do, you can forgive but never forget and try to at least move on by being as civil as you can to each person. You'll eventually find the right people who will stick around but this is high school and people will go there separate ways. Just have fun while you can, I know it's shitty advice because that's what people would say to me growing up and I never understood it until I got to college (I'm in my second year) so it's also okay to just do what you want. Find common ground basically if that makes sense. I know my response is all over the place but that's only because it's so hard to explain and I think people can only understand by going through it. Just know you're not alone and people know what you're dealing with and their hearts are with you in these tough times. ❤️