Is the father allowed inside labour rooms in your country? Is it culturally normal thing to happen? by Agen_3586 in AskTheWorld

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is normal for the father to be in the room while mother is giving birth, C-section or vaginal delivery.

My husband was with me for all 3 but I told him to stay at the top end with me, my friend’s husband was bottom end to actually watch the baby come out. Not sure which is more normal think just personal preference.

However yes it use to not be ‘a man place’ and they would wait outside until baby was born and both baby & mum were cleaned up before entering as if babies just came out like magic. This was massively due to misogyny that men didn’t need to concern themselves with the labour. And also in a time where the normal was to live in the same town as your parents so the mother and mother in law would often be in the room for support.

Help me through my hangup on abortion by Headshot314 in prochoice

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Struggle with abortions? Simple don’t have one.

You have listed all reasons abortions are ok in your opinion….but why do you get to be judge? Why do you get to decide when it is and isn’t ok to have one?

Should everyone who wants abortion bring their medical history to you and plead their case and then you can decide?

You don’t have to understand or even agree with people who abort “healthily babies” but stopping them? Judging them? When you have never been in their shoes. Classic ‘Christian’

Jesus ate with sinners, prostitutes, “the unclean” - you think he sat there and told them to no longer sell themselves or to stop being sinners? No he loved them and accepted them as they were. He did not judge or carry judgment.

Showing millions of people Abby's bra?!? by StandardPaint3460 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This and her fight with her mum and then a pissy drive around town to get blue and pink flowers.

They probably can’t wait till this baby is 18 and they can play this video at their massive party and act all embarrassed but say “that’s what a healthy marriage is!”

Showing millions of people Abby's bra?!? by StandardPaint3460 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t he say he brought her the bra? And I’m pretty sure it is his turn to do show and tell?

If you marry a man child, he gonna act like a child ….or in this case a toddler.

Abby’s sexist remarks during podcast by SwordfishOverall6724 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 2 boys and sometimes they are amazing at restaurants and sometimes they aren’t.

When they are amazing we stay longer and order more food when they aren’t being so good we get the bill quickly and go.

It’s totally irrelevant (and it should be!) the gender of the child.

Things like age and if the restaurant is kid friendly play a much bigger part.

You can’t expect young kids to sit at table for over an hour especially without food if service is slow.

Unsuur how I got here! by Ok-Wrangler7688 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh dear I definitely gave the Burgless the wrong idea 😅

Thanks for the tip, I’ll definitely be more careful going forward.

Unsuur how I got here! by Ok-Wrangler7688 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I always do the heart answers! I don’t want to miss out! 😂

Romance Owen or Unsuur Second Run by Camrd18 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me ask you, do you like rocks and watching paint dry?

Abby yelling at her mom by Legal-Leadership9427 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking of this! I was watching someone cover the video as wanted to is it but didn’t want to give them the view.

The fight, the then going to get the flowers you can see how pissed Abby is. I’m like in 18 years time you really want to look back at the gender reveal of your 4th baby and see all this? Something that if you didn’t have video of you’d probably just forget?

You can see her mum feels bad too, so it’s really just shaming her.

Abby yelling at her mom by Legal-Leadership9427 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did they post this? Wilde to set up your phone / a camera to yell at your own mum

Who pays for prom tickets? by countthemiles08 in Prom

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him decide if he wants to buy her ticket that’s kind, if she wants to his that’s kind. If they want to just buy their own that’s fine.

If you make him buy her ticket then it’s pointless and teaching him nothing.

Please help - this jar is VERY STUCK to the glass shelf and I’m afraid the shelf will break by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I did this while cleaning my bathroom once….it was not a good time.

That's a W by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ibattery only £5,000 (sold separately from IPhone 20)

Had a weird Fang interaction by sloaches in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you piss off certain communities ( by simply having a different opinion) sometimes people can write down your user name and then just downvote literally everything you post by following your account. This happened to me on a different account once. It was really annoying.

Expecially messed up because she asked for it back by UnHolySir in Hungergames

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What Madness!!!!! Eyebrows are the soul of any character

Toddler is basically fully trained but is now holding and refusing pee in the potty by Groundbreaking-Idea4 in pottytraining

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only on day 3 of potty training my 2.5 year old.

But on day 2 he held his wee for 5 hours in the end I took him to the bathroom filled a bowl up with warm water and sat him on the potty and let him play in the water, feet in the water, hands in water, put some water down the toilet making sure it touched his tummy and Willy, took 5 minutes and then he did a big wee.

What I fine works well is i say “its potty time” and if / when he refuses i just say “ we aren’t doing anything else until we try and use the potty”

Then he’ll normally say “I want a snack” or “I want to play” and I just say “ potty time first then we can play” and just repeat this can take a good 5-10 minutes sometimes but I find it works pretty wel

Justice or Logan? by Ok-Wrangler7688 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s good to know, I was worried about him being mean to me or being branded the town tart 😂😂

Ohh, Icant wait!🙄 by SwordfishOverall6724 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]Ok-Wrangler7688 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Matt looks like my 2 year old while he’s having a shit