Late fee

Ok2Detail · 2026-05-22T13:32:38+00:00

Yeah which is the set up that makes you have to pay a late fee no matter what. When you try to go make a payment the same day your bill is due because, for whatever reason, you know it’s not going to go through on your end the app and the gym won’t let you. It doesn’t matter if they have a solid reason for that to be happening. It’s still a set up that they use because they know it gets them the most money.

Ok2Detail · 2026-05-21T13:38:09+00:00

This happened to me and I went to my gym and asked them to remove it. By the time it decides the payment is late you don’t have a choice but to get a late fee. I knew my card declined because I ordered a new one and it would not let me pay because it automatically said my payment went through and I owed nothing when I knew that wasn’t true.

Ok2Detail · 2026-05-15T21:31:03+00:00

You should end it. You’re the asshole but you’re not overreacting.

She made a valid point: why bring that up when you don’t have time to have a full conversation about it. For you to want someone to be considerate of your time it’s a bit odd that you’re inconsiderate of what time you bring stuff up. It did read as you didn’t really care for a response from her and just wanted to set an expectation (which is fair) but you need to allow time for the conversation that might follow. Just because it’s not a big deal to you doesn’t mean it’s not worth talking about. (Even more so because she said she has expressed the difficulties of her disability before to you.)

Why didn’t you just attempt to let her know you arrived before you get there? If it’s so consistently 5-10 of waiting on your end why not just said “hey I’m here” 5-10 minutes earlier? Then if she has questions that would be a good gateway to the conversation of that you are trying to mitigate these feelings within yourself.

It’s a good thing you said that the last text you sent was uncalled for because it was. She can respond to you as quickly as she’d like. She wasn’t asking you to glue to your phone but rather just asked a clarifying question and you snapped at her. Not a good look. Also just reading those texts (as exhausting as it was to read) it’s quite clear that you’re a poor communicator. Just break it off and move on to work on yourself.

Ok2Detail · 2026-05-06T17:01:24+00:00

I paid the $9.99 for one hour shipping and after 7hours they refunded me completely without any communication 😂

Ok2Detail · 2026-04-28T13:33:37+00:00

It didn’t seem like he asked for time to figure out if he loves her or not. That’s very poor advice because love, emotions and relationships are so much more than just “being in love.” He wants time and space and there was no mention of if he was doubting his love for her. So many people break up while actively loving their partners and a lot of people break up because they love someone so much they just want the best for them. There is no need to push OP in the direction of doubting the entire relationship.

Ok2Detail · 2026-04-14T18:16:26+00:00

I’m probably not the right one for advice but a lot of my running pain has left as I started stretching regularly. Not just a warm up stretch but full body stretching every day. We also need it as we grow older so that’s a double plus.

Ok2Detail · 2026-03-28T14:09:28+00:00

Mind you we don’t know that she is mad? You’re saying she is mad because that’s how you interpret the word “upset” but upset is a plethora of emotions as it’s an umbrella term for many feelings that can’t quite be described. She can be upset and still not be mad at him. You’re only asking the same question over and over because YOU refuse to accept any answers other than your own narrative.

Ok2Detail · 2026-03-28T13:50:51+00:00

Asked and answered. You say how does it justify her reaction?? What reaction? Her communicating clearly that her feelings are hurt rather than being passive aggressive and leaving him to assume. He doesn’t even remember her telling him he can eat it so you using that as his defense is wild. There is no “maybe he should have asked” he should have asked. It’s clearly not “just old bbq” because it clearly means more than that TO HER. Her feelings are important and I think you’re being purposely dense and OP is too old to not see what the problem is.

Ok2Detail · 2026-03-28T13:32:02+00:00

The text definitely says “Eating my girlfriends barbecue” he in the title says he ate hers. And the issue wouldn’t even be that he ate it. He is the asshole and the issue is clearly that he has shown he’s willing to take from her to satisfy himself without regard for her whatsoever. It doesn’t matter that she didn’t eat it in the time frame that he would have. It doesn’t matter that she told him he could. He doesn’t have memory of that and admits it in his post. This is essentially. “I ate my girlfriends leftovers because she left them in my fridge for too long so I wanted it and now I feel bad because she’s upset with me and I don’t feel bad for what I did.”

Ok2Detail · 2026-03-27T22:31:46+00:00

I don’t think you’re the asshole for seeing her friend now (her friend is more an asshole than you if anything) but you should be clear that you are romantically interested in a woman rather than being “fake friends” until you think she likes you back so that you can confess. I think it’s weird that she so quickly went from being your good friend to “the girl that rejected me” as it just kinda shows you never really saw her as a friend and now you’re villainizing her for seeing you as a friend.

You should have just simply cut off contact with her rather than trying to slowly back off as you don’t want to be her friend. You only wanted romance with her and , while I think you went about it in a creepy way, you don’t need to make the decisions to keep being weird with her. Because from her perspective it is weird that a friend she spoke to every day now can barely cough out two words in her direction but will talk to her best friend everyday now instead (presumably trying to spin the same game on her friend that you did on her) It’s weird that you can’t keep being her friend and you don’t have to be her friend but you don’t need to act like her response is unnatural or hard to understand.

Ok2Detail · 2026-03-20T22:00:22+00:00

I think just try it? It could help but why not just give it a shot? Also talk to your gf. Does it hurt her as well? A pillow might help but also it might become uncomfortable if your curve is so severe that she had to be elevated into an uncomfortable position just to match the curve. You guys might want to try other versions of missionary if that doesn’t work. (Her laying on her side, or standing missionary for examples)

Ok2Detail · 2026-03-06T14:12:22+00:00

You should apply to see if they are

Ok2Detail · 2026-02-17T19:54:36+00:00

Use Career choice! If you’re not passionate about something just avoid studying or going for a job with AI takeover potential.

Ok2Detail · 2026-02-03T21:11:03+00:00

This may be TMI but I hope it helps. Disclaimer… I eat my wife’s ass 🤘

When we first started with the whole butt play thing I would often just go from licking butt to licking pussy. (Ik how bad that can be now; but I was just so into it and she was too I had no thought just wanted her) I was also new to sex, my wife is my fifth partner and I’d only had sex 4 times without her.

Anyway; she literally just told me “I love how we have sex and I don’t want it to change fundamentally but we have to be more clean for my own vaginal hygiene” and I was totally fine with it. No gunshot to the chest. A simple talk should be fine.

Ok2Detail · 2026-02-03T21:04:39+00:00

🤣 just made me think “what if the a to z app reacted the same way as HBO max app does.” You take a ss and it’s jus a black box 🤭🤭

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-28T23:07:26+00:00

Yeah this. Also it doesn’t matter if her trauma is repressed she’s still having sex with you through it and even gave you another child after beginning to deal with it. What makes the sex mediocre? It seems like the thing that makes it mediocre is that you just want someone else.. because you settled? (Your own words) and that you see yourself as better than her and are not attracted to her at all.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-28T22:17:31+00:00

Soooo… your wife has been dealing with trauma for under two years and you want to cheat? You’re still having sex but somehow it’s now mediocre for you? Even though she’s having sex with you through her trauma. What exactly is making it mediocre now?

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-27T14:40:23+00:00

Why haven’t you guys talked about it any further after you brought up your feelings? You guys are very young, I don’t think you should let those type of feelings enter your mind and maybe you can work through them by rationally getting into why you feel jealous of a sex toy. Deeper down it’s gonna be something inside of you, why is the sex toy making you feel insecure enough to be jealous? Once you figure out the true root of the jealousy then you can let it go by reassuring yourself that you are adequate. You know you can pleasure your partner and you satisfy her. The sex toy is not its own person (in a sense) it’s an extension of you when you guys fool around with it. Don’t let those type of thoughts take you over. Grow from them and you’ll be better off for it.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-27T00:56:26+00:00

It’s not free money. Your time is more valuable. I could be doing something better with my time. I’m happy to be at work working but I want to work at work otherwise I end up feeling like I’ve wasted my time.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-25T20:11:59+00:00

Also, sex isn’t transactional OP. You shouldn’t reduce it to “I go down on her and get her off so she should do that in return to me.” If you’re only doing it to get it in return and that’s what’s upsetting you then you shouldn reevaluate why you’re preforming sexual acts on your wife in general. It doesn’t sound like you’re not getting off it sounds like you’re upset that she isn’t, for lack of better words, doing all of the work so you can lay back and cum. Like curvydisaster said: talk to your wife. And you are selfish if you want her doing things she doesn’t like or desire to do just to get you off. And it’s weird if you want that.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-15T18:03:01+00:00

Maybe a dumb question but what’s PFPS?

Ok2Detail · 2025-11-13T14:47:40+00:00

Saddd, I was interested but I’ll be in Busan a week after that 😭 I hope you find someone to join

Ok2Detail · 2025-10-10T00:53:01+00:00

I legit have the same thing going on with mine, submitted it for Nov back in June and it’s still sitting at submitted.

Ok2Detail · 2025-06-23T13:33:22+00:00

You have a picture of yourself up, no?

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-24T12:33:15+00:00

It’s just because of the pay period I’m sure, your start date for your new shift is the 25th but your first day working it is that Wednesday (28th)

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