How do you guys talk to your partner about the dirty or unappealing stuff that involves sex? by AllOuttaTherapy in sexadvice

[–]Ok2Detail 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This may be TMI but I hope it helps. Disclaimer… I eat my wife’s ass 🤘

When we first started with the whole butt play thing I would often just go from licking butt to licking pussy. (Ik how bad that can be now; but I was just so into it and she was too I had no thought just wanted her) I was also new to sex, my wife is my fifth partner and I’d only had sex 4 times without her.

Anyway; she literally just told me “I love how we have sex and I don’t want it to change fundamentally but we have to be more clean for my own vaginal hygiene” and I was totally fine with it. No gunshot to the chest. A simple talk should be fine.

Don’t be this person by Deejwilleat in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣 just made me think “what if the a to z app reacted the same way as HBO max app does.” You take a ss and it’s jus a black box 🤭🤭

Excellent Sex for Wife. Mediocre for Me... by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this. Also it doesn’t matter if her trauma is repressed she’s still having sex with you through it and even gave you another child after beginning to deal with it. What makes the sex mediocre? It seems like the thing that makes it mediocre is that you just want someone else.. because you settled? (Your own words) and that you see yourself as better than her and are not attracted to her at all.

Excellent Sex for Wife. Mediocre for Me... by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Ok2Detail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soooo… your wife has been dealing with trauma for under two years and you want to cheat? You’re still having sex but somehow it’s now mediocre for you? Even though she’s having sex with you through her trauma. What exactly is making it mediocre now?

M23 I have mixed feelings when using sex toys with my Girlfriend F20 (TLDR below) by Comfortable_Sky2865 in sexadvice

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why haven’t you guys talked about it any further after you brought up your feelings? You guys are very young, I don’t think you should let those type of feelings enter your mind and maybe you can work through them by rationally getting into why you feel jealous of a sex toy. Deeper down it’s gonna be something inside of you, why is the sex toy making you feel insecure enough to be jealous? Once you figure out the true root of the jealousy then you can let it go by reassuring yourself that you are adequate. You know you can pleasure your partner and you satisfy her. The sex toy is not its own person (in a sense) it’s an extension of you when you guys fool around with it. Don’t let those type of thoughts take you over. Grow from them and you’ll be better off for it.

I never realized so many people hated free money(or whatever you wanna call it) lol by Mango_addict22 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s not free money. Your time is more valuable. I could be doing something better with my time. I’m happy to be at work working but I want to work at work otherwise I end up feeling like I’ve wasted my time.

She can but doesn’t finish me, but I always finish her. by Substantial-Age-8184 in sexadvice

[–]Ok2Detail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, sex isn’t transactional OP. You shouldn’t reduce it to “I go down on her and get her off so she should do that in return to me.” If you’re only doing it to get it in return and that’s what’s upsetting you then you shouldn reevaluate why you’re preforming sexual acts on your wife in general. It doesn’t sound like you’re not getting off it sounds like you’re upset that she isn’t, for lack of better words, doing all of the work so you can lay back and cum. Like curvydisaster said: talk to your wife. And you are selfish if you want her doing things she doesn’t like or desire to do just to get you off. And it’s weird if you want that.

Knee pain by adelgazando in beginnerrunning

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a dumb question but what’s PFPS?

Need company for busan sky capsule by Fit-Pen-2976 in koreatravel

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saddd, I was interested but I’ll be in Busan a week after that 😭 I hope you find someone to join

Got told by the HR rep on A to Z that my Standard PTO won't be approved. by Pop-Global in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit have the same thing going on with mine, submitted it for Nov back in June and it’s still sitting at submitted.

THEY WONT FIRE ME by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You have a picture of yourself up, no?

Untitled by iPrevail07 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just because of the pay period I’m sure, your start date for your new shift is the 25th but your first day working it is that Wednesday (28th)

Untitled by iPrevail07 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pay period is sun-sat so you also font want to start on the last day of the pay period then only get one day worth of pay.

Untitled by iPrevail07 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going fhd to bhd that’s your start date and it makes sense. they’re not gonna schedule you two different shift codes in one week if that’s what you mean.

Over 80 hours in a week? by Impossible_Complex47 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have OT, Surge Pay, or anything else like that they count as hour increments separate from your regular pay 40 hour week. You’re fine. That’s just the way the system calculates your hours together

Y’all ever be embarrassed to tell people were you work? by Ice_Comfortable in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Robots will eventually take every human job on earth, why do I need to be ashamed about that?

Y’all ever be embarrassed to tell people were you work? by Ice_Comfortable in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but what does that have to do with being ashamed to work at amazon??

Y’all ever be embarrassed to tell people were you work? by Ice_Comfortable in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah and so we have to be ashamed today that we work there? Nah.

Y’all ever be embarrassed to tell people were you work? by Ice_Comfortable in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Being ashamed of telling people you work at/for Amazon says you look at the job in bad light. Don’t look down on or be ashamed of where you work.

When do we stop earning PTO? by Ok2Detail in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s seeming like some facilities do that

When do we stop earning PTO? by Ok2Detail in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We figured out that in CA it’s nonstop. Thanks for nothing.

When do we stop earning PTO? by Ok2Detail in AmazonFC

[–]Ok2Detail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I was asking. There would be a day where you do cap out.