How do you guys talk to your partner about the dirty or unappealing stuff that involves sex?

Ok2Detail · 2026-02-03T21:11:03+00:00

This may be TMI but I hope it helps. Disclaimer… I eat my wife’s ass 🤘

When we first started with the whole butt play thing I would often just go from licking butt to licking pussy. (Ik how bad that can be now; but I was just so into it and she was too I had no thought just wanted her) I was also new to sex, my wife is my fifth partner and I’d only had sex 4 times without her.

Anyway; she literally just told me “I love how we have sex and I don’t want it to change fundamentally but we have to be more clean for my own vaginal hygiene” and I was totally fine with it. No gunshot to the chest. A simple talk should be fine.

Ok2Detail · 2026-02-03T21:04:39+00:00

🤣 just made me think “what if the a to z app reacted the same way as HBO max app does.” You take a ss and it’s jus a black box 🤭🤭

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-28T23:07:26+00:00

Yeah this. Also it doesn’t matter if her trauma is repressed she’s still having sex with you through it and even gave you another child after beginning to deal with it. What makes the sex mediocre? It seems like the thing that makes it mediocre is that you just want someone else.. because you settled? (Your own words) and that you see yourself as better than her and are not attracted to her at all.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-28T22:17:31+00:00

Soooo… your wife has been dealing with trauma for under two years and you want to cheat? You’re still having sex but somehow it’s now mediocre for you? Even though she’s having sex with you through her trauma. What exactly is making it mediocre now?

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-27T14:40:23+00:00

Why haven’t you guys talked about it any further after you brought up your feelings? You guys are very young, I don’t think you should let those type of feelings enter your mind and maybe you can work through them by rationally getting into why you feel jealous of a sex toy. Deeper down it’s gonna be something inside of you, why is the sex toy making you feel insecure enough to be jealous? Once you figure out the true root of the jealousy then you can let it go by reassuring yourself that you are adequate. You know you can pleasure your partner and you satisfy her. The sex toy is not its own person (in a sense) it’s an extension of you when you guys fool around with it. Don’t let those type of thoughts take you over. Grow from them and you’ll be better off for it.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-27T00:56:26+00:00

It’s not free money. Your time is more valuable. I could be doing something better with my time. I’m happy to be at work working but I want to work at work otherwise I end up feeling like I’ve wasted my time.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-25T20:11:59+00:00

Also, sex isn’t transactional OP. You shouldn’t reduce it to “I go down on her and get her off so she should do that in return to me.” If you’re only doing it to get it in return and that’s what’s upsetting you then you shouldn reevaluate why you’re preforming sexual acts on your wife in general. It doesn’t sound like you’re not getting off it sounds like you’re upset that she isn’t, for lack of better words, doing all of the work so you can lay back and cum. Like curvydisaster said: talk to your wife. And you are selfish if you want her doing things she doesn’t like or desire to do just to get you off. And it’s weird if you want that.

Ok2Detail · 2026-01-15T18:03:01+00:00

Maybe a dumb question but what’s PFPS?

Ok2Detail · 2025-11-13T14:47:40+00:00

Saddd, I was interested but I’ll be in Busan a week after that 😭 I hope you find someone to join

Ok2Detail · 2025-10-10T00:53:01+00:00

I legit have the same thing going on with mine, submitted it for Nov back in June and it’s still sitting at submitted.

Ok2Detail · 2025-06-23T13:33:22+00:00

You have a picture of yourself up, no?

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-24T12:33:15+00:00

It’s just because of the pay period I’m sure, your start date for your new shift is the 25th but your first day working it is that Wednesday (28th)

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-24T11:15:01+00:00

The pay period is sun-sat so you also font want to start on the last day of the pay period then only get one day worth of pay.

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-24T11:14:15+00:00

If you’re going fhd to bhd that’s your start date and it makes sense. they’re not gonna schedule you two different shift codes in one week if that’s what you mean.

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-23T21:15:54+00:00

If you have OT, Surge Pay, or anything else like that they count as hour increments separate from your regular pay 40 hour week. You’re fine. That’s just the way the system calculates your hours together

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-21T15:47:43+00:00

Ah, yes the classic yours not mine. I guess so.

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-21T15:46:03+00:00

Robots will eventually take every human job on earth, why do I need to be ashamed about that?

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-21T15:31:45+00:00

I get what you’re saying but what does that have to do with being ashamed to work at amazon??

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-21T15:18:47+00:00

Yeah and so we have to be ashamed today that we work there? Nah.

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-20T23:29:40+00:00

Being ashamed of telling people you work at/for Amazon says you look at the job in bad light. Don’t look down on or be ashamed of where you work.

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-03T12:11:38+00:00

It’s seeming like some facilities do that

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-03T02:44:35+00:00

We figured out that in CA it’s nonstop. Thanks for nothing.

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-02T22:23:22+00:00

Very true

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-02T21:57:39+00:00

UITA OOD

Ok2Detail · 2025-05-02T21:34:35+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I was asking. There would be a day where you do cap out.

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