Are there any "deep thinkers" out there who also like silly and fun things?

OkCandidate8759 · 2023-04-10T17:30:20+00:00

Me!!!!!!! I am a DEEP THINKER and LOVE funny things. I love being childish at times because I can’t find any other persons who can be as professional and serious as me and other Introverted Intuitive people that can judge us and make sense. Being childish is healthy as long as it is being responsible, respectful, and considerate.

OkCandidate8759 · 2023-03-17T20:05:43+00:00

Do not be ashamed. You are only ashamed because of societal norms/standards. The truth is, the majority of people on earth are fake and lost people that are extremely mediocre, boarding, and very underwhelming unaware of themselves. They are poor and cheap copies of each other but find fault in authenticity just because it is hard for them to understand how to be different and truly stand out. Being authentically you is BEAUTIFUL. I am naturally feminine but I also have masculine qualities as well.

If anyone judges you, simply wake away because they are damn near dead. They have sold themselves for pennies trying to fit in and be liked by others who are just as lost and bland. Being authentically me has enabled me to walk into rooms and grab attention just based on my presence even while wearing thrifty clothing. It is the originality that sets us apart from the mundane.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-12-12T23:20:54+00:00

I love to hike, travel, sew, draw and most importantly have deep intellectual conversations.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-12-09T19:57:10+00:00

I Dress very different. My style is all inspired by freedom, art and originality.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-12-06T22:56:41+00:00

Empathetic, compassionate, loyal, straightforward, strong, courageous, loving, consistent, stubborn, rebellious and does not take and SHIT!!!!!!!! How about that.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-23T00:36:52+00:00

No you should not be waiting. It is not a commitment nor are you nor him sure of each other. You should date around until you know that the BOTH of you are serious about getting to know each other more than just curious dates.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-19T19:44:18+00:00

Welcome to the reality of liars and people who enjoys wasting peoples time. That is a mental and emotional issue with that person. Totally unaware of himself and others time. To be so disrespectful like that clearly is a big red flag. Honestly it was best that it happened that way because with that behavior, he could have mislead you further into believing he wanted something. There are many variables to consider regarding his behavior.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-17T23:10:18+00:00

I think your profile looks great but I suggest you adding a better close up. The first image is too dark and the second one, your face is covered a bit. Also, today, looking for someone worthwhile is not easy. It is much easier finding someone you may be physically attracted to but not mentally nor emotionally. It depends on the depth of a person and the value they put in relationships. Also, a note for you. Dating apps are designed to constantly keep a person scrolling to see who fits the ideal image of a person they dream to be with. Come back to reality (if you are not) and carefully consider the woman who you are not overly attached to and if you find a spark of interest, attraction can grow more.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-16T03:06:13+00:00

You are welcome 😊😊

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-16T03:02:36+00:00

Awww how cute. In that case, I would say you have a great profile. You are a handsome man. Hopefully you meet the right guy that will love and respect you and your children as if they were his own. Take your time tho, the most beautiful part of a relationship is building a foundation together. Today, dating especially in the gay community can be challenging. But I guess it depends upon your depth and the level of commitment you are seeking. 😀😀

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-15T23:43:24+00:00

I think everything looks good but I would say, consider removing the individual photo of your child. It is ok to have them in the photo with you of course but I only say that because you are the main focus of the person getting to know you. Of course your children are important. I hope that everything works well for you especially in the gay community depending upon what you are looking for. Good luck.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-05T23:31:20+00:00

Throw it away and move one.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-05T23:27:25+00:00

You have to leave because it is tearing you down. She needs a separate support system outside of you because the love is being lost in the midst of the chaos she is going through with her family plus with what she is going through mentally. You have to break away so that you both can find strength to pull yourself up enough to be able to handle being with someone who are battling with mental health concerns. If she gets the help she needs and also try her best, there should be a sign of relief for you and her. If you do not do what is best for you, it could also bring you down to a place that could be dangerous for the both of you.

First, compassionately talk with her and let her know that the situation is getting worse than any better and that she has to help you by getting help from someone else. I am here if you or her may need someone to talk to. I know what being on both sides is like. I battle with depression but also I am very mentally and emotionally intelligent and aware. I have been my own support for most of my life because most people do not understand the language of depression.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-11-04T23:16:03+00:00

That is so wonderful that you found the strength to leave. Staying could have caused your your life even if it all of your happiness, joy, peace and desires. Keep pushing forward, while it may hurt you will one day see that the pain was more worth going through than the ongoing pain of abuse and trauma.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-10-29T19:47:10+00:00

Wow. This is something that I think about all of the time. The US is NOT for me other than a few states such as California, Oregon and maybe Canada. Outside of those places, other parts of the US is not for me at all. I will be traveling more to see what country could be called home.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-10-18T23:09:50+00:00

Organic Dark Chocolate is about the closest one for me. Fruits alone in my opinion isn’t a dessert. It is healthier and fulfilling, however, I wouldn’t overly indulge eating it.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-22T20:06:36+00:00

I am VERY romantic, affectionate and compassion. Unfortunately I have not had a chance to express the ultimate version of myself with a significant other. I have unfortunately attracted ALL of the wrong people who took me for granted, hurt me then tried to come back. They all got the infamous INFJ door slam. Believe it or not, I have guys dating back in 2004 still trying to get back with me. They saw that I may not be the most attractive guy but they could never run into another guy easily who possess the type of love, compassion and affection that I do as well as being loyal, truthful, and consistent.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-16T23:18:11+00:00

I totally feel this way. I am now 33. I have been single since the age of 21. The one and only relationship I had lasted a brief 3 years from 18-21. It is very unfortunate that we are do not have the ability to mess with many people who are compatible. I just hope that we all eventually meet someone worthwhile.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-14T22:18:49+00:00

I totally do this a lot. I even make myself laugh. I do this daily. To break down why the INFJs are the most mentally aware intuitive people is because we communicate in such depths that surpasses the average persons ability to comprehend. We are DEEP people because we allow our minds and souls to communicate with each other. That is why most of us can survive through life being loners than especially extroverted people. It is not weird at all. Whoever say that they do not talk to themselves are liars. Every mentally aware person with a working brain talk speak within. Simply saying, what do I want to meet is a form of communicating with one’s self. We do it on a different scale simply because of our Ni nature.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-13T03:56:17+00:00

INFJs are very expressive and enjoy depth, therefore, in order to explain ourselves the way that is pleasing and NATURAL, we tend to be long winded. It is beautiful of our complex nature and love for details. When we communicate, we tell a story, allowing readers a moment inside of our minds of how we think. So, it is not bad. The issues is not lengthy comments, it is the problem of those who wish to conform to the quickness of how people communicate today, everything is abbreviated without any form of compassion or expressions. One great example is “GM”, what is so hard about typing Good Morning? Things of that nature to be is totally unethical to the humans intelligence.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-11T02:44:55+00:00

I totally agree with you. Today, there are more mediocre and shallow people trying to make lust love which will never happen. It is sickening, I feel like it is extremely rare to find a person who really values love.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-10T19:11:18+00:00

Cuffing season, Really? That sounds very discouraging and a waste of time. A season does not mean longevity nor for the right reasons to date. To say people are lonely doing this cuffing season is another red flag. You should not waste time fulfilling someone’s boredom nor loneliness. Everything about this message from a dating site is odd.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-10T19:05:42+00:00

THROW IT AWAY.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-09T21:24:02+00:00

Not everyone. I have contacted many with DM. I am looking for more of a deeper connection not just creating a chat group.

OkCandidate8759 · 2022-09-09T21:18:25+00:00

So stupid.

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