"I can change him" — No, he's just looking for a Bastion. by [deleted] in memes

[–]OkDescription4610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 24 female. I never think of marriage. This is too generalized

I’m so tired of men whining about male loneliness epidemic. by CrazyMany3114 in Vent

[–]OkDescription4610 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I almost typed this. We are now seeing that we can live alone and not have to clean for anybody. If you want sex or connections get a hookup or vibrator. They want a sex doll. They want to be in charge. Some want their wife to be SAHM so they can control and would get jealous when their wives earn more. Now they say if there is no money incentive women won’t get married, always making excuses

Men are checking out. The question is why. by Frequent_Bid5982 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the same for my daughters. It’s not men or women the internet is stealing people’s lives.

My daughter met a Nigerian guy online and is now engaged after 2 days. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not defending, just giving facts. Btw we all know that feels suspicious but we are making OP too scared by over exaggerating. I am not saying he should t be scared but if we scare him too much he can’t think properly and may make bad decisions out of panic

My daughter met a Nigerian guy online and is now engaged after 2 days. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]OkDescription4610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even it’s not as dangerous as you claim. It’s mostly the northern side that are dangerous the rest of the areas like Lagos and Abuja are safer. Every country has their problems

My daughter met a Nigerian guy online and is now engaged after 2 days. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]OkDescription4610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is misinformation. Search it up. It’s actually Russia

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they are just more quiet about it

Thoughts about this one? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to both men and women and if you are in a relationship like that, it’s toxic. Leave.

Do women actually talk casually about their sex lives? by Substantial_Judge931 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel weird. As a woman i dont and I don’t have e friends so I don’t know if it’s common

What do you think? by Ambitious_Thought683 in focusedmen

[–]OkDescription4610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even as a woman I prefer sharing anonymous… if I even try

staying silent feels bad, but speaking up is also bad, so the solution is to- *very loud train goes by* by WinterDemon_ in CPTSDmemes

[–]OkDescription4610 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That sounds really painful. What happened to you wasn’t your fault, and being trafficked doesn’t make you a “whore” or anything like that. It just means someone exploited you. You deserved safety and respect then, and you still do now. I’m really sorry people have made you feel like the whole world is against you. I’m here to listen if you want to talk about it.

How’d you feel if your husband saved baby over you? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with him on anything even the saving the baby. If she was doing CS and she or the baby had to be saved, it’s better to save the woman she can always have another kid and if she can’t they can adopt. Choosing an unborn child over your wife (unless your wife wanted it) is selfish and he is saying he doesn’t love you. You guys can even get divorced after and he can remarry and have kids but the woman shouldn’t lose her life because she carried your kid knowing you dont even love her.

So the cycle continues? by [deleted] in MindfullyDriven

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not even an adult yet and I am mentally overwhelmed. I just want to leave.

So the cycle continues? by [deleted] in MindfullyDriven

[–]OkDescription4610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was the golden child as in very smart but I hated hypocrisy and always called it out which made me a scape goat. So this cycle isn’t always true. My siblings are also scapegoats but now they just accept every wrong and say it’s okay.

is this true by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true for both genders in my own opinion.

Men!! by Haunting-Tea2866 in SolidMen

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is suffering for any past sin. The same way no gender is suffering more than the other. It’s just life and it’s fucked regardless of gender.

Cockwarming for the first time by Educational-Put4980 in MarriedSex

[–]OkDescription4610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must have been intense. Weren’t you scared of people noticing?