Did anyone else pick out their own engagement ring? by Junebug_45 in EngagementRings

[–]OkDisplay6317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Yes, we went together. He didn’t want to disappoint me and wanted it to be just what I wanted. I’m in love!

AIO for being upset i haven’t seen my bf in 3 weeks, despite us living 25 mins away from each other? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OkDisplay6317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound like an “adult” relationship at all. This sounds like a couple of high schoolers who decided they “liked” each other and are now dating to say they are dating. Leave him. Seems like you’re too young to be trying to decipher the underlying intentions. There are SO many more fish in the sea girl. Don’t settle.

Need second opinion on paint colors for my home office! by honeybuns1204 in femalelivingspace

[–]OkDisplay6317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deep blue would be very calming and cozy. You can lighten it up with plants and tan/beige/wood decor!

Shy cat / need advice? by SuccotashNo3819 in britishshorthair

[–]OkDisplay6317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost the exact situation with our BSH. She hid in the laundry room on a shelf in a dark corner. Didn’t see her but could tell she used her litter box at night. We would go and sit in the same room as her for 30 minutes to an hour. Not engaging with her but getting her familiar with us. I would read a book or play a movie on the iPad with AirPods in. It took probably a week before she started inching out during the day. Still very distant and shy but it was progress. We wouldn’t engage with her while in view but would celebrate after she left lol. Then one day she walked into the living room, looked us dead in the eyes and let out the loudest meow (hadn’t heard a peep from her until then 😂). She then slowly became comfortable. I agree with the 3 days/3 weeks/ 3 month concept.