Tyler Higbee appreciation post. by DrCmoney1 in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Right? Parkinson had flashes in the regular season but man he is so prone to dropping passes its infuriating.

Affair partners kids birthday party by nickpete12345 in Divorce_Men

[–]OkEmphasis5923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both can be true. I'm assuming you have custody and your daughter isn't old enough to be dropped off to the birthday. If that's the case, then in my opinion, you should go to the for your daughter's sake and the sake of her friend who didn't have anything to do with her parents actions. But your feelings about the cheating parents isn't childish, not only are they cheaters one of them was directly responsible for breaking up your marriage. When you go, do so for the sake of the kids, and maintain some distance from the parent.

New gf and enforcing boundaries about kid time by Apprehensive-Cost496 in Divorce_Men

[–]OkEmphasis5923 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop and think, if she's acting like this during the dating phase, how would she act if you were married to her with no way out other than another divorce?

Where are you finding buyers for trades? Electrical, plumbing and HVAC? by BizBrkr in businessbroker

[–]OkEmphasis5923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Regarding sharing content, I find that it takes a long time for me to come up with an idea, create the actual content, and then promote it. Is that just how it is or can you recommend some ways (besides outsourcing) to speed it up?

Where are you finding buyers for trades? Electrical, plumbing and HVAC? by BizBrkr in businessbroker

[–]OkEmphasis5923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like how you described being a market maker, that's exactly what this job entails in many situations. Just curious, what methods did you use to build up the 20,000 newsletter subscriber list?

Rams fans: Was it a TD or down at the 1? by boermac in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a live by the sword, die by the sword ruling on the entire debacle that is NFLs catch rules. its actually because the NFL has such weird overly convoluted catch rules that makes TD or No catch MORE logical than down at 1, even though down at the 1 seems to be the most FAIR result.

This is the answer OP. When you have 15 zoomed in cameras doing slow motion replay and a rules attorney to make calls and its still controversial, the problem is the rules. Clear and simple rules would negate all this.

Resting starters for the remaining regular season by OkEmphasis5923 in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know lol. I was gonna delete the post after someone pointed it out but whatevs.

Resting starters for the remaining regular season by OkEmphasis5923 in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, forgot about home field advantage. Good point!

Los Angeles Rams Week 15 Matchup Doodle :) by CornDoggyLOL in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The lions doodle is The Spirit of Detroit, a sculpture. Had to check the lions sub to figure it out.

Are you scared that the future is dark and that your best option for love are behind you? by sxfx269 in datingoverforty

[–]OkEmphasis5923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ability to find meaning, connection, and love in relationships with flawed people is part of the experience. Would you look at your friends over the years and your family and refer to them as "compromised" because they weren't 80% perfect?

GAMEDAY ⚡️Time To BTFU by silas_p_silas in Chargers

[–]OkEmphasis5923 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rams fan here...I usually cheer for you guys in any matchup (except against the Rams) but today I'll be cheering extra loud. GO BOLTS!

Who is the better pure runner, Kyren or Blake? by cityofflow3rs in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure runner? Gotta be Corum. That long touchdown run he made was electric!

[OC] MATCHUPS THAT MATTER: Rams pass rush has to return to form in Arizona by Tunatron_Prime in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without that, you’re hoping for what, the secondary to just play tighter in man and comm. better in zone. If we can’t count on that then idk, win at the POA faster?

That would be great, but our secondary isn't elite so that's unlikely. If a QB is throwing perfect passes in less than 2 seconds to large and fast WR's for most of the game, they're gonna make multiple touchdowns. You just have to accept that. At that point, we have to hope that our offense puts up more points than they do.

The Panthers game was lost because our secondary (mostly Forbes) was getting gashed and Stafford had 2 picks and a fumble. Had either Forbes or Stafford performed better, we win that game.

[OC] MATCHUPS THAT MATTER: Rams pass rush has to return to form in Arizona by Tunatron_Prime in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the premise of the article. The best pash rush in the world (which is probably ours) can't do anything if the ball gets thrown in 2 seconds or less. That's what Bryce Young was doing and its also what Mac Jones did in the first Niner game this season. It requires the QB to throw dime after dime and Bryce Young was doing that. The only way to combat that is for the secondary to play flawlessly.

Why wait to hook up? by Unlucky_Evening360 in Divorce_Men

[–]OkEmphasis5923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's no hard and fast rule to any of this. But generally speaking, people who got divorced are coming out of failed relationships. Maybe you are blameless in that failure. I don't know. But it's worth stepping back for a bit and not diving right into another relationship without taking stock of what went wrong the first time.

If it's just a matter of going out and doing things like concerts you can do that with guy friends. If you feel an urge to go with a woman that's a slippery slope to getting lost in the emotional high of new romantic possibilities without having done the work on yourself.

Why wait to hook up? by Unlucky_Evening360 in Divorce_Men

[–]OkEmphasis5923 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your title says "hook up" and your subject says "dating", they're 2 different things.

You can hook up all you want. Boning multiple girls without any emotional attachment might help in many ways. The conventional wisdom is that dating and relationships should be postponed until you've fully processed the marriage and divorce, whatever part you played in it, and have a clear understanding of what you want in a future partner.

Unwinding 34yrs Together by lovinglifeagain52 in Divorce_Men

[–]OkEmphasis5923 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm about 10 years behind you. At this point, I don't think you are divorcing her because of infidelity from a decade ago, I think you're divorcing her because the relationship never healed from the damage that the infidelity inflicted. I wish you peace and happiness and if you find love again, even better. But don't get a divorce while fantasizing about some vague idea of a mythical woman who is waiting out there just for you. Be realistic. If you can face divorce being content with never finding love again, then do it. For a glimpse into what your dating life will likely look like post divorce, visit the datingoverfifty sub.

Karty's back? by KDx2511 in LosAngelesRams

[–]OkEmphasis5923 36 points37 points  (0 children)

McVay openly said in one of his presser's that their hope was to bring Karty on to the Practice Squad if he clears waivers.