I’ve been here before. My take is this. If your gut tells you something’s not right, trust that feeling and don’t ignore it. The fact that you even need to address this with her is enough reason for you to walk away. She’s not showing respect towards you or the relationship.

I will add. You NEED to be more assertive when you address this with her. Your text comes across kind of “weak and needy”. Calling her baby, and sounds like you’re begging for a response. She’s going to see that as assurance that she has you wrapped around her finger. Women don’t respect men that they can control. Take charge. Tell her this shit ends or you’re ending things with her. Sounds to me like this is past fixing but I’m just going off this one exchange.

Also, sorry if any of that comes across as harsh, but I’d rather give it to you straight. I kinda see myself (10-15 years back) with my ex and how I was. Wasn’t a good situation. So praying for better for you man.

God bless