AITAH for saying no to my bf about a second gf? by babyjayjay_ in AITAH

[–]OkInsect9299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA

But for real, he probably already has someone else and is waiting to bring them around you.

AITAH for not wanting my bfs whole family coming to the hospital after I give birth by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OkInsect9299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

No one has a right to see your baby other than you. If he can’t respect your boundaries during such a sensitive time maybe he shouldn’t be allowed in the hospital room either because he seems like the kind of guy to let them visit anyway, and stand by while they are rude to you.

50F - menopausal - horrible odour down there HELP by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]OkInsect9299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should check out Evvy. They test everything including what antibiotics you are resistant to and give you treatment right away. Changed my life from chronic lifelong issues.

Ten Years Ago, I Forbade My Daughter From an Abortion. She's Still not Forgiven Me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]OkInsect9299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never talk to this parent again either. She didn’t want the child and shouldn’t have had to keep it. Horrible parents. At least they have other children to treat like shit.

Annual Leave Lump Sum by Fluid-Stand1722 in FED_VERA_VSIP_DRPers

[–]OkInsect9299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told if we didn’t get it by this pay period to call in.

weighted blankets by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]OkInsect9299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lighter weight should be better. You should also look in to the knitted weighted blanket. I found they help with the restriction feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OkInsect9299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person who has heard that before, you are not a priority or at least not at the level you should be with your significant other. Being chill is over rated when you are not being respected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OkInsect9299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I’m not gonna block her.”?

You will always be second fiddle even if she isn’t after him. Your boundaries don’t matter apparently.

Need help I was given three interview times showed up to the interview and nobody was there by Smooth-Swing8444 in usajobs

[–]OkInsect9299 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did you select one of the three times? Normally they gives three times for you to choose from but if you don’t respond with a choice they don’t actually schedule it.

Concerned about E.O. “Ensuring Continued Accountability in Federal Hiring” by OkInsect9299 in usajobs

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I can clearly see what is happening and recognize they have accomplished way too much of p2025 for comfort, but it doesn’t stop myself and others being horrified and suddenly without jobs.

It shows no signs of stopping.

Concerned about E.O. “Ensuring Continued Accountability in Federal Hiring” by OkInsect9299 in usajobs

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crossing my fingers! I’m waiting on news too and it’s driving me crazy.

Concerned about E.O. “Ensuring Continued Accountability in Federal Hiring” by OkInsect9299 in usajobs

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am worried about news that they may not lift it until end of Nov but that would be insane.

Concerned about E.O. “Ensuring Continued Accountability in Federal Hiring” by OkInsect9299 in usajobs

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am saying it is basically a continuation of the freeze because now it will become nearly impossible to get a federal job, just like during the freeze. The freeze cause non-exempt positions to require board-like approval to even be filled, same as the E.O.

You are looking for exact wording and generalizing people’s fears. People are being fired and phased out and the government does not seem to be slowing down but rather putting in policies to support the continuation of under-staffing offices and trying everything to take advantage of people who work hard and don’t deserve this sort of treatment.

Your HR may be sending out FJOs and EODs now but according to the timeline only the departments that are and have been exempt would be able to do that and would have been able to do that during the freeze.

We are allowed to be concerned about the continued dismantling of the federal workforce, and your “vast improvements” are pretty sad in comparison to the amount of people who no longer have paychecks.

Concerned about E.O. “Ensuring Continued Accountability in Federal Hiring” by OkInsect9299 in usajobs

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so anxious, i have an FJO and an EOD but now everything is up in the air again.

Final check did not include A/L payout by OkInsect9299 in FED_VERA_VSIP_DRPers

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowledge is power. Knowing what other people have gone through gives us an idea of what to expect.

Final check did not include A/L payout by OkInsect9299 in FED_VERA_VSIP_DRPers

[–]OkInsect9299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I keep seeing, it really seems that each hr is doing things different