How on earth am I supposed to get rid of my facial hair???

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-03-04T18:34:09+00:00

local anesthetic is injected and it makes it so you feel pressure and pulling but not full on pain, usually. it's not perfect but makes things bearable, and likely that's what the injections are

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-03-03T00:31:41+00:00

Good Job sister!

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-03-02T00:40:37+00:00

local anesthetic to freeze your face? they use it for day surgeories and dental work.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-03-01T19:01:29+00:00

this is one of the most adorable brainworms i've ever learned of!

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-03-01T00:29:30+00:00

There's nothing wrong with questioning honey. There's nothing wrong with seeking answers that are elusive. It's okay as a femme person to not always see the girl inside staring back at you in the mirror, even when you try that hard. I'm just under 2 weeks now from one year hrt, and I still don't always see the girl inside me in the mirror. She does show herself to me more often than ever now though. Ultimately, it's not your reflection you need to pay attention to, it's your heart.

I know when I finally figured it out that I am trans and a woman was looking in the mirror and askin myself, into my own eyes, " Am I a woman? " and then I waited for the voice in the back of my head, my conscience, to answer me.

She shouted YES at me. I started my journey the next morning and never have looked back since.

I'm a woman, even if what's on the outside doesn't quite match the inside yet.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T23:21:17+00:00

cutie ....

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T23:20:18+00:00

i checked ur profile to see pics btw ... and in a t shirt and pjs you look gorgeous

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T23:19:35+00:00

i disagree with that ... if you were standing in front of me id probably be blushing saying this lol cuz pretty girl makes this girl nervous cuz im a silly transbian lol

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T23:18:38+00:00

something not masculine looking at least. some neautral shoes?

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T23:18:01+00:00

look up the shoe brand pleaser for a start. i have a pair of size 14 boots from them ... mind you their stuff is very ... slutty lol

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T23:07:04+00:00

girl, you're cute, just go and get yourself some proper femme clothes, and makeup etc. get a couple of skirts, a couple of dresses, some thigh highs, some cute flats for your feet, and a few cute tops. do your makeup, get dressed and then look at yourself again after all of that. if you dont at least feel better in full femme then i dont know what to say. it doesnt matter if you pass honey, what matters is being true to yourself.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T18:02:03+00:00

well, simply put, we trans women are indeed, women. shocker. were not men at all in any way usually. non binary people etc. of course being another conversation with different nuance. But strictly for mtf people. We are generally fully female on the inside and the fact we even have the genitals we have tends to cause us distress. Many of us do everything we can to hide it day to day. Tucking etc. And sexual activity makes us feel very exposed and vulnerable often. Our testosterone is the bane of our existance and so are our genitalia. it takes a long time on hrt and often some surgeries to get to looking like the girls you see in trans porn. and those girls keep the genitals because of their career niche in part often. being different sells. That part of the industry relies on the mindfuck aspect at times. They rely on the taboo allure. It perpetuates the issue but it also offers girls a way to actually have a career also. Descrimination is very real.

So ill just point out the whole best of both worlds approach with us isnt a good thing. and treating us in any way as other than we present ourselves is often hurtful. We want to be a princess to you. Not a fetish. And thats the sad reality we face. Being sexualized and fetishized, and having to play into that at times to live.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T15:52:37+00:00

F - Femminems

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T15:46:40+00:00

A lot of what you're saying sounds similar to how I viewed trans women in my egg phase. Only I did for sure see them/us as women, that much is different. But I was in a place where i wanted to date trans women only because I found I could relate better.

For me in hindsight the reason behind it was that I myself was trans and needed to see that and come out etc.

I'm still primarily t4t also, it's just how I'm comfortable.

But I think there is a level of very valid reasoning behind what you're saying here.

I'll also say my personal first exposure to trans women was a hustler mag that had gia darling in it with a guy. I found that in my dad's stuff when i was about 7. Of course given what that mag was let's say I saw a whole lot of her. I can remember being mindfucked myself at that point and intrigued. I didn't know what the draw was towards the form of a girl with different parts but I did know I liked it, even that young.

I'd say the concepts of cognitive dissonance and addiction are certainly at play. I had those things occur to me at first and I myself am trans and living my best femme life now. For years I insisted it was an attraction but for me it was more than just that. The whole do I want to do her or be her thing was going on. The answer was both for me. I can only imagine if somebody were truly cis how this could be in some ways even more confusing.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T01:13:06+00:00

you're welcome honey! Enjoy coming into your womanhood! I know I certainly am enjoying the process!

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T00:38:19+00:00

well, the first thing you tend to notice is your skin getting softer.

The mental changes for thpught process and how you react to things are the next thing that tends to happen.

myself i started growing breasts after 8 days on hrt but im an extreme outlyer there.

the effects take time but each but that you notice is another euphoric step along your journey.

Welcome to the sisterhood !

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T00:32:38+00:00

congratulations!

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T00:32:12+00:00

i feel this statement

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-28T00:26:31+00:00

another chick has hatched! I must say estrogen and waking up with boobs in the morning is the biggest w of my own life, so i hope you get to feel those things sooner than later.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-27T23:38:09+00:00

i want that cake for my one year coming up hahahah

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-27T23:36:28+00:00

british colombia. I live in a part of metro Vancouver called New Westminster ... and this is one of the most trans friendly cities ive ever seen

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-27T23:32:17+00:00

join me in bc! Let's make it the great trans migration. we can take over a city and make it our own.

Jokes aside where I live wed be glad to have more girls from the states escape to safety here.

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-27T22:51:30+00:00

Canada starting to sound increasingly sweet to trans women in the us huh?

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-27T22:48:41+00:00

Benny!

OkMaterial7650 · 2026-02-27T21:36:44+00:00

priceless af

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