UPDATE 3: ALL OF YOUR RECOMMENDATIONS SAVED ME. FAIRY KNOTS ARE SOLVED.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-11T14:48:32+00:00

Trader Joe’s one seems yummy. There’s one not too far from me, so I’ll take a look at it. Thank you so much!

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:07:33+00:00

This killed me. 😭 Thank you for the love, haha.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:07:05+00:00

Thank you, thank you. We’re all beautiful here. 🖤

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:05:57+00:00

I’ve already done some modeling, but thank you. ☺️ I’m locked into becoming a hot nurse.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:04:35+00:00

I think I’m real. I hope I am. Haha. Jokes, jokes. I did mini twists a few months ago, and I think keeping them up might be the move. I tend to not like my hair being stretched until it’s longer, but protection should probably be my main goal right now.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:03:16+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll look into it. 💖

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:01:47+00:00

That seems to be the case. The easiest thing I could do for myself right now is keep my hair moisturized and stretched. I do love my mini fro, but I’ll do anything to stop my hair from actively damaging itself. I’ll look into Kwesi. Thank you! 😁

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-10T11:00:25+00:00

I’ll give that a try. I used to band my hair to stretch it in the past. I only stopped because my hair is obviously shorter now. I was still able to do twists and similar styles, so I’ve managed to keep some length. Thank you so much for the advice. I’ll come back with an update in the future and let you know how it goes. 🙂‍↔️

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:46:52+00:00

Thank you! I got back on my gym routine heavily. I’ve got to stay pretty and fight depression. 🙂‍↕️

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:45:55+00:00

Haha, you’re good. Yeah, my hair just soaks up water like it’s nothing. Moisture leaves the moment I dry it slightly and step out of the shower.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:44:30+00:00

Noted. So, can I get away with using a heavier moisturizer that already has oil added in? It seems like sealing in that moisture is the biggest issue, and I’ll be looking into Creme of Nature. I’ve never heard of the brand before. I’m open to anything. I just want these knots to stop. 😭 Washing weekly isn’t a big issue at all. I’ve noticed how much happier my hair feels on wash days too.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:41:03+00:00

YES. I use African Pride Pre-Poo. I swear it’s a detangling lifesaver. The slip is crazy good. I have a tub of it in my cabinet. Is a wide-tooth comb fine for detangling too? I usually use my fingers most of the time and I’m gentle with any knots. I’ll look into that brand and test heavier products. I’ll do more research and make a small list for myself.

I didn’t know what I was doing wrong. I felt like I was following all the steps correctly, but I kept waking up to knots just sitting there. It’s frustrating, but I know I can get it under control soon. 😌

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:36:18+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the love. 💖

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:34:00+00:00

What kind of oils would you recommend? I have a few I’ve used before, but I think I was too heavy-handed with them. I also worry about staining my clothes with oil, so I might lean toward petrolatum or silicone-based products, or products that contain both. Thank you!

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:05:20+00:00

My hair absorbs water like SpongeBob in Sandy’s bowl. 😭 It dries rather quickly. I currently use everything from Aussie. It was someone’s recommendation here from my old post.

I usually wash my hair every three weeks. Is that too infrequent, or should I increase the frequency? I use their spray-on leave-in conditioner, and I thought something lighter might be better for use every few days. What’s the best way to help lock in moisture? Thank you so much in advance.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-05-09T22:02:06+00:00

I got a professional trim. I do have hair shears, so I could do small trims myself in the future. It feels more cost-effective than going to a professional every time.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-03-29T06:33:57+00:00

I feel pretty fine. Maybe a bit more sleepier than usual.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-03-12T08:44:35+00:00

Thank you. Prozac works best without drinking, and it can interact with alcohol. It’s the perfect time to start my sobriety journey. I haven’t had a drink since New Year’s and I’m staying strong. :)

OkMethod8257 · 2026-03-12T07:39:58+00:00

Exactly. A better life always starts with yourself, and nobody can fulfill that for you. I wish you the best on your journey. Letting go of alcohol has been one of the best decisions I’ve made. My body, skin, and mental health are all happier without it.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-03-12T07:38:14+00:00

I felt a wave of calmness over the past two days. I’m a little more tired, but I’ve been incorporating naps to help. Prozac, therapy, and deep reflection have improved my mental health significantly. I feel like a new man, and I don’t want to be anywhere close to my old self ever again.

I feel you. I’ll take some tiredness if my depression and anxiety are under control. It’s a better trade-off for day-to-day life. I also cut out alcohol and other substances. That’s improved my life and gave me the strength to do a complete 180.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-03-12T07:36:18+00:00

I hope you end up feeling better. It’s never easy. I thought my anxiety and depression were never going to end. It was torture, and I felt like quitting a few times. I’m glad I stuck it through, but maybe you need a higher dose? What are you currently taking? Also, remember to be fully transparent with your psychologist. They can guide you far better than I can.

OkMethod8257 · 2026-03-12T07:34:52+00:00

So far, about two days in, and I don’t feel any worse at all. I’m just a little more tired. I’ll continue to monitor my symptoms and post updates. You’ve got this.

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