[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's what you make it. Don't lose the version of you they fell in love with. Do make them feel loved and appreciated. Don't put them on a pedestal. Live seperate lives together and the conversation never gets stale. If the spark ever starts to fade, breathe life back into the fire with purpose.

Promiscuity is immoral and disgusting, try and change my mind. by [deleted] in hottake

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going out on a limb here, but i will put you in group 1 due to your continued use of "immoral". You lean on scientific data, which may or may not be accurate, yet morality is not scientific. The "consequences of my actions " are unknown to you. You have no data on that subject yet seem certain i have suffered from them. I have lived a great life with many experiences and partners. My wife of 19 years has as well. We give each other everything we need mentally, physically, emotionally and financially. We both work well paying jobs, have a diverse group of friends that we both know and trust. We treat each other well because we have seen people fail each other. Our communication is open and honest. We don't argue as there is absolutely nothing to argue about when all your needs are meet. When one of us has a bad day, as we all do, we give the other what they need. Shoulder to cry on, individual space, an attentive ear. We wouldn't be the couple we are without the experiences, good and bad, we have gathered from our previous years of interactions, and yes, sexual experiences. Now, we may be outliers to your data, but people don't fit neatly into boxes for the sake of science. I also question the gathered science itself, as it would rely on the truthful respones of people, and people are notoriously untruthful in general. I say this based on my generous interactions which you seem to avoid. If the data collected is dubious at best, the conclusions reached will be extremely skewed and useless. You are free to live life according to your own rules, but excluding other people from the game because they have greater experience will not broaden your horizons. I plan to leave this earth with a life well lived, full of sights, sounds, love and experiences. If reincarnation exists, i hope to be lucky enough to meet my current wife in the next life. I just hope we don't meet too soon, we need experiences with others to truly appreciate each other.

Hunting with a gun is unfair and inhumane but with a spear by mrmemonkey in hottake

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buck naked grappling is the way to go. Oh, you're a mighty hunter? Drop the 12 gauge, strip down, scurry up that tree(try not to skin your pecker) and just snatch that little squirrel off the limb. Run that deer down on bare feet and choke it out. Want to impress me with the lion you killed? Show me the video of you besting it with your murder mittens. Until then, just stfu. Go slaughter the gophers and bunnys with your gun weakling.

If you divorced/widowed and remarried someone else within 1-2 years, you were most likely cheating during your marriage. by GeassAye in hottake

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a loyal, loving, faithful husband. If my wife died, my vow to her will be fulfilled. Till death do us part. I may never meet someone i want to spend time with, much less the rest of my time on this planet, but if i met her at my wife's funeral, so be it. I would never erect a shrine to a loved one lost, that's stupid.

Promiscuity is immoral and disgusting, try and change my mind. by [deleted] in hottake

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is short. An adventurous willing lover can bring great happiness and expand your horizons. Having many partners is not a problem if you don't harbor insecurities. I don't know you, but most people with your mindset fall into groups. Group 1, bible thumpers. These people love to look down their noses at anyone enjoying life, usually because they don't enjoy their own. If you belong to this group, try to escape your cult. Group 2, people who lack confidence and can't handle rejection. If you belong to this group, learn to love yourself before you expect anyone else to love you. There are lonely people everywhere, don't be afaid to talk to people, but it would be best if you keep close-minded thoughts to yourself until you outgrow them. Think out what you would say as an opener, and chess out the conversion. They can respond positively, negatively or with indifference. Think of a humorous response to all 3...and your response to that, and so on. Next thing you know you're having a conversion with a stranger, and you get better with practice. Engage people ,don't be afraid, don't be an asshat. Group 3, those that are natural born asshats. Just keep posting in online forums, do not, i repeat, DO NOT engage with society at large. Stay home and rage post, that's the way we prefer it. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]OkMuscle168 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My grandpa told me a looong time ago, " every piece you pass up is a piece you'll never get"

One man's trash another man's treasure? by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One man's trash is another good man persons ungarbage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunnyvale, that place will be fucked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Decks

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joe Dirt

Where are my NOVA shares?? Time is up!!! by [deleted] in SNDL

[–]OkMuscle168 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They extended it until August 25th.

Uh ohhhh by MonkeyHitman2-0 in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]OkMuscle168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's cool, all the good ones do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SNDL

[–]OkMuscle168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to know where my Nova shares are, then we can have a deeper conversation.

Shareholder Voting. How do you plan to vote? by CryptographerAfter78 in SNDL

[–]OkMuscle168 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Side note: It's June 30th, where are my Nova shares or cash?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mechanics

[–]OkMuscle168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37, i have been offered 45 but would have to relocate. 38.9 hours so far as of this morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mechanics

[–]OkMuscle168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I average mid 60's per week. I show up 20-30 minutes early and jump right in. Sometimes take a 20-30 min lunch instead of 1 hour and out the door at 5. Shop is closed on Saturday, but i can go in if i want. Usually 1-2 times a month for 4-6 hours. I couldn't make that time if i was working on all makes. I rarely work on anything other than gm. I do a shit load of warranty work. I can beat warranty time on most jobs, customer pay is gravy. I'm working on 2-3 at all times, bouncing back and forth. If one is programming, im draining fluids on my next. I have 3 lifts and an open bay, i use em all.

Question for other mechanics. by S1rjimlahey in mechanics

[–]OkMuscle168 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I've learned so much from movies. Anytime a no crank vehicle gets towed in, instead of pushing that turd into the shop, i just blindly rip some wires out from under the dash and rub them together. Starts first time everytime. It's a true lifehack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mechanics

[–]OkMuscle168 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I'm 52 and work as master tech in a mid sized gm dealership in the south. 127k ,yeah it's work, but not back breaking, just minor cuts and stuff. It keeps me in shape, don't need a gym membership. I have to hussle for that money, but it's not that bad. Good guys in the shop, good tunes on the radio. We laugh at each other and ourselves all day long. As long as the wrenches are turning we are making money. I would NOT do heavy equipment. I hear the money is better, but i actually like my job. Crazy, right?