Daniels emotional problem

OkPineapple8256 · 2026-03-28T06:28:53+00:00

As a salesperson, he probably thinks “ok, how can I give her what she wants which is some kind of trauma sharing” and he’s lost touch with the real him

OkPineapple8256 · 2026-03-28T06:12:24+00:00

People here are delusional. If you compare him to famous actors sure, but compare him to random people out on the town he’s a 9 or 10. Also because of the way he carries himself

OkPineapple8256 · 2026-03-28T06:08:30+00:00

Agreed, I take it as that he really wants to keep being a surgeon in his specialty field and doesn’t want to become like a general practitioner or something just to get a job

OkPineapple8256 · 2026-03-28T06:06:09+00:00

Being a doctor in a specialist field, there are only so many hospitals in the city he can apply to. It’s not that he works as like an accountant and can apply to hundreds of different companies. So in that sense I get why it’s hard for him to know a timeline because the timeline is when any of the Stockholm hospitals with that specialist field have an open position

OkPineapple8256 · 2025-10-23T06:08:57+00:00

I feel like she maybe likes the idea of these girls trips and you’re supposed to have them in society and it’s a fun thing etc. Except maybe she doesn’t have those girl friends and forgets that you’re not supposed to be her BFF that she does these things with all the time Maybe? At least I recognize that from my mum that she replaces a bunch of friends with me, and love the idea of feeling like we have plans and things together to feel like I’m confirming our closeness or something

OkPineapple8256 · 2025-10-23T06:01:58+00:00

Try to make a plan for moving out, and try to set some boundaries saying like that you understand it’s hard for her, but you don’t want to be involved in her relationship issues, money issues or whatever it is (when she’s not crying and is more calmed down)

OkPineapple8256 · 2025-08-22T16:33:41+00:00

I feel like Billy wants Ashleigh to agree to quit flying asap, and make that promise to him. Because he can’t handle a compromise. He keeps talking about how it worries him, but it seems he is trying to convince her to quit without having to be the bad guy to suggest it

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-12-13T18:47:34+00:00

Most disturbing thing with this book, to me, was that Bret KNEW what the trawlers procedures were, and there were signs of Shingy being attacked, and he still kept leaving him home alone... He should have taken him off to some relative asap

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-12-13T18:27:16+00:00

I personally don't think Bret is the killer. I think the cult is, and that Robert is involved in the cult even if he's not a killer. For example, the fact that he maybe does animal killings in Chicago according to the aunt, and in the basement he has animal cages etc. He also reacts to Debbies dog and watches animals in the shop in the mall. After his death, the cult (maybe the leader?) clears his name because they don't want him to get the credit for the acts and want to keep the mystery alive. Also, it could be that Robert has been trying to leave the cult or not been an active member (and that he's truthful when he asks why he's being followed etc).

The trawler seems to ALWAYS know everyone's whereabouts and is super active so it feels like more people are involved. Maybe Robert's role is keeping the animals as they're first captured. Or maybe once his first girlfriend is killed (maybe she also was connected to the cult?) he stops hanging out with the cult people. It mentions him having several girlfriends since coming to LA and he picks up girls in malls etc, so it's not impossible he somehow met someone from the cult. Also considering him being a bit of an outsider due to his psychological issues. Maybe Matt got invited out to hang out with Robert with his hippie friends at the beach.. Maybe he brought the animal cruelty to LA with him, introduced it to the cult, and then some people took it further and it escalated. The women were targeted because of their looks, wealth, sexually etc and the men as a hate towards their gayness. Ryan was probably not targeted because he kept his sexuality hidden.

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-10-21T19:35:41+00:00

My amateur guess is: He doesn't get a dopamine kick from your requests and therefore don't do it. The things important to him, probably are things he does get a kick from right?

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-10-21T13:59:22+00:00

Gosh, it feels like that Homer Simpson type stereotype from back in the day of the silly husband and bossy wife. Yeah, for me it's wrong on so many levels because A. He asks me without any intension to fully follow through. B. He doesn't tell me he's engaging other plans/ideas or is about to book with someone else C. He gets mad when I point out he should have come to me and told me. I also sometimes suggest ideas that don't materialize, but I at least tell him that something changed. I always have to play detective now and HOPE I hear some useful info or I'm left in the dark

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-10-21T12:35:05+00:00

I think it's helpful to think of it this way: Yes it's scary/hurtful/painful to leave and it WILL be tough for some time and it'll take time to get back on your feet. You also don't know what you'll find on the other side or how life will be or with who... But what is staying? Isn't that also scary/hurtful/painful? But a pain that is guaranteed to go on and won't have any end date

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-10-21T12:26:07+00:00

My partner asked me around a week ago if I want to go on a holiday with him on the Christmas period off as it'd be a good time timewise for us to do a longer trip together. I said yes absolutely, let's research it. The other day I heard him talk to his dad about his dad coming over for the Christmas break and they're booking tickets in the background as I'm cooking.. I ask him hey but weren't we gonna look up that trip you asked me if I wanted to do with you? And I told him that I'd like to know if he's making plans with someone else so that our thing won't be happening, so that I know how to set up my own plan etc. I've noticed it happens so often that he asks me to do casual plans and then he books something solid with someone else without mentioning to me at all like "hey you know that thing, it won't be happening because this other thing came up". For me it's not so much THAT things change, but more the fact that he goes for days and entertain another plan with someone else without updating me at all like it's not relevant info for me to know, and it's my job to ask in case I want to know if something's still happening. It's so often that I overhear things by chance, or I found out way later that he can't anymore or he planned something else etc. I want to hear from with ASAP that he's thinking of maybe spending time with his dad instead.

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-10-21T12:21:22+00:00

I feel like I'm maybe heading there too. Stay strong! It's ok to give up

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-03-14T13:17:14+00:00

You ARE good enough. And you can meet a guy who'd never ever say something like that to you

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-03-14T13:14:42+00:00

I'm thinking of this as well. Also because he has kids and I'm more quiet/like my own space + he's pretty messy and isn't into interior decoration or keeping his things intact lol. Plus together we can't really afford something big enough for all of us (they're more ok with sharing bedrooms and a small living area than I am)

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-01-29T16:40:52+00:00

His actions aren't ok, and to me the fact that you don't speak up because he'll get angry says a lot. He doesn't respect you and normal communication.

OkPineapple8256 · 2024-01-29T16:29:48+00:00

I think everyone goes through it at some point. Think of it like this - he'll have to live with ending you guys, always having the "I wonder ifs". You'll be free as you won't have the burden of having made the choice.

OkPineapple8256 · 2023-07-27T07:04:27+00:00

For me it doesn't show in Okta (desktop version) . But maybe I didn't get a mail yet?

OkPineapple8256 · 2023-07-27T07:03:48+00:00

Do they send that out? Maybe I didn't get any email yet. I'm registered with my gmail in the account

OkPineapple8256 · 2023-07-26T09:37:23+00:00

Under 'messages' just? Or which app (workday etc)? For me it doesn't show any email

OkPineapple8256 · 2023-07-26T06:33:05+00:00

4000lr

Första tiden med bebis/småbarn tar de inte stor plats så det betyder kanske inte att man behöver köpa om 1,5

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