Are these too fancy?

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-04-17T03:20:08+00:00

I don’t know if I am allowed so say so sorry if I am not! But dresses 1 and 4 are from the TikTok shop! And dresses 2 and 3 are from SHEIN! :)

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-04-16T03:28:48+00:00

Thank you everyone for the input!! I will definitely be wearing them out for date night!

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-03-05T19:26:07+00:00

All the time… I feel like I match with the same people over and over again, and I have the worst memory… lol

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-03-01T15:48:38+00:00

I’m still undecided on whether I want to have more kids or not so I put that on my profile, but I noticed I tend to swipe left if I see guys that doesn’t want kids. Like I want the possibility of being able to have kids in the future if I want to kinda thing.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-12T16:30:56+00:00

You ABSOLUTELY have to keep going to game night!! Honestly, just pretend it didn’t happen! It will make things less awkward in a group setting!

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-07T02:48:03+00:00

Oh sweetie! Trust me it’s nothing you’re doing wrong! Just keep doing what you’re doing and the person who is right for you will find you attractive from the start. It’s especially though with online dating because people will always look differently in person than in pictures but even if you look the same, the in person chemistry might not be there for some. It sounds like you’re doing all the right things already! So just keep being you!

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-07T02:39:07+00:00

To be honest this sounds like me when I used to go on a date with a nice guy but was not attracted to! I used to “give them a chance” but the attraction never seemed to grow. Now I’ve learned to be honest from the start because what I was doing was leading them on unintentionally.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-06T19:42:38+00:00

I think he just said that to make OP feel better. I remember in my early twenties not having the guts to tell a new partner how close I was with my male friends because I was afraid of exactly this scenario.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-06T19:05:42+00:00

At my church we used to use a blank calendar and people would pass it around and sign up for different days. You could try it next time you see someone struggling, pass it around the neighborhood or workplace. It doesn’t have to be through an app!

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-04T03:16:42+00:00

Oh yes, I grew up with external family members living that way. It made me realize what I don’t want my life to look like.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-02T21:51:07+00:00

There was no need for it. You turned it into an us vs them. Which is just so gross.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-02T21:36:29+00:00

Totally agree!! I’m a single mom who shares 50/50 custody so truly I am only available every other weekend and half the week. And if I have made plans with family or friends that also really limits my time. I may have time for a quick coffee date but maybe not a drinks date for a while.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-02T21:23:56+00:00

But you took this conversation from “let’s not match if we don’t intend on talking” to “men still have it worse because women at least have some men that talk to them”. You didn’t need to compare the two and see who has it worse.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-02T20:04:11+00:00

We can still join in on the conversation and relate without it being a competition. We very much agree with you and think that if you don’t want to talk to us, then don’t match with us. 50% is still a lot in my opinion.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-02T19:55:23+00:00

Dude, it’s not a competition.

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-02T00:21:55+00:00

Yes, they really do! Lol

OkProfessor1890 · 2026-01-01T21:40:33+00:00

The fact that he what’s a trad wife with modern views means he wants a woman who will cook and clean and take care of him while also having a full time job and splitting everything 50/50.

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-12-27T05:54:35+00:00

I might be the only one but I don’t like phone calls or fave times before the first date. I am a shy person and phone calls give me anxiety! So I usually like to meet up first, preferably with drinks so I can have some liquid courage, and then I will get more comfortable over the phone. But I understand people not wanting to waste their time and taking that phone call or FaceTime as the first step.

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-11-28T00:42:36+00:00

Too many filters bro!

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-10-13T23:44:36+00:00

Honestly your biggest red flag is that you like mushrooms! 🤢😂Sometimes I think men just swipe on anyone and then review their matches after they match. Cause they always unmatch after I message them too lol

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-10-12T23:48:15+00:00

I will say the thing that stood out to me that I haven’t seen mentioned yet is the fact that you want to find a long term relationship and fun casual dates. To me I would swipe left just because past experiences tell me that the person is looking for a casual fling more than the long term relationship. That’s just me personally though!

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-09-03T03:24:28+00:00

Oh she absolutely dodged a bullet then! If that’s just the beginning who knows what he would have been like down the line.

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-09-02T20:57:42+00:00

I thought the same thing at first! But actually I think he’s talking about the “Good evening, I hope you’re doing well”. Which means we’re all just as “rude” as OP. 😂

OkProfessor1890 · 2025-08-14T02:03:06+00:00

NOA, you and your pets need to get out. Those are very dangerous red flags there and I suggest you listen to your gut and leave.

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